arielsgoddess
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There are variations on this chocolate S&M
I don't have the patience to sift through 50+ pages to see if anyone else suggested these, so here goes:
1) Hot Chocolate. You take some of the harder chocolates--usually semisweet 'brick' type chocolate, like you find at stores with serious baking sections. The kind that is used for making chocolate ganache--the 'artistic chocolate' you referenced in your original post. You will want to mix some softer chocolate into it--such as Hersheys or the sweeter chocolate chips, to make it a little more pliable, and also so that you also don't have to heat it up so high for melting. Think about a 3:2 ratio of hard to soft chocolate. If you're a culinary master, you should know how to melt it in an enormous double boiler--the more chocolate, the better the game. If you're a basic kinda guy, get square tupperware containers the same size as your microwave and melt on 'medium', occasionally stirring the chocolate to get a good consistency. This will take alot of containers this way, if you are making alot of chocolate paste. Remember to heat-up not long before use--so the first half of the dishes heat to hotter than you want them (just short of boiling) and cover tightly with foil and then an ordinary towel to hold its consistency--plastic wrap melts! THis game works better for a 'team' or group party (think the ultimate topless party). That way turns can be taken with some people preparing the choclate while others are playing. Directions for play: All participants must be atleast topless. This is a very sensuous and exhilarating game for S&M's of any sex or preference, especially for the feeling on the nipples. The 'receiver' is more excited and exciting if hands are tied unpainfully behind the back, to push the chest out more. The first phase involves a certain degree of pain tolerance. You should be able to hold your finger all the way into the bowl of ALREADY WELL STIRRED CHOCOLATE (to make sure there are no scalding pockets in the liquid) without wanting to pull your finger out, even if it feels hot to the touch. Add whatever else excitement and bondage foreplay you want to the game, then begin pouring gobs of the thick, still liquid chocolate teasingly onto the chest. The best technique is to draw-out the sensation more by doing it in spurts and thinly poured coatings (kitchen spoons work great for that), so that it has a chance to start hardening, and you can continue to add layers and cover larger--and other--areas. Remember Magic Shell? That stuff was Magic until it got warm, because the melting point was too low in the soft chocolate sauce--that's why you need the ganache--the higher the ganache ratio, the harder the erotic shell on your playmate. (Experiment to your preference on hardness results). Once the shell forms, a thin one can be easily cracked off of hairless skin. A thickly layered shell can be exciting--like a form of bondage in itself--all the senation and appeal is there--with the 'breaking of bonds' as you wrestle around. This is one of "the TarpGoddess Specials", like my group wrestling post in PoetryOrgy: I recommend doing it over a tacked-down plastic sheet or hardwood floor that is coated to prevent stains from food. For men with hairy chests, and application of shells to pubichair regions (this is extremely fun on the penis if the guy has a good heat tolerance), you can try oiling with food or body oil first--one friend swears by butter/margarine--but the only surefire way is to tightly wrap those areas with a single layer of plastic wrap first--almost all the sensation, without adherence problems. Keep special comsiderations in mind for piercings--since they retain heat, those areas do not harden as easily, but the effects can be interesting. After the coating is applied, it can either be broken by straining against bonds, mutual wrestling or eaten-off the receiver by the artist or another player. I wholly recommend a mutual tubbath or group shower afterwards--hygience is very important on piercings and genitals. Any kind of food play--and sugary play is one of the higher-risk--can cause increased risks for infections, so have fun & do a good job of cleaning afterwards. An advanced variation: add flavorings and foodcolors to your chocolate (cinnamon is always popular), and for repeats of the game, add blindfolds for the receiver AND the artist--wild fun!!!
Variation 2) Candlewax. Use softwax candles (not traditional candles, soy or gel/liquid candles--these cause severe burns and do not have the sensuous feeling you are going for)--a good beeswax&oil blend works best, and can often be found at discount stores--if not, visit your local craftstore and ask for help making soft-wax candles--just don't buy the wix or molds. Scented waxes add to the eroticism--if you are making your own wax, get a bottle of your favorite perfume or cologne--musk-oil based ones work best, but if you prefer hippie scents, you can grind a little of your fave incense to powder and add to the way. Just be careful with certain florals and acidic scents--they can cause allergic reactions or chemical burns--and remember that the hint of scent is always better than too much. Aroma can turn to odor. Doing diff scents can make this a good repeat game. For advanced players, try spices--clove, cinnamon, etc--just watchout for hotpeppers or certain strong-flavored or acidic foods. When heated their properties can change, making them alot stronger, running the risk of allergy or other bad experiences. The advanced blindfold option works well here for the receiver but NOT the artist--wax can be dangerous (such as in the ears, which are not protected by a blindfold, and can mean a trip to the ER) or painful (in the hair, etc). One erotic advantage to the wax is it does not melt& smear as easily as the chocolate, but it also is not edible. However, the pliableness of the wax shell is very stimulating when peeled off. Again, oiling and plasticwrap and piercing considerations should be made. Cleanup of the bodies is simpler, as the wax usually leaves a slight oil-and-scent residue, which can be erotic in itself. It is not recommend on the genitals, but it is enjoyable on both male and females in all other areas. Sometimes the wax shells can be saved as an artistic souvenir, for those that are into it. Anyone interested in further pointers or other ideas, PM me--hope this was good info for you, Discus.
