Cheating...Why Do People Cheat...

[KID ROCK1]

Who's fault is it in a relationship if one person decides to not only look at the menu but order from the menu and not eat at home anymore...

Guys are natrual born cheaters at birth...Guys are put on this planet to polinate as many flowers as possible and its up to the woman to keep her man happy...A guy just can't help but get tired of eating vanilla icecream everyday and then desire a new flavor...Its in our "Gene's" at birth so to speak...

Why do women stray tho...What is it about a womans psychy that makes her cheat on the man she loves...

Have ya ever cheated in a relationship...If so why and did ya get caught or did ya confess hoping to salvage your relationship...

If you've been cheated on then how did you react when ya found out...Did ya forgive the person or did ya kick the person to curb...

How do ya deal with infidelity in a relationship...

~i~

 

[Savage Kitten]

Don't be suprised if you flame a lot of ppl w/ this 1

I agree with you, somewhat.. well.. maybe a lil.

anyway.. what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

No matter the gender, I think the reasons are the same. Ppl have all kinds of excuses for cheating; excitement, attention, fulfillment of what they are not getting at home.

 

[teresafannin]

I have never cheated on any of my men. The ones who cheated on me got kicked to the curb. I don't agree that men are born cheaters. My brother is one of the most faithful men I know, as are both of my brothers-in-law. My fiancee has never cheated on anyone & I know he won't cheat on me. I think many people cheat for the thrill of sneaking around or if they feel that they have been cheated on. I also think that women & men cheat for the same reasons. As with so many things, communication is the most important part of a relationship. I am lucky in that most of the men I have known have been honest with me.

 

[unusuallyconfused]

If you truly love someone, you wouldn't cheat on them. I never looked at another guy because I was so very deeply in love with my husband. I still have not cheated, and our relationship has a chance of working out. I knew I might cheat because of my needs not being met, but I cared enough to be honest with him that if he didn't meet him, I might slip up.

Anyhow, he has never been unfaithful to me either.

 

[OUTSIDER]

KR1 they cheat on you cause your such an ugly cunt.











Now now stop crying KR1 and put that razor down, you might be an ugly fucker but I'm sure your mother loves ya.........Oh sorry I never knew.

 

[SexyThang]

Gee Outsider, your witty comebacks are astounding.

Besides, it's Misty with razor blades, get it right.

 

[Angel]

Who's fault is it in a relationship if one person decides to not only look at the menu but order from the menu and not eat at home anymore...

Guys are natrual born cheaters at birth...Guys are put on this planet to polinate as many flowers as possible and its up to the woman to keep her man happy...A guy just can't help but get tired of eating vanilla icecream everyday and then desire a new flavor...Its in our "Gene's" at birth so to speak...

Why do women stray tho...What is it about a womans psychy that makes her cheat on the man she loves...

Have ya ever cheated in a relationship...If so why and did ya get caught or did ya confess hoping to salvage your relationship...

If you've been cheated on then how did you react when ya found out...Did ya forgive the person or did ya kick the person to curb...

How do ya deal with infidelity in a relationship...

~i~

Never cheated on anyone. I have however *dated* more than one guy at a time, totally lost interest in one of them and ditched him without another word for the other guy. Which was a bit ... heartless but whatever, hey there was no commitment there yet.
Once there is a commitment I don't stray.

I've gotten cheated on plenty of times. Up until oh.... February I was too easy to walk all over. I did everything for the guy I was with and I always ended up being played in the end. And without fail they'd tell me I was too nice, I did too much stuff for them and I made it too easy for them to walk over me. A few times I made the other girl's life complete hell for a month or two, and his as well. But the last relationship I was in that ended right before Valentines day pissed me off to the extent that I became a huge bitch. I don't LET people walk all over me anymore. THAT is how I dealt with it. I've changed alot since then.


Next person who cheats on me will live to regret ever meeting me.

 

[willywanker]

I've got to take exception to the premise that all men are born cheaters. I am in my third marriage and I have never cheated on my spouse.

First marriage ended when I found she was cheating. I was young and stupid for getting into that one to start with.

Second marriage fell apart because of a prolonged illness of her father and when I found she was cheating, I wanted to work it out. Had 10 years invested and two children and thought it was worth trying to fix but takes two to make that work.

Now in 6th year of third marriage. Things arn't great but neither of us is cheating. If I decide I need to be with someone else, I'll end this one first. But that is just me. And the differences between us are what makes the world go round.

 

[rambling man]

My wife cheated on me with a guy a while back when we were having problems...I found out and forgave her but cheated on her a year later...she did it over and over with some guy, but I only did it once...I never told because I didn't want it to seem to her like revenge but it was definitely linked...i wouldn't do it again, though.

cheating is not necessarily the end of the relationship...the amazing thing, i think is how many people can stay faithful for several decades..those people are terrific and deserve respect

 

[Demian]

Iz this the DumbAss Thread? Where am I?

Wut did she say?

 

[Jaded Eyes]

I definitely never cheated...that shit is so wrong. I've been cheated on...about 6mo ago...love of my life, highschool sweatheart (over 5 years), engaged, happy, about to move in together, she sleeps with some guy just to see what it was like. I was devestated. I completely lost faith in love, I didn't know what to do...but I managed to pull it all together again eventually, even though there are still days that I get depressed about it. We definitely broke up, I just wouldn't be able to trust her anymore, but we actually are still best friends. Afterall life is too short to hold grudges.

 

[OUTSIDER]

Gee Outsider, your witty comebacks are astounding.

Besides, it's Misty with razor blades, get it right.

HAHAHAHAHAHA......whats even more funny is that you two loser's have dragged your sorry ass's back here after shouting and screaming what a shit hole this BB is and what a great place your BB is.



What's the matter get lonely there all by yourselves with no one to talk to.

 

[KID ROCK1]

I Find It Funny...

That this Outsider dude can't contribute to a topic that is non-confrontational without trying to flame me once again...

Everyone else has had some good comments...

~i~

 

[OUTSIDER]

Re: I Find It Funny...

That this Outsider dude can't contribute to a topic that is non-confrontational without trying to flame me once again...

Everyone else has had some good comments...

~i~

Get fucked loser.......now thats a good comment for ya !!





The other's might have chosen to forget and forgive you and your bitch for for all the shit you got up to, but I aint.

You got some fucking nerve coming back here and acting all nicey nice after all the shit you caused....ho and let's not forget you where trying to get one of the BB members to slit their wrists.

You've shown your true colours and we all know what a nasty pair of losers you are so don't come back here and piss in our ear's and tell us it's raining.

 

[KID ROCK1]

Ya Just Made My Day...

What a "markish" reply...

Thanx...

~i~

 

[BlondGirl]

Am I the only one who is wondering if the creature who started this thread is hoping to find a plausible excuse to use?