Chicks don't have fetishes ...

[CharleyH]

they merely like things.

I have been thinking of fetish, and I seriously believe that women have interests and fantasies about objects and body parts, but fetishes? I am sure more men have those!

 

[Liar]

What makes ya think that?

 

[scheherazade_79]

How would you define a fetish?

 

[CharleyH]

they merely like things.

I have been thinking of fetish, and I seriously believe that women have interests and fantasies about objects and body parts, but fetishes? I am sure more men have those!

In fact, about 10% of women have fetishes, actually less.

 

[CharleyH]

What makes ya think that?

Research. Experience.

 

[Lauren Hynde]

Research. Experience.

My experience shows the opposite. Men are easy. Their brains shut down at the possibility of impending sex. Fetishism usually implies the presence of neurological activity.

 

[CharleyH]

How would you define a fetish?

A bit of an obsession you can't really orgasm without? The word as we use it losely, does not fit the current definition. What is fetish? Obsession with an object and can't get off without it being there.

Edit to add: women are more partialist than fetishists.

 

[scheherazade_79]

A bit of an obsession you can't really orgasm without? The word as we use it losely, does not fit the current definition. What is fetish? Obsession with an object and can't get off without it being there.

... no. In that case I don't have one of those. Variety is the spice of life. Maybe it's just a guy-thing after all.

 

[CharleyH]

... no. In that case I don't have one of those. Variety is the spice of life. Maybe it's just a guy-thing after all.

Variety is exciting but not fetish

 

[TxRad]

A bit of an obsession you can't really orgasm without? The word as we use it losely, does not fit the current definition. What is fetish? Obsession with an object and can't get off without it being there.

Edit to add: women are more partialist than fetishists.

Fetish would be the kink that gets you turned on and/or gets you off...

Leather is considered a fetish if it arouses you and a lot of the ladies like leather....

The same could be said about floggers or dildos....

I don't think fetishes are just a male thing....

 

[Pure]

well, charley, ever heard of a woman jerking off with a guy's underwear under her nose? ok. boyfriend, maybe. how about *unknown *guy's underwear, i.e. obtained by mail.

 

[rgraham666]

Yawn.

Bored now.

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Where do you draw the line between a fantasy and a fetish, then? I have a thing for well-endowed men, but I don't know if I would call it a fetish, because to me a fetish is something you got to have in order to get excited, and I can get excited by normal-sized dicks, too.

 

[CharleyH]

well, charley, ever heard of a woman jerking off with a guy's underwear under her nose? ok. boyfriend, maybe. how about *unknown *guy's underwear, i.e. obtained by mail.

I think obsession for wanting a man is different than the fetish for his spent panties/boxers?

 

[TxRad]

Yawn.

Bored now.

 

[Lee Chambers]

they merely like things.

I have been thinking of fetish, and I seriously believe that women have interests and fantasies about objects and body parts, but fetishes? I am sure more men have those!

There's always the infamous women's shoe fetish.

 

[kiten69]

Fetish would be the kink that gets you turned on and/or gets you off...

Agreed...I have two that are really bad...the smell and feel of leather...and I have an oral fetish (constantly have to have something in my mouth...from pen caps to lollipops)

Leather is considered a fetish if it arouses you and a lot of the ladies like leather....

I definately have a fetish for leather...just walking into a leather store makes me tingly in all the right places...it's the smell and the feel of the fabric **shiver**!

The same could be said about floggers or dildos....

Most definately.

I don't think fetishes are just a male thing....

Most definately not...hell I have more fetishes than he does!

 

[TxRad]

There's always the infamous women's shoe fetish.

BINGO........ I think we have a winner.....

 

[TxRad]

Agreed...I have two that are really bad...the smell and feel of leather...and I have an oral fetish (constantly have to have something in my mouth...from pen caps to lollipops)


I definately have a fetish for leather...just walking into a leather store makes me tingly in all the right places...it's the smell and the feel of the fabric **shiver**!


Most definately.


Most definately not...hell I have more fetishes than he does!

My kind of Gal....

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I think romance and safety are two major fetishes for women. Many women can't relax and let themselves enjoy sex, let alone come, unless the guy has said "I love you", thus turning the sex act into Love Making.

 

[HappyLlama]

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[Liar]

Research. Experience.

Nice not-really-an-answer there, C. Doesn't really say much, does it?

I rephrase; what have you seen that makes you think men have fetishes and women don't?

 

[Liar]

I think I might have a sex fetish. I either have to have sex, or think about sex, to get off. Does that count?

 

[kiten69]

I reckon Kiten has a thing about apostrophe's !!!!

It goes before the second S, woman! Aaaaaaaarrrggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh!

I had it before the second S once before and someone told me it goes after it...damn maybe I should put one before and after the second S just to be sure...

 

[HappyLlama]

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