Cheating Tales

Back in 2000-2001 I had three sexual encounters with three different women all married. There were two things that made these encounters a powerful turn on. The first wa the realization that I was fucking another man's wife, in effect stealing from him and taking advantage of his neglect of his wife. The second was that I got away with all three of them. To this day my now ex-wife has no idea that they happened!!

I have a similar experience. I was seeing a married couple secretly and convinced the wife to make friends with my wife at the time, with me pretending not to know her at all. Long story short we ended up in a foursome swapping partners. To this day my ex does not know she was set up.
 
back in school, my first girlfriend cheated on me a couple times. the first time she cheated on me with my best friend. it was just a few weeks after we started dating and i was on the phone with her at the time. she thought he was cute and didn't want to have sex with me until she knew i wasn't with her just to have a fling. so she had a fling with him instead. another time i was drunk at a party without her and she couldn't reach me on my phone, so she called him up knowing we were inseparable, and things somehow evolved into him leaving to "go get something from his place" to coming back 3 hours later because he "fell asleep in his car." we all made fun of him for years over that one until she confessed soon after we had broken up about what really happened.

my next girlfriend at university cheated on me a whole lot more. she confessed to me years after we split up to clear her conscience. she was never the type of girl to initiate anything, but she was also not the type to object too hard either. after we started dating she moved away to another school. i would visit her on weekends and we'd stay with my best friend, the same guy who had slept with my first gf, and his fiancee. they lived between our two cities. one night we had all been drinking and his fiancee had gone to bed early while the 3 of us watched tv. this eventually turned to youtube, which eventually turned to porn. she told me that when i went to go take a piss they started making out and he started fucking her for a few minutes until i came back. i didn't realize, being drunk. eventually i passed out and they waited until i was really out so he could fuck her some more. eventually we got engaged and before the wedding she wanted to show off her wedding dress to him since he was going to miss the wedding because he was moving overseas for work. i was fine with it and he came over while i was at work. he fucked her in it. i came home and she was feeling really guilty about something but i didn't press too hard. she later told me that she had promised herself that she would stop cheating before the wedding, but "things just kept happening."

she also used to drive back to our hometown to visit family, but she also would secretly meet back up with her ex, who she only ever sucked off, never fucked. she finally gave him what he had missed. then this one guy i really couldn't stand started hanging out with our group. he was a douchebag, the kind of guy who would come over and drink all your beer without asking, then find some reason to be a dick to you. but he was friends with all my other friends so i put up with him. this was just before the wedding and she would often be hanging out with her maid of honor all night. one night the 2 of them met up with him and her maid of honor convinced her to finally let him fuck her. her maid of honor never joined, she just wanted to watch the two of them. this happened pretty frequently.

we're no longer together. i know i only heard a fraction of what actually happened with either of them, but they won't say anything else about those times. my current wife and i often dirty talk when i'm out of town about her fucking my friends or her co-workers. she never would, it's just RP for us. i've often thought about writing some of my own stories, part what actually happened and part embellished. i might if i ever have the time.

They would be fun stories to read. Did your friend/guy you hated ever tell you what happened specifically, or did she? Details, man! And what was she/they like? Sounds like she had a lot of fun, and by the sounds of it that you did despite yourself... ;) I like the detail here, but there is still too much vageuness. She/they sound like the deserve recognition.

Three long term relationships in my life, three times they cheated on me. Makes me wonder what my primary dysfunction is. My first was my college fiance. I graduated a year before her and instead of staying in school to get my masters I went back home to start work and save for the wedding. She decided that the cute hot guy at the gym had what I didn't. I got a call from her roommate saying that she and her bf couldn't stand up at our wedding because she didn't like what my girl was doing behind my back. Strike one.
Second was a rebound for me but we ended up married and she ended up being batshit crazy. After years of therapy she changed and became more normal and left me for a coworker but at least she was honest about it. Strike two.
Finally after a seven year drought I met a gal online who had three kids. I was smarter this time, didn't marry her but fell in love with her kids and have since been their dad so at least something good came out of it. I traveled for work extensively and she cheated on me extensively. We started out our relationship playing in the bdsm realm. One night while I was shoving a big black dildo down her throat I mentioned that I'd love to see her suck off a black guy. She took this as a green light and went for it, time and again. She cuckolded me and made me the less of a man that I am today. I finally couldn't handle it and sent her packing. Strike three.
I think that my craving for humiliation is stemmed from earlier in life but that can't be discussed on this forum. Message me if you're interested in that story. Be well. Nice thread topic.

