Cheating girls

But in the traditional usage, that so-called (willing) cuckold is actually a wittol. A cuckold, in traditional usage, may or may not have known of her infidelity, but, either way, had no choice in the matter. Hence the humiliation that is still attached to the cuckold word—in those elder days, a man was less than a man if he couldn't satisfy and control his wife. So, if he couldn't, he was subject to scorn and humiliation. Her act of cheating was by its own nature an act of emasculation.



My impression from women I've talked to and women I've read both here and elsewhere is that there is a huge rush in doing the forbidden, and getting away with it—a sexual rush and an adrenaline rush mingled into one.

In our case a neighbour and friend of my wife's was in a really bad marriage, the husband was an (both physical & mentally) abusive alcoholic. He was a self-employed landscape contractor who would work odd hours (especially during snow plow season) then go out drinking with his employees afterwards. He would get home drunk then demand his wife suck him off (she said he could rarely get hard because of the drinking) then he would just pass out. He flipped out if he even found sex toys claiming it was 'cheating'.

She had been bi in college and knew my wife & I were in the lifestyle and so the two of them had more than a few 'afternoon delight' sessions at our place during the day while he was working. Then one day she mentioned to my wife that while the girl / girl sex was great, she was thinking that they should stop because not getting fucked had been hard enough when she was getting nothing but no she was almost worse off needing a hard fuck and not being able to get it.

My wife told her that was easy to fix, she could fuck me anytime she wanted!!

Let me tell you, she was shy and embarrassed for about 3 seconds fucking me in front of the wife for about the first 3 seconds before turning into a totally wanton wild animal.

It so empowered her that within a week or two she left the jerk and moved in with us, originally a temporary safe-haven, but now permanently as our live-in girlfriend.
 
Mine was a little college girl that I met at a conference. Way younger than me.

You?

Well first time cheating on our arrangement was a younger guy at our office. We had to go to a meeting and I had to drive. Things got funny and we did it in my mini van.
 
BORING!!! Hahaha I kid, again like whatever you like, but this does absolutely nothing for me. The entire thing about girls cheating that makes it so hot to me is the lust; it's their decision that good dick is worth betraying such a deep, meaningful relationship or risking their partner finding out that I find so hot. The dude knowing about it defeats the entire point of the fantasy to me.

Personally, I prefer the story to be from the perspective of the man she's cheating with or the girl herself. I fantasize about being in the position of the man girls cheat WITH rather than ON, so having the story told from his perspective makes empathizing easy and fun. At the same time, while I find it harder to empathize with the female character, it's always interesting to see their perspective and see the internal battle..."

Some how this thread went away from the initial topic...I'm with you in that architypal situations seem to assume the male is ok with it and also the female knows he will be ok with it...where does that leave the story line...with only one path which is right to the humping part. This does get a bit old! Without tension or resistance these plot lines are uni-tonal.

I've only seen a few porn clips where the man's reaction and also the female's reaction is surprise, disdain, anger, jealously​, reluctant or somewhat reluctant. At least, where the acting was good enough to tell these things.

If you get a chance to check out a Netflix movie, Nymphomaniac 2 i think, though I could be wrong. The girlfriend who becomes his wife is unable to orgasm with him. They try and try to figure it out. Even after having her first kid she just can't. It slowly explores her reluctant journey and his even more reluctant participation to achieve feeling and orgasm. She does this partly without his knowledge at first, then with his awareness but not his approval. She even risks the life of her child to find feeling and orgasm. In the end she finds it and loses both husband and child. This movie has some incredible twists at the very end and it's slow, complicated, and none resolving plot I so appreciate as it resembles the complexity of real life.
 
[TLDR; the last paragraph is really the reason I made this post. Everything else is just a jumble of random thoughts I had about my personal fantasies that I felt like sharing. Skim away if you're short on time, but I am interested in hearing others' perspectives on what I like!]

NOT INTO CUCKOLDING

I have nothing against cuckolding, we all like what we like, but it's a shame to me that these genres are always so closely associated and that cuckolding is so much more popular. Almost every single fantasy I find involving a girl cheating on her man is from the perspective of the guy being cheated on, and he is completely aware and willing of her infidelity.

BORING!!! Hahaha I kid, again like whatever you like, but this does absolutely nothing for me. The entire thing about girls cheating that makes it so hot to me is the lust; it's their decision that good dick is worth betraying such a deep, meaningful relationship or risking their partner finding out that I find so hot. The dude knowing about it defeats the entire point of the fantasy to me.

