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bggwoogie

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Don't understand women. For eight years i was with my wife....let her stay home with our child(now 5 yrs. old) then out of the blue she says shes leaving. No reason except shes unhappy....and everyday i have told her i love her and bring her things, and always supported her in anything she wanted to do. Then a week after she told me she wanted out i walk in and catch her with my 18 yr. old nephew. We raised him since he was 10 and now she says they're in love. I dont know what to do. If not for my daughter either i would be dead or ....i dont know....all i know is life really sux right now. Thanks for letting me vent just a little.
 
Merry Xmas, right?
I just caught mine and she doesnt know it yet. I had kind of suspected so I left a voice activated recorder in the bedroom. I didn't catch one peep on tape for over a month, just when I figured it was me being paranoid I checked the tape and discovered her and some guy fucking like maniacs.

I have not told her I know yet but she might suspect because I've been curt with her and shes getting defensive.
 
mustwatch said:
Merry Xmas, right?
I just caught mine and she doesnt know it yet. I had kind of suspected so I left a voice activated recorder in the bedroom. I didn't catch one peep on tape for over a month, just when I figured it was me being paranoid I checked the tape and discovered her and some guy fucking like maniacs.

I have not told her I know yet but she might suspect because I've been curt with her and shes getting defensive.

You're not putting that tape in her stocking are you?

It hurts and I have no answers or remedies........
 
Originally posted by mustwatch
Merry Xmas, right?
I just caught mine and she doesnt know it yet. I had kind of suspected so I left a voice activated recorder in the bedroom. I didn't catch one peep on tape for over a month, just when I figured it was me being paranoid I checked the tape and discovered her and some guy fucking like maniacs.

I have not told her I know yet but she might suspect because I've been curt with her and shes getting defensive.

Wow is all I have to say to both of you, I'm young enough I'm not married yet, and I've never been cheated on. I'm just surprised, I don't know what to say, shocked. I don't know what I'd do if I found out I was being cheated on. Few years ago I would've said that if she really was happy with someone else, then at least she's happier, but now god, it's like a blackhole. Like dgo said it probably hurts, I'm sorry bggwoogie, and no offense to you but that is nasty, incest that is. I'm so sorry to the both of you.
 
I am sorry for the hurt that you are going through..as I know from experience...***** sucks big time, and then you don't die.

You just make it through each day as best you can.

Icey:rose:
 
you know, you could simply leave, just walk out the door, and take the kids and whatever possessions you have and just walk out of her life.
 
bggwoogie said:
Don't understand women. For eight years i was with my wife....let her stay home with our child(now 5 yrs. old) then out of the blue she says shes leaving. No reason except shes unhappy....and everyday i have told her i love her and bring her things, and always supported her in anything she wanted to do. Then a week after she told me she wanted out i walk in and catch her with my 18 yr. old nephew. We raised him since he was 10 and now she says they're in love. I dont know what to do. If not for my daughter either i would be dead or ....i dont know....all i know is life really sux right now. Thanks for letting me vent just a little.

That is sick....take your daughter and go to the cops and charge her with incest....don't wait.:rose:
 
mustwatch said:
Merry Xmas, right?
I just caught mine and she doesnt know it yet. I had kind of suspected so I left a voice activated recorder in the bedroom. I didn't catch one peep on tape for over a month, just when I figured it was me being paranoid I checked the tape and discovered her and some guy fucking like maniacs.

I have not told her I know yet but she might suspect because I've been curt with her and shes getting defensive.

Well, get all your ducks in a row.....Make sure she can't clean out the money accounts. Stash away anything you don't want her to have. Meet with a lawyer first so that everything is in order, and then put the nail in her coffin and walk. I know this sounds cold and hard......but she will never change.....I guarantee if she did it once she will do it again. Good luck:rose:
 
Succulent-one said:
Well, get all your ducks in a row.....Make sure she can't clean out the money accounts. Stash away anything you don't want her to have. Meet with a lawyer first so that everything is in order, and then put the nail in her coffin and walk. I know this sounds cold and hard......but she will never change.....I guarantee if she did it once she will do it again. Good luck:rose:

do I EVER agree
 
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