windycityplay69
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Bi-curious male, always wanted to safely meet a transgender woman and/or have an ongoing online communication. Fantasy sharing and such.. Any ladies out there want to connect?
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windycityplay69
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Every TS dating site I have seen looks fake as hell.. where are all the real gurls at?
AGREED!! ^^^
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What bars have u went to in chicago?? I havent heard of any ts bars, would love to check one out.
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Agreed once again ^^^
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No matter how genuine you admiration for TS's, if by which you mean trans women, then you are barking up the wrong tree. If you go to a club specifically for dating (ie sex), then you will meet a type of girl who is sex orientated, quite possibly a prostitute and who is pre-op, because that is how most people define TS's - chicks with dicks. 
It's true that a percentage of TS's are happy with their penis or else they are not in a position to afford GRS. Now you have to find a further percentage of those who are sexually active, now you have to find another percentage who fit the above and who are single. You can see that from an original small number of girls you are suddenly down to a much smaller one and even for a city as big as Chicago, that's not going to be many. You could add in cross-dressers and you're still going to have to be lucky to find the match you're after.
The fact is that most trans women don't hang out in bars and they are not looking for casual sex, no matter how nice a guy you are. They suffer a great deal of embarrassment & emotional pain by having a penis and the most important goal in their life is to replace the damned thing as soon as possible. After GRS (that's the surgery) the last place they're going be seen is that kind of club: why would they, unless to keep in touch with old friends?
Being transgender is about following a path, a transition, from a state where they don't belong to where they do and with luck, that can last only a couple of years. Trying to catch someone during that period, finding them receptive to your advances and for them to trust that you will continue to accept them after surgery as well is... well - you get my drift.
It's true that a percentage of TS's are happy with their penis or else they are not in a position to afford GRS. Now you have to find a further percentage of those who are sexually active, now you have to find another percentage who fit the above and who are single. You can see that from an original small number of girls you are suddenly down to a much smaller one and even for a city as big as Chicago, that's not going to be many. You could add in cross-dressers and you're still going to have to be lucky to find the match you're after.
The fact is that most trans women don't hang out in bars and they are not looking for casual sex, no matter how nice a guy you are. They suffer a great deal of embarrassment & emotional pain by having a penis and the most important goal in their life is to replace the damned thing as soon as possible. After GRS (that's the surgery) the last place they're going be seen is that kind of club: why would they, unless to keep in touch with old friends?
Being transgender is about following a path, a transition, from a state where they don't belong to where they do and with luck, that can last only a couple of years. Trying to catch someone during that period, finding them receptive to your advances and for them to trust that you will continue to accept them after surgery as well is... well - you get my drift.
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