As with the previous, more details.

I used to work for a large insurance company which employed a lot of younger clerical we workers. Most of the women in their 20's were married and I bet at least 75% of them cheated to some extent. Most were simple interoffice romances but I . was surprised at how many would go out drinking with the express purpose of hooking up. I am pretty sure most of the husbands had no idea. It is just so easy for a woman to gather up a friend to go have a drink. We were close to Newport, RI and that was an easy place to hookup in the summer. A lot of guys with boats docked there. Once they got the girl on the boat for a drink, it did not take much to get them down below. I will bet there are a lot of husbands that have no idea how much their wife cheated on them when she was younger. I think young women are just as horny as young men but I also think women tend to get it out of their system and settle down when they have children.

It is amusing how many people think their SO is faithful, and even how many people think that they will always be faithful. While for some the right circumstances for them to cheat may be unlikely or require a hell of a lot, there are very few people who would always remain faithful. Even if it was an accident or required so much to happen that they think it never would. Being drunk, arguments, stress, confusion/misunderstandings, or just finding that one who is charming or sets you on fire. And then there are those who cheat much easier. Very amusing ;)

Any more details on these adventures you saw?

Back in 2000-2001 I had three sexual encounters with three different women all married. There were two things that made these encounters a powerful turn on. The first wa the realization that I was fucking another man's wife, in effect stealing from him and taking advantage of his neglect of his wife. The second was that I got away with all three of them. To this day my now ex-wife has no idea that they happened!!

Perfect! Fucking someone else's wife, girlfriend, fiancee is fun for so many reasons. So do tell more. Did you play on this with them while it happened? Gotta love feeding the cheating, it burns the whole thing hotter.

I don't like to cheat or have someone cheat on someone with me. I went home with a girl once after we were both drunk at the bar. She did a strip tease for me. Then pulled off my jeans and started sucking me off. She was going down on me like a women possessed. After about 10minutes she asked if I liked the way she sucked my dick. I told her yes and asked if she liked it and if she liked sucking it. She said yes and said she loves it when its bigger than he is. I asked her bigger than who? She tells me bigger than her bf. I don't think she remembered telling me she was single. Or she was to drunk to care about what she said. I caught her in a lie and it sort of pissed me off. I told her "you told me you didn't have a bf". She tells me "so what if I do, your my bf tonight". "Do you want me to stop what I'm doing"? At this point I'm hard as a rock and horny as hell. "What if I did say I want you to stop"? "Then I'll just take it from you" she tells me. "Oh yea" I ask "yea" she says firmly. She quickly climbs on me and before I know it she already has me in her. "This is how I'll take it from you" she tells me while pushing her tits in my face. I give in and grab her tits sucking them while she rides me hard. I call her a sneaky bitch and tell her she needs to be taught a lesson. She tells me "to teach her it all night long". When I picked her up and got on top. I made sure to pin her legs back as far as I could. Then slammed in her a few times really hard. Then pulled it out "do you want more of this cock" teasing her with it. Making her beg for me to continue fucking her. I did this over and over and it drove her crazy. After about 10,15 minutes of this I told her to get on her hands and knees. When she got up there was a puddle under her ass on my leather couch. I fucked her from behind for awhile. I couldn't believe how wet her pussy got. When she rode me again I told her I never seen a pussy get so wet before. She said she hasn't came this much in a long time. We fucked every way for the next four hours or so. When I woke up in the morning she was gone. All I got was her first name Karen and I 've never seen her again. I felt bad that I helped her cheat but she would of did it anyway. And at least I got some amazing sex for the night.

You don't like to fuck other guy's girls, ah? Sounds like you did that night, and didn't regret it too much. ;) Did you both feed that thought of what you were doing? What was she like? And you didn't feel even the least bit smug for nailing her and knowing her guy was going to see her later not knowing you had her in your hands and on your dick all night, fucking loving it? ;)
 
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I'd been friendly flirting with my black co-worker for several months with no real intention of doing anything with him. One whole week my husband was just being a giant ass for no good reason and we spent the entire week fighting. Saturday night I had had enough so I went out to meet up with some friends and get as drunk as possible. The guy I worked with ended up showing up to the bar we were out and we ended up talking and again flirting. I decided this time to go home with him though and sober up while we fucked throughout the night.
 