Ariel
I don't have the patience to sift through 50+ pages to see if anyone else suggested these, so here goes:
1) Hot Chocolate. You take some of the harder chocolates--usually semisweet 'brick' type chocolate, like you find at stores with serious baking sections. The kind that is used for making chocolate ganache--the 'artistic chocolate' you referenced in your original post. You will want to mix some softer chocolate into it--such as Hersheys or the sweeter chocolate chips, to make it a little more pliable, and also so that you also don't have to heat it up so high for melting. Think about a 3:2 ratio of hard to soft chocolate. If you're a culinary master, you should know how to melt it in an enormous double boiler--the more chocolate, the better the game. If you're a basic kinda guy, get square tupperware containers the same size as your microwave and melt on 'medium', occasionally stirring the chocolate to get a good consistency. This will take alot of containers this way, if you are making alot of chocolate paste. Remember to heat-up not long before use--so the first half of the dishes heat to hotter than you want them (just short of boiling) and cover tightly with foil and then an ordinary towel to hold its consistency--plastic wrap melts! THis game works better for a 'team' or group party (think the ultimate topless party). That way turns can be taken with some people preparing the choclate while others are playing. Directions for play: All participants must be atleast topless. This is a very sensuous and exhilarating game for S&M's of any sex or preference, especially for the feeling on the nipples. The 'receiver' is more excited and exciting if hands are tied unpainfully behind the back, to push the chest out more. The first phase involves a certain degree of pain tolerance. You should be able to hold your finger all the way into the bowl of ALREADY WELL STIRRED CHOCOLATE (to make sure there are no scalding pockets in the liquid) without wanting to pull your finger out, even if it feels hot to the touch. Add whatever else excitement and bondage foreplay you want to the game, then begin pouring gobs of the thick, still liquid chocolate teasingly onto the chest. The best technique is to draw-out the sensation more by doing it in spurts and thinly poured coatings (kitchen spoons work great for that), so that it has a chance to start hardening, and you can continue to add layers and cover larger--and other--areas. Remember Magic Shell? That stuff was Magic until it got warm, because the melting point was too low in the soft chocolate sauce--that's why you need the ganache--the higher the ganache ratio, the harder the erotic shell on your playmate. (Experiment to your preference on hardness results). Once the shell forms, a thin one can be easily cracked off of hairless skin. A thickly layered shell can be exciting--like a form of bondage in itself--all the senation and appeal is there--with the 'breaking of bonds' as you wrestle around. This is one of "the TarpGoddess Specials", like my group wrestling post in PoetryOrgy: I recommend doing it over a tacked-down plastic sheet or hardwood floor that is coated to prevent stains from food. For men with hairy chests, and application of shells to pubichair regions (this is extremely fun on the penis if the guy has a good heat tolerance), you can try oiling with food or body oil first--one friend swears by butter/margarine--but the only surefire way is to tightly wrap those areas with a single layer of plastic wrap first--almost all the sensation, without adherence problems. Keep special comsiderations in mind for piercings--since they retain heat, those areas do not harden as easily, but the effects can be interesting. After the coating is applied, it can either be broken by straining against bonds, mutual wrestling or eaten-off the receiver by the artist or another player. I wholly recommend a mutual tubbath or group shower afterwards--hygience is very important on piercings and genitals. Any kind of food play--and sugary play is one of the higher-risk--can cause increased risks for infections, so have fun & do a good job of cleaning afterwards. An advanced variation: add flavorings and foodcolors to your chocolate (cinnamon is always popular), and for repeats of the game, add blindfolds for the receiver AND the artist--wild fun!!!
Variation 2) Candlewax. Use softwax candles (not traditional candles, soy or gel/liquid candles--these cause severe burns and do not have the sensuous feeling you are going for)--a good beeswax&oil blend works best, and can often be found at discount stores--if not, visit your local craftstore and ask for help making soft-wax candles--just don't buy the wix or molds. Scented waxes add to the eroticism--if you are making your own wax, get a bottle of your favorite perfume or cologne--musk-oil based ones work best, but if you prefer hippie scents, you can grind a little of your fave incense to powder and add to the way. Just be careful with certain florals and acidic scents--they can cause allergic reactions or chemical burns--and remember that the hint of scent is always better than too much. Aroma can turn to odor. Doing diff scents can make this a good repeat game. For advanced players, try spices--clove, cinnamon, etc--just watchout for hotpeppers or certain strong-flavored or acidic foods. When heated their properties can change, making them alot stronger, running the risk of allergy or other bad experiences. The advanced blindfold option works well here for the receiver but NOT the artist--wax can be dangerous (such as in the ears, which are not protected by a blindfold, and can mean a trip to the ER) or painful (in the hair, etc). One erotic advantage to the wax is it does not melt& smear as easily as the chocolate, but it also is not edible. However, the pliableness of the wax shell is very stimulating when peeled off. Again, oiling and plasticwrap and piercing considerations should be made. Cleanup of the bodies is simpler, as the wax usually leaves a slight oil-and-scent residue, which can be erotic in itself. It is not recommend on the genitals, but it is enjoyable on both male and females in all other areas. Sometimes the wax shells can be saved as an artistic souvenir, for those that are into it. Anyone interested in further pointers or other ideas, PM me--hope this was good info for you, Discus.
Ariel
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