Cheating wives stories

[Pocketshaver]

In most cheating wives stories, the cheating wife is always on the border line delusional.

As in slurping strange cock isn't gonna hurt the marriage or get the husband angry.

OR that a gangbang isn't an issue.

Im just curious as to where the lack of morality comes from. At least where the stupidity of the concept comes from, in that its of such little importance its not even something a husband should be worried about.

 

[Voboy]

"Lack of morality."

That's rich. This is Lit.

There are plenty of moral stories on this site, and you're welcome to them. Others disagree, and that's great; they can exercise their choice, too. Vive la difference.

 

[yukonnights]

Is it lack of morality, or lack of reality that's the biggest issue with such stories? Now granted, I don't know any cheating wives in the real world—but I suspect that the vast majority of infidelity arises from a fading love with the man they married. (ironically, the delusional husband is more realistic in the real world for the cheating husband.) Personally, I don't much care for stories that are unbelievable, and to me the wild delusional wife is more of a male writer trope than anything else. And then authors write what sells, so there you go with crazy wives doing unbelievable things.

 

[KeithD]

Anytime anyone asserts what "most stories" of any sort do on Literotica, I just laugh and walk off. The collection is so vast that anyone, with the possible exception of the single submissions editor, Laurel, is blowing smoke to assert "most" about anything here.

 

[RetroFan]

In most of my cheating stories, I have both partners cheating, and usually the characters aren't very nice people.

In 'Simon and the Senator's Wife', the fed up wife of the Senator cheats because her husband is a disgraceful philanderer who has extra-marital affairs with his female assistant. 'The PTA Queen Bee & the Teen Rebel' sees the main female character cheating with an 18-year-old girl, while her weird husband likes to go to a brothel where he dresses up as a cowboy. Bridget from 'Bridget the Bossy Bridezilla' is a nasty, selfish and spoiled young woman who cheats on her fiancée Ben with his loser younger brother, Ben in turn cheating with a cougar who is in an open marriage.

I'm currently writing a cheating story where a rich husband packs his trophy wife and their 18/19 year old daughters off on a cruise in Australia so he can cheat more with his mistress while they are away, and the wife and daughters meet an interesting Australian family on the cruise. I'm going to try and get it published in Fetish as the Loving Wives crew would tear a story with that plotline apart.

 

[Handley_Page]

In most cheating wives stories, the cheating wife is always on the border line delusional.

As in slurping strange cock isn't gonna hurt the marriage or get the husband angry.

OR that a gangbang isn't an issue.

Im just curious as to where the lack of morality comes from. At least where the stupidity of the concept comes from, in that its of such little importance its not even something a husband should be worried about.

Forgive the intrusion, but you DO realise this site is full of fiction & fantasy, don't you?
Real life events may form the backdrop of a fiction 'event' but could never be regarded (by even the most delusional of reader) as 'fact'.

 

[SimonDoom]

In most cheating wives stories, the cheating wife is always on the border line delusional.

As in slurping strange cock isn't gonna hurt the marriage or get the husband angry.

OR that a gangbang isn't an issue.

Im just curious as to where the lack of morality comes from. At least where the stupidity of the concept comes from, in that its of such little importance its not even something a husband should be worried about.

If you genuinely want intelligent discussion of this issue and are genuinely curious what people think, then you can't pose the question in such a loaded and tendentious way. And you have to be more specific about what you mean.

Your questions suggest that you have a strong bias against stories where women have sex outside marriage. If you're genuinely curious about why people like such stories or and what such readers think of wife characters who enjoy this activity, you have to ask your question in a different way, and leave your bias out.

You can't make statements like "cheating wives are delusional." Some are, and some know exactly what they're doing and do it anyway. They feel the risk is worth it. And in some cases there is no risk because the husband approves.

If you want meaningful dialogue, leave out the tendentious wording and reask the questions to indicate that you are genuinely curious about what other people think about the topic.

