Climaxing During Intercourse

[southdakota2005]

I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm. But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life. I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked. Strangley, my ex husband was one of the few men who was able to bring me to my peak with just his cock. Too bad he preferred having cocks inside of him as well and eventually thought sex with me was disgusting. But it was good for the first few years.

Sometimes staring a man in the eyes while he's on top of me moving between my legs is all I need to have a satisfying sexual encounter.

Anyway, what about the experiences of others?

 

[harv]

Sounds like what my wife has always said. Even so, it makes me feel a little guilty when I get to cum during intercourse and she does not.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

 

[Handydan]

I've only been with one woman who could climax from me being in her. All the rest require some additional stimulation which I am always happy to provide.

 

[Sgts19]

I've never had any lucky getting my wife to orgasm from penetration, but a couple other men have done it.
She lovessss oral and I certainly get her off that way.

 

[Bi4Older84]

I think it's great that you realize what you need and aren't just assuming that sex is "bad" or "boring" because you aren't getting off from just PIV intercourse. I don't think enough people realize that what you've described is completely normal.

 

[Handydan]

I've never had any lucky getting my wife to orgasm from penetration, but a couple other men have done it.
She lovessss oral and I certainly get her off that way.

Mine loves oral as well. I'll go down on her for as long as she likes.

 

[Whynotyeahwhynot]

When I was younger I thought, maybe like a lot of men when this goes in she'll be cumming in no time. Oh boy how wrong I was, ok yeah some women cum in a few minutes of cock moving in their pussies. Then I learned to take time to enjoy her body, even if she thought she was ready I just kept on with the kissing caressing and licking. Your voice can turn a woman on just as much as touching and feeling. Learn to use your mind and your hands, lips and tongue. Explore her body watching out for signs of things that's getting her going. I've found this to be very successful in pleasuring women who might be afraid to let go.

 

[liqueur]

I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me...
Anyway, what about the experiences of others?

Most of the women I've been with have been able to cum on my penis (at least some of the time) so long as there had been ample relaxed foreplay with plenty of oral. A few have only been able to cum with oral. To my knowledge there were only a very few that didn't cum at all, and those were when I was young and dumb. I feel fairly safe in saying this, because most of the women I've been with have been very honest (painfully so, in some cases).

 

[Sgts19]

Mine loves oral as well. I'll go down on her for as long as she likes.

I'd love to meet who taught her

 

[Beth_Anne90]

If I'm on top and in control of the movements I can orgasm most of the time.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

I cannot have an orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. It took me an embarrassingly long time to realize this actually very normal. I used to think there was something wrong with me.

 

[Handydan]

I cannot have an orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. It took me an embarrassingly long time to realize this actually very normal. I used to think there was something wrong with me.

Nothing wrong at all that an eager tongue can't take care of.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

Nothing wrong at all that an eager tongue can't take care of.

I've been able to figure it out lol

 

[coffeelover5]

I've been able to figure it out lol

Wonderful

 

[Rob_Royale]

My wife is the same way. What we do is get her warmed up and ready with oral or my fingers and when we're ready for PIV we sandwich a small vibrating egg between us right on her clit. It sends her off like a rocket. If the angle is right where I'm hitting her g-spot, we're talking screaming orgasms folks. Thank goodness our nearest neighbour is a half mile away.

 

[JenniferLoves]

If I'm on top and in control of the movements I can orgasm most of the time.

Same and also my fav position.

 

[lil_jenni]

When I was younger, not only did I rarely climax from penetration, vaginal sex usually hurt unless I was quite buzzed or drunk, which of course made it even less likely I'd come without clitoral stimulation.

My first time with he would become Hubby was very different. I was buzzed but not drunk, and quite relaxed from already coming from some incredible tongue work (something I rarely let guys do back then because most were not good, and because I knew I could much better take care of myself later), so when he slid that thick cock in me, I was very, very ready. And fuck, did I come.

And it's been like that since with him... I can usually come from penetration alone, although there's almost always more going on than that.

 

[silky52]

Yes, took me many years to figure out that it was totally normal! I have seen posts that also say they can't orgasm without a toy! Toys are great, but they should not really be instead of the 'real' thing.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I have never had an orgasm from vaginal penetration alone either..
With my late husband (he's the only man I ever had orgasms with), when I rode cowgirl, I orgasmed. But that's because I was rubbing my clit on his pelvic bone..

 

[LauraLO]

Depends where my mind is...sometimes I can orgasm just thinking of being penetrated, but it always comes with something else. Even my mind needs some foreplay...I think it's knowing that I'm the true object of his attention and love making and that is always felt much earlier than his penis penetrating me. I was thinking about earlier responses from the women on this thread and several mentioned their fav position...and yikes I really don't have a favorite...it's my mood and what has been taking place prior to my orgasm...and the greedy me wants more than one so if he doesn't come ready to serve my dessert....not good. As I'm reflecting here (love this thread topic) it may be one of 12 reasons why I love women...we just know how to interpret and assist each other in our psychological, emotional and physical needs...alas we are quite complex are we not hahahahahahaha

 

[magicalmoments]

My wife sounds exactly like the OP. She says she's only cum twice from penetration, once with me and once with a former partner before we hooked up. Her preference is for being licked to orgasm. She's trained me to be an expert at oral sex for women. She enjoyed penetrative sex, just never came from it

My first wife was the complete opposite. She came easily and quickly from penetration. She loved having something inside her cunt, be it cock, dildo, zucchini, fingers, anything phallic. It didn't need to be big, a single finger was enough if it was used hard and rough. She did not like having her clit stimulated directly by fingers or tongue, she claimed it was far too sensitive.

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

If I'm on top and in control of the movements I can orgasm most of the time.

I only knew one girlfriend that could do this without any fingers or toys on her clit or nipples..

 

[LusciousLili]

I can cum when I masturbate and once came from oral. Intercourse, not yet.

 

[Rob_Royale]

I can cum when I masturbate and once came from oral. Intercourse, not yet.

I recommended to everyone who requires clitoral stimulation for orgasm to include something like this to your bedroom play. Small enough not to embarrass your man like a big vibe might, but when sandwiched between you, will take PIV sex to a whole new level.

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

I recommended to everyone who requires clitoral stimulation for orgasm to include something like this to your bedroom play. Small enough not to embarrass your man like a big vibe might, but when sandwiched between you, will take PIV sex to a whole new level.

View attachment 2538235

My ex used something similar to get her O when she was on top riding me.