I'd been friendly flirting with my black co-worker for several months with no real intention of doing anything with him. One whole week my husband was just being a giant ass for no good reason and we spent the entire week fighting. Saturday night I had had enough so I went out to meet up with some friends and get as drunk as possible. The guy I worked with ended up showing up to the bar we were out and we ended up talking and again flirting. I decided this time to go home with him though and sober up while we fucked throughout the night.

Now this is beautiful. Faithful and loving, yet playful. Then something happens, and bam! I love it! Do tell more - did your co-worker know your husband? I bet he played it up while you fucked with your husband at home unaware. Who led who to the final decision and how? And have you cheated before or since, and what happened when you saw your husband after? How long had you been married. Details make the whole tale hot.
 
I do (in a way) wish this was my husband's fantasy. I will admit it - I am a bad wife, and I have given into my excitement and have cheated a lot. Not for the first 12 years of marriage - but then, I found resisting too difficult. I have chatted with both women and men who have open relationships, and it works so well for them. The fact is that I always feel so guilty afterward.
 
They would be fun stories to read. Did your friend/guy you hated ever tell you what happened specifically, or did she? Details, man! And what was she/they like? Sounds like she had a lot of fun, and by the sounds of it that you did despite yourself... ;) I like the detail here, but there is still too much vageuness. She/they sound like the deserve recognition.

a little about my ex: she was a goth. the full pale skin, dark clothes, black makeup, tattoos, and knives in her combat boots kind of goth. and she was beautiful. a lot of people say that, but she really was stunning. she even did some professional erotic alt modeling. (not going to share her name or pics) she grew up in an extremely religious, strict, and abusive family and she was a "virgin" until she met me (because oral and anal don't count, right?). i even introduced her to her first porn. it was a 90's movie called Suggestive Behavior, and it was about a couple who gets hypnotised to get horny whenever a bell rings which leads to a lot of cheating. even years later she would watch it constantly. so i guess i corrupted her. she liked drinking and video games, and was very submissive at times, but always horny. she told me when she confessed that the reason she cheated was partly because she liked the attention, partly because she was really horny, and partly because she wanted to make my friends like her and accept her as part of the group (or to make new friends in some instances). and since they all wanted to sleep with her anyway it was just an easy way to make them like her. no one who slept with her ever told me about being with her, she's the only one who talked about it. but there were a lot of hints and innuendo and comments in hindsight about some girl they had recently fucked. she said she always made little distinctions to feel less guilty about it, like it not being "technically" cheating unless it's vaginal sex. or if she had already given someone a blowjob then there was no harm in doing it a second time. and if she had already given the guy a few blowjobs then progressing to a lap dance or dry humping him wasn't that much worse as long as there was no penetration. and then sex wasn't that much worse than that, which made it ok. or if she confessed to some small part of what she had done (because i found some evidence), for example making out with her coworker, and i forgave her for that, then the parts that she left out were forgiven in her mind as well. she also had a long term affair going with my best friend, probably for around 5 years. and he often helped her cheat, and she helped him cheat. she told me the two of them were the only ones each of them could talk to about it. he sometimes picked me up and we'd go hang out leaving her to do whatever. he gave her alibis quite a few times. he even convinced me that my picking up on all the clues was just unfounded jealousy and it was making me too paranoid and i needed to see a doctor about it to get medicated, therefore making it easier for her to cheat. he did the same with his own wife.

one of my favorite stories was about the guy i hated and her. here's what i know. we'll call my ex Sara, him Paul, and her maid of honor Mary. Paul was a really confident and cool musician. he didn't study and didn't care to. his music was very dark and angry and he really played up the whole tragic artist shtick, which the girls always fell for. but his personality was more like a frat boy who learned to dress in black to get all the alt girls. Mary was a tomboy. i sometimes thought she may have been a lesbian, or at least bi, with a major crush on Sara. Sara wasn't into her at all, though, she just liked her as a friend. i never knew her that well, and barely knew Paul.

