Choosing a larger vibrator

[slowpoking]

This is a follow-up to a recent thread about where to find large vibrators. I appreciated the tips that people gave.

Now I have a slightly different question. I'm trying to decide on the size. A few months ago my wife started using a vibrator with a diameter of 1 3/4 inches. She loves it but says she'd like to try something thicker.

It looks like there's a variety available in 1/4-inch increments. I'm leaning toward 2 1/4 just based on the idea that 2 inches might not give her the stretch she wants but an increase of 3/4 inches -- to 2 1/2 -- might be too much of a jump. But I recognize the flimsiness of that logic, as well as the fact that I can't really relate to her experience here. (Nor am I interested.)

So I'd be grateful for any input from women who at some point tried bigger vibrators or dildos. Is it best to creep up slowly, or did you make bigger jumps that turned out pleasureable. I realize every woman's different but some general comments would help.

Thanks.

 

[miaction69]

i've never used huge
but slightly bigger then big can cause injury to some
stock standard is pretty good

 

[infinity706]

I'd go slowly unless her vagina is readily able to accomodate serveral fingers at the same time as her current toy. Of course, if she ever makes it to 2 1/4 you could honestly fuck her with some of the smaller diameter baseball bats. Ideally, you'd want to get her well warmed up first and use a metal bat, though.

 

[AmandaJane]

Go to the produce department first

Finding the right size dildo can be a challenge. I have drawer full of toys, at $40-70 dollars a piece, that "fell short" or were just to large to be comfortable. Unfortunately, they not the kind of things to can sell on ebay! Therefore, I would strongly suggest that you visit your local market and shop for various size zuchinnies, crook neck squash and cucumbers. Then go home and experiment Don't forget the condoms!!

 

[slowpoking]

Off to the grocery

I like the idea of using vegetables to test different sizes. Now that you mention it, we did experiment with a good-sized cucumber once several years ago. I seem to remember she enjoyed it.

I think we may try cukes again. Green zucchinis have that texture that seems to grip, and the stems can be rough and woody.

Think it's okay to take a tape measure?

 

[Man_in_Chester]

A work colleague told me of a show he had seen in Berlin where a woman sat on a beer bottle. All of it disapeared. I think she practiced.

 

[slowpoking]

That's funny -- we had just one experience with a bottle, and it was also in Germany. Only time she's been. In a hotel hot tub. We each drank a beer, then she sat up and started sliding hers into her cunt. After a minute she asked me to tweek her nipples then fucked herself 'til she came. Said later that she only intended a little tease at first but it felt surprisingly good.

She didn't take the whole thing -- just the neck -- but it was hot nonetheless.

 

[LaSalsa]

This is a follow-up to a recent thread about where to find large vibrators. I appreciated the tips that people gave.

Now I have a slightly different question. I'm trying to decide on the size. A few months ago my wife started using a vibrator with a diameter of 1 3/4 inches. She loves it but says she'd like to try something thicker.

It looks like there's a variety available in 1/4-inch increments. I'm leaning toward 2 1/4 just based on the idea that 2 inches might not give her the stretch she wants but an increase of 3/4 inches -- to 2 1/2 -- might be too much of a jump. But I recognize the flimsiness of that logic, as well as the fact that I can't really relate to her experience here. (Nor am I interested.)

So I'd be grateful for any input from women who at some point tried bigger vibrators or dildos. Is it best to creep up slowly, or did you make bigger jumps that turned out pleasureable. I realize every woman's different but some general comments would help.

Thanks.

I really think the stock size is best...made that mistake of buying bigger and got way too excited using it, was sore, not in good way, the next day and....didn't enjoy husband as much when I saw him two days later.

 

[LaSalsa]

I like the idea of using vegetables to test different sizes. Now that you mention it, we did experiment with a good-sized cucumber once several years ago. I seem to remember she enjoyed it.

I think we may try cukes again. Green zucchinis have that texture that seems to grip, and the stems can be rough and woody.

Think it's okay to take a tape measure?

Oh my, forgot about banana, nice curve and can choose firmness.

