Chicken shit......

[michaeka]

Ok here's my problem... when it comes to talking to women... in the real world LOL. I want to more then anything, but I just can't make myself do it. There's this one chick espically that I'm dieing to ask out. But when ever I want to do something about it I can't make myself do it or come up with every excuse in the book not to. And its not that I don't talk to this chick... we talk all the time... just can't ask her out.

Anyway any thoughts would be good..... and don't worry I can take it.

 

[rcuhljr]

Well I'm in the same boat as you, so I can only offer what everyone else told me.

"Whats the worst that can happen?" really she's not going to freak out, the worst that will happen is she says no. Entering a relationship you can enjoy is definently a reward worthy of the small risk of asking a girl out.

 

[aznoutkast]

I'm the same way. It took me 3 weeks to work up the nerve to ask this girl in my class out. Turn out she works at hooters, so last night I got a few beers in me....... ''Do you like apples? Well, I got her numbah. How ya like them apples?'' Just a suggestion, it's not always practical to be drinking when trying to pick up chicks.

 

[rcuhljr]

Of course if you get her drinking it can improve your odds of success. You know I think this might get moved to playground now that I think about it, or general

 

[DaytonOH8xxx]

try this

Get yourself a firemans uniform and lie your ass off. Or casually mention that you have millions of dollars and all of the sudden they are into you.

 

[College_geek]

Start off small. Ask her out for a coffee or an ice cream. Something harmless and friendly. Get to know her better, get to be comfortable around her and maybe a coffee will turn into dinner. Maybe a couple dinner dates will turn into other dates. At least if you do some small "friend" things with her and she doesn't respond in a "I'd like to date you" way, you still get to be around her and share her company.

 

[aznoutkast]

Start off small. Ask her out for a coffee or an ice cream. Something harmless and friendly. Get to know her better, get to be comfortable around her and maybe a coffee will turn into dinner. Maybe a couple dinner dates will turn into other dates. At least if you do some small "friend" things with her and she doesn't respond in a "I'd like to date you" way, you still get to be around her and share her company.

the only problem with that, is that they get the idea you acually want to be friends. ive had this happen alot where they get the wrong idea.

 

[College_geek]

the only problem with that, is that they get the idea you acually want to be friends. ive had this happen alot where they get the wrong idea.

Well, not all of us are completely against dating our friends. And a good strong romantic relationship starts with a good friendship. On the other hand, I definitely see what you're saying. I just figured doing something with her would be better than nothing at all. *shrug*

 

[eastone]

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[babydoll2u]

You casually look down when she opens ths door and say Nice shoes wanna fuck?

is this why you're here and not on a date?
lol...