they met when my best friend brought him over to a party. a bunch of us had just gotten new piercings and we weren't supposed to drink, so we decided to celebrate that with lots of alcohol. Paul showed up and just started being an ass to me and only me. he and Sara talked a bit, but we left soon after. a few weeks later my best friend mentioned that Paul keeps asking him about Sara. her response was always something like "tell him 'too bad' i'm taken." i only really saw him in passing but he was still an ass so i always tried to not deal with him. a few more weeks went by and the wedding was getting set and i don't hear anything more about him. Sara was spending most of her time at Mary's place while i was left alone at home. she told me that it started when Paul and one of his friends came over to Mary's one night and she was surprised that Mary knew him too. he planned on getting Mary to help him dye and cut his hair, so Sara volunteered to do it instead. they already had been drinking a bit that night and were pretty buzzed. she told me that she cut and dyed his hair the way she did with me, where he was only in his boxers and she only in her panties, no bra, to not ruin their clothes. and she sat on his lap while she did it. she said it was driving him crazy and he kept grabbing her and begging to fuck her. she kept saying no but she loved the attention so she kept teasing him. his friend and Mary just watched. she told me that Paul chased her around the apartment and pinned her against a wall a few times trying to fuck her but she kept pushing him off. Mary didn't know anything about Sara's cheating history, but she still started trying to convince Sara that she should cheat just this once. Sara said she didn't want to at first, but she finally got tired of all the begging from everyone. so she gave him a blowjob in the living room where everyone just watched them. Paul still tried to fuck her but she told him that this was all he would get. she said after he came in her mouth his friend wanted one too but she was too shy having just met him so she didn't. Sara told me it happened maybe two other times where she would blow him at Mary's. then one night she was getting dressed to go meet Mary like always and she was looking especially good. as she was getting ready i start kissing her, then bent her over and started fucking her. she was loving it, but she stopped me before either of us could cum and told me that she was already late, so she finished getting dressed and left. she was watching a movie with Mary and Paul that night. she told me later that she had planned on just teasing him some more, maybe giving him another blowjob if he was lucky, but i had made her too horny. she didn't tell me about the sex, but knowing her and how she teased, i can make a good guess. it probably started with him touching her under the blanket, then kissing, then laying her head in his lap and sucking him while she fingered herself. then when he begged again to fuck her instead of the outright "no" or "i can't" she would either say something like "we probably shouldn't" or just moan. and apparently Mary kept trying to push the envelope further with the two of them so she always kept telling Sara she needed to fuck Paul and kept trying to get more drinks into Sara when she was over so she'd maybe be more willing. but i'm sure Paul started it with Mary's urging, she just didn't stop him. she told me that after they fucked they all finished the movie then she came home. i was still up and she told me they just "talked a lot" which is why it took 4 hours to watch a movie. she also didn't want to have sex with me that night, she claimed she was too tired already and just wanted to shower and go to bed.

i wasn't an innocent victim through all of this either. i cheated on her, but only a few times with the same girl. then after we split Sara eventually started seeing Paul. they were living together when i got in touch with her again. i gave her a ride after the club because he was drunk and she didn't feel safe riding with him. we went back to my place instead under the pretense of me still having some of her things lying around, where i got her on her knees blowing me. she told me it was about time that i did that, she had been wanting it all night. as i got close she asked me where i wanted to cum: in her mouth? on her face? or inside her? i'll always remember her next words. as she was blowing me she said "technically i've still been a good girl and we haven't cheated yet." then went right back to sucking. that was it for me. i threw her down, ripped off her clothes, and fucked her until i came inside her. she even asked me when she was about to cum "is it ok if i cum too?" i let her. afterwards she had to rush home to meet him. she told me that he suspected so she confessed the next day, and she spent the next few nights sleeping on the sofa. they split a few weeks later. i didn't feel bad at all.

i've been wracking my brain trying to remember some of her other confessions or times where i was sure something happened but she convinced me it didn't. i'll post a few others that might be good to read when i can. also more detail about some that i've already mentioned if i know any more.
 
A girl cheated on her bf with me for a while. At one point I fingered her while she talked to her boyfriend on the phone.
 
I do (in a way) wish this was my husband's fantasy. I will admit it - I am a bad wife, and I have given into my excitement and have cheated a lot. Not for the first 12 years of marriage - but then, I found resisting too difficult. I have chatted with both women and men who have open relationships, and it works so well for them. The fact is that I always feel so guilty afterward.