 

[FloridaCouple]

By a John Holmes UR3 dildo at AdamEve.com. Use water soluble lube. John is 2 1/2" diameter, and it will fill er up. Also buy an Hitachi Magic Wand as her vibrator. Use both at same time, and she'll love you forever

 

[shewantsmore]

just because its big dont mean it will work any better than a smaller model unless your going just for size

 

[slowpoking]

update: wow

I've been too busy to write for awhile, but I wanted to report back about our search for a larger vibrator. It veered off-course a bit then ended being one of the most remarkable things I've ever witnessed.

There's a sex toy shop an hour away, so we decided to visit a few weeks ago. On the way, we stopped at a grocery -- tape measure in hand -- and picked up three cucumbers of varying thickness. We sort of planned for her to try them on for size on the way, but it didn't work out, so we reached the store no better off than when I started the thread. (To rehash, she was looking for something thicker than her 1 3/4-inch vibrator, but we weren't sure of how much thicker.) At that point, it seemed the cukes had been a waste of time.

The toy store had a pretty extensive inventory, but only a few large vibrators. (There was more selection if you were looking for non-vibrating dildoes, but she really likes the vibration.) So we bought one that was 2 1/4 inches, soft skin with a hands-free controller. Then we headed for bed.

I should mention that we'd both been teasing each other for several days, so it had been a big build-up. To say we were horny is an understatement. I won't go into everything we did, but eventually she was ready for her toys. I had everything laid out on the bedside table -- old toy, cucumbers, new toy, lube and camera. We decided to start with the smallest and work our way up.

First came the old toy, followed by the smallest cucumber, which was a bit less than 2 inches thick, the middle one (2 1/4) and the new toy. In each caseb she'd start off slow, stroking in and out cautiously, but seemed to take them fairly easily. And she went through them pretty quick. In about five minutes she was asking for the big cucumber.

It was almost 2 3/8 thick, and it was nearly round -- unlike the new toy, which has an oval cross-section -- so its circumference was disproportionately large, if that makes sense. It was big, and it looked it, especially when she held it to her cunt. As she pushed in it took her lips with it. She went slow and took a few strokes to get used to it, but she never had trouble or expressed discomfort. Within a few minutes she was taking about half of it. I didn't measure the length, but would guess it was about 10 inches. She said she wished she had something even bigger to try.

I was amazed that she could handle something so large, and extremely turned on, though it's hard to say exactly why. I always love to watch her sexual response, but I've seen that many times, of course, when big toys weren't involved. Maybe it's superficial, but I think the size said something to me about her sexual capacity. Seeing that it felt so good and seeing her use it like a tool made her seem like a very sexual being in my eye. I'm always proud of her, but this just gave me another reason. It was also the hottest thing I'd ever seen... at least for one night.

I awoke grudgingly the next morning to a buzzing sound. She was working on herself with her old vibrator and a little g-spot vibe. She was already pretty worked up and asked for help. This time we went straight for the biggest cucumber, and it was a completely different game. She adjusted to it quickly and wanted more, asking me to slip a finger in with it. When I did, the mouth of her pussy felt like a thin, hard ring of cartilige, like it was stretched to the limit. She said it hurt but in a good way and to keep doing it. I started thrusting finger and cucumber in and out together. She squawked in pain but said that felt even better.

I'm usually cautious about how I handle her. In the past she seemed to have a shallow pussy, shallow enough that my cock would bottom out and hurt her if I thrust too deep, so I'm usually afraid of hurting her. This time it occurred to me that I needn't worry. I wasn't comfortable continuing with the finger but started fucking her fast with just the cucumber. Not rabbit fast, but pretty rapid, long strokes -- all the way out and all the way in. She loved it. It went on for about 20 minutes, her working on her clit with the vibrator, the cucumber fucking her hard and fast much of the time. Eventually she had one of the biggest orgasms I've seen her have.

I assumed that would be all, but she wanted to fuck. She felt loose at first but quickly adjusted to my size. In fact she was a little tighter than usual, as if a little swollen. She wanted it hard, and I gave it to her for about 10 minutes before I had to stop. She was shaking a little and whimpering for more, but I was worn out.

Despite its size, she ended up not too interested in the new vibrator. It's not very stiff, and that's a detriment for her. The cucumbers were a huge hit, though, and we've been back to the produce aisle a few more times.