Speaking for myself, I have no personal experience with "cheating wife" or "hot wife" activity, but I find it to be a very enjoyable fantasy subject for erotic stories. It's that simple. It's fiction. There's no need to delve deeply into the moral implications because it's just fiction and fantasy.

Transgressing moral boundaries is a significant part of the appeal of erotica. For millenia, sexual activity has been bound up with rigid laws, rules, taboos, and mores, and a big part of the thrill of erotica is identifying with characters whose sexual desire leads them to transgress boundaries. That's true whether it involves cheating wives, incest, interracial, anal, nonconsent, you name it.

I don't murder people and I'm not a homicide detective, but I find novels about murderers and homicide detectives to be very enjoyable. I'm not sure what's so hard to understand about the hot/slut/cheating wife fantasy.

 

[gordo12]

Why are you even in here? You have no stories and this is the author's hangout.

For your edification this is the definition of an author:
"noun: author; plural noun: authors
1. a writer of a book, article, or report."

If you don't like the LW stories fkn write one yourself, your way. No delusional wives needed

Become an actual author rather than whining!

 

[TxRad]

Why are you even in here? You have no stories and this is the author's hangout.

For your edification this is the definition of an author:
"noun: author; plural noun: authors
1. a writer of a book, article, or report."

If you don't like the LW stories fkn write one yourself, your way. No delusional wives needed

Become an actual author rather than whining!

The sign above the door when you enter the AH, reads: A place for writers and readers to socialize and discuss the craft of writing.

A lot of people seem to miss the reader part.

I agree with Simon. If you want serious answers to qestions, don't ask loaded questions. They have a tendency to blow up in your face.

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

What the fuck in heaven is all of this aggression almost every single time someone raises some issue that they are asking other people's opinions on??

Can't you people just render your opinion without all of the gratuitous animus against people you don't even know and have seen one paragraph from, often?

You know, given that you are all supposed to be writers, are you not able to offer a difference of view in such a way that the person reading it won't be instantly turned off by your 'attitudes?' I mean they are probably not even going to weigh what you are saying with any objectivity because of the anger and loathing.

The OP asked where does the 'morality' come from that allows for the facile introduction of utterly (unrealistically) loose women.

Fair point - this is a fiction, possibly fantasy, site.

Fair point - there are different styles and kinds of story approaches across the whole site; that's true enough I would ASSUME in guesstimation, but then I don't know the exact specific numerical facts... ...so frankly, as an impression, no, it does seem to me that GENERALLY, there are THE SAME kinds of story approach within each category. There seem to me to be very general expectations that appear to be constantly taken for granted within the 'story' medium as written by a ton of writers here, as an IMPRESSION THAT I GET.

So far, utterly no one has actually said there are promiscuous women and promiscuous wives.

Now, that is very strange, because up until last Wednesday, divorce courts in the UK required such 'reasons' (of 'immorality') to be demonstrated for divorce to be granted and property and rights skewed positively, or negatively to one side or the other. So, er, it must have been the case that there were rather more than just a few 'loose' partners, and having personally worked as a lawyer in family courts for more than fifteen years some time ago, my experience was that the thing broke 60/40 - 60 per cent of the time it was the guy badly at fault, 40 per cent the dame was far and away the errant partner.


The reason that there are stories - SOME of which seem realistic - about promiscuous wives, is because there are such things in RL.

Where does actual real moral 'looseness' (as 'usual' community standards define it) come from...?

I'm not sure if that was the question in fact. Was it? Was that the question, OP?

 

[oggbashan]

In England and Wales, a gentleman in a marriage where the couple wanted a divorce was expected to provide evidence of his misdemeanours so that the divorce could take place. That would protect the honour of the lady in the marriage.

Unfortunately if the gentleman was actually naive his evidence of a shared hotel room with another lady could be dismissed if the hotel and professional lady had been used by other gentlemen previously and the divorce court knew it was a set-up.