Would your husband try swinging. That might be a good way to get into an open relationship. I do not think you should feel too guilty about a little cheating. Assuming you are not seriously neglecting your husband while doing it. There still is a double standard. Many guys like to wander and many people think he is just being a guy. Well some woman have the same urges so I think they should get the same consideration. I know cheating gets tricky in a relationship but I do not think we were meant to be monogamous. No matter how great a lover your husband is, there are times when it is so nice to try someone different.
 
Now this is beautiful. Faithful and loving, yet playful. Then something happens, and bam! I love it! Do tell more - did your co-worker know your husband? I bet he played it up while you fucked with your husband at home unaware. Who led who to the final decision and how? And have you cheated before or since, and what happened when you saw your husband after? How long had you been married. Details make the whole tale hot.

My husband had met him but they didn't know each other outside of that. He told me that he had wanted to fuck me since we started working together. The final decision I guess would have been mine. Like I said we had been flirting all night long and he was kind of pushing with comments like "I should just kidnap you" and "he's being an ass come spend the night at my place" and I responded that if it was a true invite maybe I should. I have cheated before and since then. My husband and I go through phases where we love each other and then kind of hate each other. I'm pretty sure he is cheating as well during those times.
 
Plenty of naughty, but oh-so-fun, people and responses here. Keep 'em coming!

I do (in a way) wish this was my husband's fantasy. I will admit it - I am a bad wife, and I have given into my excitement and have cheated a lot. Not for the first 12 years of marriage - but then, I found resisting too difficult. I have chatted with both women and men who have open relationships, and it works so well for them. The fact is that I always feel so guilty afterward.

Guilty, but it didn't stop you from doing it again. Part of you enjoyed it, even while you were cheating - thinking of what you were doing and who *not* with. Be honest, and share your stories ;)

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Now this was fucking beautiful. The ways people will try to make themselves feel morally right amuses me. She sounds like the perfect woman for your friend and rival to fuck while she is with you. I hope they enjoyed that she was cheating ;)

Any other tales you remember would be fun to read, but this is good for now. Thanks.

A girl cheated on her bf with me for a while. At one point I fingered her while she talked to her boyfriend on the phone.

;) Perfect. Should have been more, but this is always fun. What led to it, was it the first cheating, did you know her guy, and how did she react after? ;)

My husband had met him but they didn't know each other outside of that. He told me that he had wanted to fuck me since we started working together. The final decision I guess would have been mine. Like I said we had been flirting all night long and he was kind of pushing with comments like "I should just kidnap you" and "he's being an ass come spend the night at my place" and I responded that if it was a true invite maybe I should. I have cheated before and since then. My husband and I go through phases where we love each other and then kind of hate each other. I'm pretty sure he is cheating as well during those times.

I was interested in wondering if the cheating itself - knowing what you were doing - added to the high for either of you, and what you felt and whether it was fun when you saw your husband after. Whether he found it amusing to hint or be smug in front of your husband after, knowing he had nailed you and your guy didn't know. So much potential, but I love the reality here.
 
Would your husband try swinging. That might be a good way to get into an open relationship. I do not think you should feel too guilty about a little cheating. Assuming you are not seriously neglecting your husband while doing it. There still is a double standard. Many guys like to wander and many people think he is just being a guy. Well some woman have the same urges so I think they should get the same consideration. I know cheating gets tricky in a relationship but I do not think we were meant to be monogamous. No matter how great a lover your husband is, there are times when it is so nice to try someone different.

I am not neglecting my husband, we do have a great sex life. Many assume that I cheat because my husband does not satisfy me. This is certainly not the case at all. My husband is a wonderful lover - it if my own quirk. Thanks
 
I am not neglecting my husband, we do have a great sex life. Many assume that I cheat because my husband does not satisfy me. This is certainly not the case at all. My husband is a wonderful lover - it if my own quirk. Thanks

Interesting. Would you say that your marriage is otherwise good as well? Reason I ask is because a lot of time when a man or woman cheats they use the excuse that their emotional needs weren't being met etc. in other words "if my partner treated me better I wouldn't have felt the need to do this. Ergo it's his/her fault partly.". I've always thought that it's certainly possible to love your spouse, have a fulfilling marriage but simply desire to have sex with an attractive coworker etc. Certainly your eye might wander if your needs aren't being met at home but unhappy home is not necessarily a prerequisite to cheating
 
