Cling!!! warning: RANT

[perks]

You've got a PM.

and you have a full box.

 

[BigDawg69]

Ok so I read through this entire thread.

















That's it Perky I aint ever callin you again! Goddamnit.

 

[Marxist]

and you have a full box.

Well if you'd just give me a holla on MSN or Yahoo or AIM...


OK, I'm cleared out and ready to receive a PM.

 

[perks]

I thought I called you.

anyway, is your MSN broken? I'm being clingy, aren't I?

 

[perks]

Well if you'd just give me a holla on MSN or Yahoo or AIM...


OK, I'm cleared out and ready to receive a PM.

so MSN me, let me see...

I'm perky_baby13@hotmail.com

and I haven't blocked you yet.

 

[BigDawg69]

I thought I called you.

anyway, is your MSN broken? I'm being clingy, aren't I?

Oh yeah, forgot that bit of detail

Hehehe, Perksalicious I'll never complain about you clinging to any part of me.

 

[Starfish]

Am I the only person here that thinks that this was a really shitty way of someone to tell another person to give them space?
We are all entitled to our room and our sanity. We are all also entitiled to get mad and frustrated when others don't respect our situation. However, do we have the right to adress a private matter to another person, on a public board. Well, maybe rights are what is important. I guess I just find it a little tastless. Even if no one knows who you are talking about, I bet a million bucks that the offender is feeling total humiliation inside because of this rant.

 

[perks]

Am I the only person here that thinks that this was a really shitty way of someone to tell another person to give them space?
We are all entitled to our room and our sanity. We are all also entitiled to get mad and frustrated when others don't respect our situation. However, do we have the right to adress a private matter to another person, on a public board. Well, maybe rights are what is important. I guess I just find it a little tastless. Even if no one knows who you are talking about, I bet a million bucks that the offender is feeling total humiliation inside because of this rant.

I bet, fishie, even you could have been kind enough to tell me this in PM too, right?

You might also think about the fact that I've tried everything else. Blunt conversations, blocking... everything but being public.

Judge me, I don't give a fuck. I'm not taking it back. I feel the same way I did before you brought it on yourself to chastise me.

If you need someone to get on because you're cranky, I understand that, but this isn't the place. You have no idea what the situation is.

Are we clear? Or do we need to discuss this further? I'd prefer to take it private.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Zamdrist]

Perks

I don't have your MSN bondage nickname, so I know it's not me!

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Starfish]

I bet, fishie, even you could have been kind enough to tell me this in PM too, right?

You might also think about the fact that I've tried everything else. Blunt conversations, blocking... everything but being public.

Judge me, I don't give a fuck. I'm not taking it back. I feel the same way I did before you brought it on yourself to chastise me.

If you need someone to get on because you're cranky, I understand that, but this isn't the place. You have no idea what the situation is.

Are we clear? Or do we need to discuss this further? I'd prefer to take it private.

First of all, you made it a public matter. If I pmd you about this, then it wouldn't make a lick of difference outside of your 'case'. No one would know what I think about this sort of thing. This was a public message, and I replied pubicly. THat is the way of it when you post a topic to the public.

Also, I just posted my opinion. If you want to think of it as being chastized, then I am sorry. You are entitled to do what ever you want, and I am entitled to give my opinon on things that I think are tasteless.


My being cranky has nothing to fucking do with it. I would post what I think if I was bleeding out of my ass, or if I had just won the lotto. I am highly fucking offended that you think this is a matter of my mood.

There is no need to discuss this in private. There is nothing to discuss, unless you want to turn this into a bitch fight, which is not what I intended by posting my OPINION of your choice. Had you expressed that you had tried OTHER options before this, and stated that you were at a final straw, then I might have noted otherwise. You give no clue to us that you have tried everything.

 

[perks]

You've got to be fucking kidding me.

You're offended?

You want a bitchfest, sugah, you've got one. You don't know anything about the situation. You ASSUMED it was about a specific person. To tell me my feelings are tastless, to question something you know nothing about is going off half-cocked.

Don't think that I've started this. Don't place this in my lap. You used the words "shitty way of dealing with someone" and "tastless".

Next time, do some research. If you are so sensitive to people's needs, so worried about whether anyone deals with people the right way, why don't you find out before you go judging people you know nothing about.

You're offended? I'm offended.
Thanks for your support, friend. I appreciate it.

 

[Zamdrist]

Rumble!

Leeeeeeets get ready to rumble!

<cool dance beat music, flashing strobe lights>

In the pink corner, in sexy ruffles we have the Scintillating Sarcasduck, she's tough, she's witty, look out for that bill!
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In the white corner we have the Fantastic, Philandering Fishie! She cute, she sharp, but don't let that fool you! She's got a tongue on her!

<cool dance beat music, flashing strobe lights>

 

[Starfish]

I want a bitch fight? righhhhtttt


A debate, discussion, whatever, maybe, but you are the one who has taken this to the level of pettiness by labling my morals as part of a mood I am in, when in fact they will hold true through any circumstances.

I clearly want to justify that I never assumed shit. You said what you said, and I found it tasteless. I didn't fill in any blanks. I just stated my thoughts on your actions. You are the one filling in the blanks with history you left out and then decided to act as if I should have assumed the situation to be something you didn't express.