I can write more about that later; this post is long enough already.

 

[Holly1990]

Finding the right size dildo can be a challenge. I have drawer full of toys, at $40-70 dollars a piece, that "fell short" or were just to large to be comfortable. Unfortunately, they not the kind of things to can sell on ebay! Therefore, I would strongly suggest that you visit your local market and shop for various size zuchinnies, crook neck squash and cucumbers. Then go home and experiment Don't forget the condoms!!

Oh no, what a waste! I only have one toy! hehe

 

[DarkBee]

Whatever you decide to buy, don't buy this one:

http://www.xvideos.com/video63054/doing_big_blue_monster_dildo

 

[KrissyMarti]

Whatever you decide to buy, don't buy this one:

http://www.xvideos.com/video63054/doing_big_blue_monster_dildo

OMFG! Was that video for real!?!? That was INSANE!!

 

[LaSalsa]

WOW...can't ....process any other words....

 

[slowpoking]

cucumbers

Here are a couple photos to accompany my 9/3 post. Both show the largest cucumber.

 

[Justweird]

I've been too busy to write for awhile, but I wanted to report back about our search for a larger vibrator. It veered off-course a bit then ended being one of the most remarkable things I've ever witnessed.

There's a sex toy shop an hour away, so we decided to visit a few weeks ago. On the way, we stopped at a grocery -- tape measure in hand -- and picked up three cucumbers of varying thickness. We sort of planned for her to try them on for size on the way, but it didn't work out, so we reached the store no better off than when I started the thread. (To rehash, she was looking for something thicker than her 1 3/4-inch vibrator, but we weren't sure of how much thicker.) At that point, it seemed the cukes had been a waste of time.

The toy store had a pretty extensive inventory, but only a few large vibrators. (There was more selection if you were looking for non-vibrating dildoes, but she really likes the vibration.) So we bought one that was 2 1/4 inches, soft skin with a hands-free controller. Then we headed for bed.

I should mention that we'd both been teasing each other for several days, so it had been a big build-up. To say we were horny is an understatement. I won't go into everything we did, but eventually she was ready for her toys. I had everything laid out on the bedside table -- old toy, cucumbers, new toy, lube and camera. We decided to start with the smallest and work our way up.

First came the old toy, followed by the smallest cucumber, which was a bit less than 2 inches thick, the middle one (2 1/4) and the new toy. In each caseb she'd start off slow, stroking in and out cautiously, but seemed to take them fairly easily. And she went through them pretty quick. In about five minutes she was asking for the big cucumber.

It was almost 2 3/8 thick, and it was nearly round -- unlike the new toy, which has an oval cross-section -- so its circumference was disproportionately large, if that makes sense. It was big, and it looked it, especially when she held it to her cunt. As she pushed in it took her lips with it. She went slow and took a few strokes to get used to it, but she never had trouble or expressed discomfort. Within a few minutes she was taking about half of it. I didn't measure the length, but would guess it was about 10 inches. She said she wished she had something even bigger to try.

I was amazed that she could handle something so large, and extremely turned on, though it's hard to say exactly why. I always love to watch her sexual response, but I've seen that many times, of course, when big toys weren't involved. Maybe it's superficial, but I think the size said something to me about her sexual capacity. Seeing that it felt so good and seeing her use it like a tool made her seem like a very sexual being in my eye. I'm always proud of her, but this just gave me another reason. It was also the hottest thing I'd ever seen... at least for one night.

I awoke grudgingly the next morning to a buzzing sound. She was working on herself with her old vibrator and a little g-spot vibe. She was already pretty worked up and asked for help. This time we went straight for the biggest cucumber, and it was a completely different game. She adjusted to it quickly and wanted more, asking me to slip a finger in with it. When I did, the mouth of her pussy felt like a thin, hard ring of cartilige, like it was stretched to the limit. She said it hurt but in a good way and to keep doing it. I started thrusting finger and cucumber in and out together. She squawked in pain but said that felt even better.