Interesting. Would you say that your marriage is otherwise good as well? Reason I ask is because a lot of time when a man or woman cheats they use the excuse that their emotional needs weren't being met etc. in other words "if my partner treated me better I wouldn't have felt the need to do this. Ergo it's his/her fault partly.". I've always thought that it's certainly possible to love your spouse, have a fulfilling marriage but simply desire to have sex with an attractive coworker etc. Certainly your eye might wander if your needs aren't being met at home but unhappy home is not necessarily a prerequisite to cheating

I "cheat" a lot with my husband's full permission. Indeed, my husband wouldn't have it any other way and even helps me choose clothes before dates. We used to have rule that he had to know about all my affairs, but now I keep him guessing.
 
;) Perfect. Should have been more, but this is always fun. What led to it, was it the first cheating, did you know her guy, and how did she react after? ;)

We had fucked before. This was probably a few weeks into her cheating. At this point I was going to her place and nailing her while he was at work. What led to it was we worked together and she basically threw herself at me...at first I rebuffed her but eventually I gave in.

I've never met the guy. She told me she had cheated on him before and he'd found out. I should have taken that as a sign that she'd get sloppy. Sure enough he found out. He got mad and wanted to talk to me but I ignored him. Her reaction was immature, like it wasn't her fault of course. We stopped at that point (well, I fucked her one more time when he was out of town) and went our separate ways. I heard they got married!
 
I "cheat" a lot with my husband's full permission. Indeed, my husband wouldn't have it any other way and even helps me choose clothes before dates. We used to have rule that he had to know about all my affairs, but now I keep him guessing.


Hot. Do you tell him details?
 
Neighbor

One time, my wife and I got invited to a neighbor's house, we started smoking and I had to go home but she wanted to stay because she was getting friendly with the woman of the house. She got tired and went up to bed. My wife gets freaked out when she smokes, so she started saying that her heart was racing. The husband came over felt her heart beat. She took off her shirt and asked his to feel it. When he did, she got excited and took off her bra. He started sucking on her nipples as he took off his pants. His friend who was smoking with them told me the whole story. He pulled her pants off and fucked her until they both cam. His friend masterbated to it. They dated behind his wife's back for a few months afterwards.
 
One time, my wife and I got invited to a neighbor's house, we started smoking and I had to go home but she wanted to stay because she was getting friendly with the woman of the house. She got tired and went up to bed. My wife gets freaked out when she smokes, so she started saying that her heart was racing. The husband came over felt her heart beat. She took off her shirt and asked his to feel it. When he did, she got excited and took off her bra. He started sucking on her nipples as he took off his pants. His friend who was smoking with them told me the whole story. He pulled her pants off and fucked her until they both cam. His friend masterbated to it. They dated behind his wife's back for a few months afterwards.

That's hot. Did your wife know that you knew? were you ok with it? You ever join in?
 
Real

You may fantasize, but for me real and can cause problems. It starts on a high note, then it goes of the cliff.
 
When my wife and I were dating she had a friend that we would exchange pics with, we planned on doing a swap with her and her boyfriend but things never went through. She used to go out with her friend and the boyfriend and I always had a feeling something happened that she didn't tell me about. It wasn't until a year or so that she finally confessed she did have sex with her friend's boyfriend one night. It was after they went out to a club and her friend drank a bit too much and ended up passing out in the back seat on the way home. He ended up dropping my wife and her friend off at the friends house as my wife was exiting the front seat he ended up stopping her and pulled her towards him kissing her. Well apparently she enjoyed it because they ended up having sex in the car. At first when I heard it was a mixture of emotions, on some level I already knew but was still mad and jealous but at the same time very aroused at the thought. I would ask her for more details from time to time and we would always have some very hot sex after. I guess that's what got me into wanting to see her with another man and our current fantasies of watching her enjoy different cocks.
 
It is such a HUGE turn on knowing I'm fucking a girl cheating on her boyfriend... knowing my cock is occupying the same tight place where her boyfriend's cock usually is. And knowing it's a secret just between the girlfriend and me.
 
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