I also want to CLEARIFY for future reference that I don't blindly support people. If one of my 'friends' does something I find tastless I stand up for my beliefs. I don't sway in my beliefs of right and wrong to keep 'friends'. Fuck, I don't even know the first fucking thing about you, but for that you are an artist. A good one at that, but that doesn't mean you used good judgement in your initial posting to create this thread. You didn't come here asking for advice from us. You bitched at whoever it is you are mad at and expected us all to think that it is fine to do that sort of thing without clearification of the background to the situation. You are presuming that I should know what is up, by telling me that I should have known better, but then tell me that I haven't got a clue. Uh, contradictions like this won't help me see your points.

Go on being offended that I didn't kiss your ass and play along with you on this one. I find it to go against my morals to. Why the fuck would I support you on something that I am against? Where is the character in that?

I never said I didn't understand your frustration. I never said I didn't understand why you were pissed. I just didn't understand why you did this. It isn't like I am fucking blind to your interests or your thoughts. I wasn't being cruel, I didn't chastize you. I didn't say you are of low moral character. I said that I thought this was a tastless and shitty way to deal with a problem like this.

Actually,I have disolved my being offended. I won't even bother. You catagorized my morals into a mood swing, and as petty as that may be, I am not about to waste my anger on you.

Have a blast fighting with yourself. I won't have anything to do with it.

 

[perks]

I'm glad you've justified everything to yourself.
I'm done with this thread.

Thanks, again.

 

[red_rose]

You didn't come here asking for advice from us. You bitched at whoever it is you are mad at and expected us all to think that it is fine to do that sort of thing without clearification of the background to the situation.

I don't know Perky very well either... but I think she was just looking for people to understand... possibly comiserate with her... as I did.

Quite frankly, I didn't even know if she was talking about someone from the boards or real life...

 

[Starfish]

You couldn't possibly have read that and let any of that absorb in less than two minutes. That is pathetic. I really appreciate your lack of concern for what I am saying to you. You already have your mind made up. You're pissed and that's it. Real admirable.

 

[Starfish]

I don't know Perky very well either... but I think she was just looking for people to understand... possibly comiserate with her... as I did.

Quite frankly, I didn't even know if she was talking about someone from the boards or real life...

Sure, we all need validation. We all need understanding.
However, She didn't ask for our advice or understanding though. She bitched a phantom person out over a private matter on a public board. I found that tasteless. Okay? What is wrong with that? I don't understand why she should be entitled to do what she wants but if anyone thinks it is tasteless and says so, that they are in the wrong.

She didn't ask us.... Hey people, if this was what was happening to you...... da da da da da da..... what would you do? Am I fucked up for being mad about someone being too clingy? Whatever... This was all about her anger and wanting to vent. Not about getting validation. Oh, that is what she got, but it isn't like she is a saint, exempt from repreve. We all do shit that isn't good. We can't learn from it if we aren't called on it. THat is life.
Tough shit. A real friend won't kiss your ass.


I've been in her shoes and told that I was tastless and out of line. I was not humble pie at first, but it sunk in because I care about others views of my actions.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Well fuck. I just got home from a shit on Morgy staff meeting. Not my rant...but I consider myself a very good friend of Perky's off the board as well as on. Sometimes ya just got to rant...everyone does it. No one's needs to be attacking anyone...

 

[kiwiwolf]

Well I managed to read and absorb all the posts from when Starfish came in to the end in less than 4 minutes, and while I'm no rocket scientist I'm pretty sure I understand all of it.

There was nothing wrong in what Perky did here. I have seen this sort of thing on a daily basis on this board, but have yet to see someone get slammed for doing it like this case is today. Perkys initial post stated clearly that she has this person blocked, and has told them to back off before. If the person concerned is still fucking around after being asked not to then in my book they get whats coming.

 

[Zamdrist]

Can't we all just get along?

 

[Starfish]

Gawdfuckingdammit I didn't slam/attack/whatever her! I gave my fucking opinion on this kind of thread. She didn't like it, so she insulted my morals.


Look, right, She is not the first to do this, and not the first to be told by me that I think it is lame to handle things like that. I have never attacked anyone over their being tastless. If you don't like my opinion, fuck it. I don't really give a shit. You can do what you want, and I can say I think it sucks if I want.

What is so fucking hard to understand about that?

 

[red_rose]

Sure, we all need validation. We all need understanding.
However, She didn't ask for our advice or understanding though. She bitched a phantom person out over a private matter on a public board. I found that tasteless. Okay? What is wrong with that? I don't understand why she should be entitled to do what she wants but if anyone thinks it is tasteless and says so, that they are in the wrong.

Nobody said that. This is an open forum... everyone is entitled to their opinion...

She didn't ask us.... Hey people, if this was what was happening to you...... da da da da da da..... what would you do? Am I fucked up for being mad about someone being too clingy? Whatever... This was all about her anger and wanting to vent. Not about getting validation. Oh, that is what she got, but it isn't like she is a saint, exempt from repreve. We all do shit that isn't good. We can't learn from it if we aren't called on it. THat is life.
Tough shit. A real friend won't kiss your ass.

No one asked her to post. No one asked for validation or comiseration. No one asked for anyone's opinions.

It just happens.

I agree with your comment on real friends... I hope my friends never kiss my ass. And if I'm right, I hope they stand up for me as well...

She did warn you this was a rant....

 

[Zamdrist]

Love is in the air...everywhere we go, love is in the air!