I'm usually cautious about how I handle her. In the past she seemed to have a shallow pussy, shallow enough that my cock would bottom out and hurt her if I thrust too deep, so I'm usually afraid of hurting her. This time it occurred to me that I needn't worry. I wasn't comfortable continuing with the finger but started fucking her fast with just the cucumber. Not rabbit fast, but pretty rapid, long strokes -- all the way out and all the way in. She loved it. It went on for about 20 minutes, her working on her clit with the vibrator, the cucumber fucking her hard and fast much of the time. Eventually she had one of the biggest orgasms I've seen her have.

I assumed that would be all, but she wanted to fuck. She felt loose at first but quickly adjusted to my size. In fact she was a little tighter than usual, as if a little swollen. She wanted it hard, and I gave it to her for about 10 minutes before I had to stop. She was shaking a little and whimpering for more, but I was worn out.

Despite its size, she ended up not too interested in the new vibrator. It's not very stiff, and that's a detriment for her. The cucumbers were a huge hit, though, and we've been back to the produce aisle a few more times.

I can write more about that later; this post is long enough already.

I know this is a little off what u are saying but still same thing. Perhapss u could try fisting her. I never thought my hand would fit inside my wife, she was like 20 at the time and had only had sex with 2 other men. I am 8" and somewhat thick. We started just playing with me going down on her and using my fingers and just kept putting 2-3-4 & then tucked my thumb in. She is not afraid of telling me to stop if she don't like somethingg. Well got my hand in and fucked her with it, hard and deep, I was able to make fist and push and pull it out until she got off, what a strong feeling having her squezzing like that. So perhaps u could work it that way. U say it turns u on to see the big things in her so here's a way to really enjoy. PS NEVER NEVER PUT A BOTTLE IN HER IF GLASS, IF SOMETHING HAPPENED AND IT BROKE VERY SERIOUS DAMAGE CAn and has occurred to women and men Take care and enjoy RJ

 

[slowpoking]

I know this is a little off what u are saying but still same thing. Perhapss u could try fisting her. I never thought my hand would fit inside my wife, she was like 20 at the time and had only had sex with 2 other men. I am 8" and somewhat thick. We started just playing with me going down on her and using my fingers and just kept putting 2-3-4 & then tucked my thumb in. She is not afraid of telling me to stop if she don't like somethingg. Well got my hand in and fucked her with it, hard and deep, I was able to make fist and push and pull it out until she got off, what a strong feeling having her squezzing like that. So perhaps u could work it that way. U say it turns u on to see the big things in her so here's a way to really enjoy. PS NEVER NEVER PUT A BOTTLE IN HER IF GLASS, IF SOMETHING HAPPENED AND IT BROKE VERY SERIOUS DAMAGE CAn and has occurred to women and men Take care and enjoy RJ

Fisting is an interesting suggestion, JW. I wasn't even thinking about it -- probably because she discounted the idea not long ago. (She heard the term mentioned some place and asked what it meant; when I told her she said, "Well we're not doing that!") She's been squeamish even about being fingered since the birth of our son. (And yet she's hooked on inserting vegetables?! Oh well, I don't pretend to understand; I just try to enjoy.)

Even if she got over her aversion to fingers and hands, I think my fist would be too large -- at least for now. Since our night of the 3 cucumbers she's moved up to a yellow squash that was 2 1/2 inches in diameter with a circumference of 8 1/2 inches. With this she said she finally felt stretched to her limit. Said it was the stretch she'd been seeking, but she felt no desire to try bigger. We had an even bigger squash waiting in reserve that night, but it went unused.

Anyway, after reading your suggestion I measured my folded hand and got a circumference of about 9 1/8 inches, so I think that's too big. The only caveat is that it occurred to me that repeated use of such large objects might increase the size of what she's able to accommodate. Maybe if she uses 2 1/2-inchers a few times she'll be ready to go bigger?

I don't know how this works, but I think we'll find out. She's really into produce right now. About half of her grocery trips include searches for things with which to fuck herself -- without prodding from me. And a couple nights a week she'll stop in the kitchen on her way to bed, wiggling her eyebrows as she climbs the stairs.

It's been quite an exploration so far, and a lot of fun.

 

[RockiesFan74]

I would go slowly up size by size, don't jump to really big al the sudden or you may hurt yourself. That's a very awkward doctors visit I'm sure. Don't go any bigger than what is comfoartable for you.