 

[gordo12]

The sign above the door when you enter the AH, reads: A place for writers and readers to socialize and discuss the craft of writing.

A lot of people seem to miss the reader part.

I agree with Simon. If you want serious answers to qestions, don't ask loaded questions. They have a tendency to blow up in your face.

Point taken.

However go read his posts. Virtually everything is an attack on something designed to create mayhem. He's a troll. The AH sign does not say writers, readers and trolls.
If he needs a bridge to lurk under it's down in the general board or political board and yes, he's VERY active there with his "opinions"

 

[TxRad]

Point taken.

However go read his posts. Virtually everything is an attack on something designed to create mayhem. He's a troll. The AH sign does not say writers, readers and trolls.
If he needs a bridge to lurk under it's down in the general board or political board and yes, he's VERY active there with his "opinions"

Most everyone know who and what he is. Some people just like to stir the shit. It happens around here more than we would like but... Unless they are using a 200 hp outboard to stir said shit, there ain't much we can do about it except report the post and hope for the best or better yet, ignore the post. "Don't feed the trolls."

 

[SimonDoom]

The reason that there are stories - SOME of which seem realistic - about promiscuous wives, is because there are such things in RL.

I don't agree with you. Stories about horny werewolves don't exist because there really are horny werewolves. They exist because it's a fantasy object and people like to read about fantasy.

Yes, there are people in real life who cheat and engage in extramarital sexual activity, and those people make up part of the audience for this type of story. But the main reason these stories exist is that it's a popular fantasy. I've never engaged in this activity, and I think it's a fascinating subject for erotica.

I don't think the reaction to the OP was one of hate and loathing. Mine wasn't. I actually tried to answer his question, even though I didn't understand it. My beef is that when, as an OP, you want to start a thread and ask a bunch of people why they think what they do about something, you should do so in non-tendentious and non-biased way that isn't loaded with words suggesting you are hostile to and un-receptive to the very viewpoint you are asking about. This attitude isn't limited to Loving Wives. You see similar kinds of questions about incest, or nonconsent, or interracial, or just about anything.

The OP asked "where's the stupidity come from"? You can't start a reasonable thread with a question like that, because it's obvious that the people who write these stories don't think the characters they're writing about are stupid.

 

[yukonnights]

I don't agree with you...

I don't think the reaction to the OP was one of hate and loathing. Mine wasn't. I actually tried to answer his question, even though I didn't understand it...
The OP asked "where's the stupidity come from"? You can't start a reasonable thread with a question like that, because it's obvious that the people who write these stories don't think the characters they're writing about are stupid.

I too answered in a reasonable way. In my opinion, the biggest problem is the lack of believability in many such stories...and they seem to feed a certain male bias, etc.

 

[KeithD]

What the fuck in heaven is all of this aggression almost every single time someone raises some issue that they are asking other people's opinions on??

As already noted, for this particular thread, it's because the belligerent way in which the subject is posed by the OP. This isn't a welcome approach to discussion in the AH.

 

[oggbashan]

Cheating wives stories are one of the most common requests in 'Looking for a Story'.

 

[Dreamful_Writer]

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[Desiremakesmeweak]

Nah, I'm not so sure the OP was being um, well tendentious - technically, well, I suppose yes, but then again, he/she/it qualified pretty much everything:

'where does the stupidity OF THE CONCEPT... ...viz., that there are no negative consequences or that these may be forgotten about altogether (the answer to that of course, being fairly obvious; it's FICTION!!)'

I'm not sure I read into the question the implication that the PEOPLE WRITING the stories are stupid.

Rather than leap to a quick conclusion that there was initial aggressiveness implicit in the question, one could consider the valid aspects - such as, why don't writers take some note even in passing about consequences or give some background about why some woman would 'suck strange cock...'

Well okay then, OP, since I happen to know women, not many like this though some, who have had multiple sex partners at the same-ish time, none of them were 'silly' or delusional women - every single one of them however, not only have a rare ability to observe people and 'work them out' very early on, they seemed to have an uncanny ability to 'discover' a very particular type of person that I personally never seem to just plain 'stumble across!' ...not just 'any time I want.' Like they do.

Frankly I have to tell you it's like those people you knew growing up - those ones who ALWAYS won the school raffle. If they bought a ticket everyone else might as well have given up straight away.

So here I am talking about REAL LIFE situations. The fictional ones in stories here and elsewhere I presume, are 'cut-down' accounts because the writers probably think readers won't have the patience to waste time reading anything other than the actual sex.

Women I know who fairly regularly have multiple partners, some of whom were indeed 'virtually' strangers at the start of the actual physical sex, are VERY careful and knowledgeable about practical matters; most are nurses, doctors, dentists, psychologists, scientists - that kind of thing. I learned a lot from them and their knowledge base is/was a quantum leap above what most people have.

I can give you an example from real life of someone I do not personally know, although I have been in the same room with them, and about whom enough is already publicly known - Professor Germaine Greer. Not great looking anymore but she was in her day.

I think it's just easier and quicker to render some passing 'excuse' for the sake of the sex action in a fictional story, such as 'she was borderline delusional.' There's also a known psychological condition that commonly is called 'nymphomania' but it has proper scientific labels.

 

[Hypoxia]

Surveying mainstream and genre literature reveals stories of murder, mayhem, infanticide, genocide, talking animals, sexual activity, drink-food-drugs, bribery, hacking, psychotic rites, spaceships, teledildonics, vicious whales, odd gods, hot marsupials, honest cops, banjoists, pizzas, and talking toenails. What morality?

 

[SimonDoom]

Surveying mainstream and genre literature reveals stories of murder, mayhem, infanticide, genocide, talking animals, sexual activity, drink-food-drugs, bribery, hacking, psychotic rites, spaceships, teledildonics, vicious whales, odd gods, hot marsupials, honest cops, banjoists, pizzas, and talking toenails. What morality?

If I stick around this crazy place long enough I know I'll learn something new.

I had never seen the term "teledildonics" until this post. I knew about the concept but had never read or seen that term to describe it.

Now I will never un-see it.

Thank you, sir!

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

If I stick around this crazy place long enough I know I'll learn something new.

I had never seen the term "teledildonics" until this post. I knew about the concept but had never read or seen that term to describe it.

Now I will never un-see it.

Thank you, sir!

I kid you not... The so-called 'internet of things' includes a bunch of Chinese academics (don't have a link because it was removed by the 'Nanyang Institute of Technology' who were supervising the project) who were able to access WiFi chips inside dildos owned by celebrities...

 

[SimonDoom]

I kid you not... The so-called 'internet of things' includes a bunch of Chinese academics (don't have a link because it was removed by the 'Nanyang Institute of Technology' who were supervising the project) who were able to access WiFi chips inside dildos owned by celebrities...

Holy fuck.

Well, there's a good story in there somewhere, anyway.

 

[ElectricBlue]

Holy fuck.

You read about it on the internet so it must be true .

 

[Handley_Page]

Surveying mainstream and genre literature reveals stories of murder, mayhem, infanticide, genocide, talking animals, sexual activity, drink-food-drugs, bribery, hacking, psychotic rites, spaceships, teledildonics, vicious whales, odd gods, hot marsupials, honest cops, banjoists, pizzas, and talking toenails. What morality?

Forgive me please, but I think you may have missed out "Tentacled Terrors" in your list.

One thought on the subject of the morality of a 'cheating wife'.
A man who philanders and screws other women may, under some circumstances, claim to be simply "messing about" [it's not serious, but she fucks like a bunny !].
Quite whether this is seen similarly in a female is a different matter.

Just a passing thought