Personally, I prefer the story to be from the perspective of the man she's cheating with or the girl herself. I fantasize about being in the position of the man girls cheat WITH rather than ON, so having the story told from his perspective makes empathizing easy and fun. At the same time, while I find it harder to empathize with the female character, it's always interesting to see their perspective and see the internal battle between being a good girlfriend/wife and lust for a good dickin'

THE MORE GRADUAL THE BETTER TOO!! On top of being really into the infidelity theme, I'm also just fascinated by human behavior and decision making in general. Seeing the ways that people can gradually rationalize behavior in very small baby steps to eventually end up doing something they'd never have initially been okay with... I don't know, something about it is so interesting to me. So very long, drawn out stories where a woman is initially completely and utterly devoted to her relationship and is very, VERY gradually worn down by an attractive, masculine stud so that by the end of the story she's like addicted to sneaking off and fucking him...

AMAZING!!

It's interesting to me that being on the side of the "cheated on" party is so much more popular. It would seem natural for me for more people to fantasize about being in a "superior" position, taking someone else's woman, than in the position of the person having their woman taken from them. Again, I can't stress enough that I intend absolutely no judgement toward anyone into cuckolding fantasies. It is in a way the complete opposite of what I'm into and I won't pretend that I understand the urge to be in that position, but I also understand that my preferences are no more valid than anyone else's; we're all just trying to get off!! :)

I'm not really posting this for advice or anything. If anyone happens to have story recs that might fit what I like I'd be interested to check them out, but that's not really what I'm here for. I guess I'm just curious how many others are interested in this side of cheating and what their perspectives are/what they like about cheating. If anyone has any other thoughts on what I wrote here (literally ANY other thoughts) feel free to share! I haven't talked with many people before about my fantasies so I'd be more than happy to chat away. I'd also be more than interested to hear the perspective of someone into cuckolding who would like to compare our respective fantasies and why we like what we like.

Just want to report that I for one agree with you, you are definitely not alone. I could have written this myself. Cuckolding per se doesn't really do it for me. The interesting part for me is the rising tension in a relationship with an obstacle (like one of the lovers is married to someone else). With an obstacle to be overcome, the tension can ratchet up MUCH higher before release, therefore making what I find a good story or fantasy. Also the psychological shifts that happen as the relationship starts progressing are fascinating to me. So I prefer the focus to be on the part of the couple that has the obstacle between them, not so much on the humiliation of an observer. I'm not interested in actually watching my partner cheat or anything like that, it's just a device to build tension in a fantasy for me.
 
After giving birth to my dau, I wasn't doing well. My husband and I decided it would be good if I just stay home to recuperate for a little while. A couple of months later, he got a promotion and a little while turned into three years.

During that time, I became friends with our landlord. He was a retired police officer and lived on the first floor. We were both home all day so we spent a lot of time together.

We took walks, went grocery shopping, worked on the garden, he babysat when I had doctor appointments. We got so close we were kissing each other in the mouth hello and goodbye and didn't think anything of it. Although, we didn't do it in front of my husband.

Then we started having sex. The first time was so bad. He couldn't do much. He wasn't grandfatherly elderly but he had a bad back and a surgically repaired knee so it was just like two positions. And he came very fast. But I still enjoyed it, not so much the sex as I enjoyed the act of cheating.

I thought it was shitty of me to feel that way but I couldn't stop going back for more. And the sex got better, too.


Nice!!!
 
I wouldn't say I'm a total slut, but I have cheated on boyfriends, lovers and yes, my ex-husband. In most cases alcohol may have played a major role.

For some fucked up reason, I get perverse pleasure out wearing another mans cum on my face when I come home to greet my man-of-the-time. I don't make it obvious, just subtle enough that they won't notice on first glace. If the cheaters cumshot happens to land in my hair, I'll make no attempt to wash it out before coming home.

I've only done this a few times, but the thought of it makes me so horny.

That is super hot! I always enjoy seeing my wife with cum on her face. Knowing that it is somebody elses is even hotter. Never happen IRL though.
 
[TLDR; the last paragraph is really the reason I made this post. Everything else is just a jumble of random thoughts I had about my personal fantasies that I felt like sharing. Skim away if you're short on time, but I am interested in hearing others' perspectives on what I like!]

NOT INTO CUCKOLDING

I have nothing against cuckolding, we all like what we like, but it's a shame to me that these genres are always so closely associated and that cuckolding is so much more popular. Almost every single fantasy I find involving a girl cheating on her man is from the perspective of the guy being cheated on, and he is completely aware and willing of her infidelity.

BORING!!! Hahaha I kid, again like whatever you like, but this does absolutely nothing for me. The entire thing about girls cheating that makes it so hot to me is the lust; it's their decision that good dick is worth betraying such a deep, meaningful relationship or risking their partner finding out that I find so hot. The dude knowing about it defeats the entire point of the fantasy to me.

Personally, I prefer the story to be from the perspective of the man she's cheating with or the girl herself. I fantasize about being in the position of the man girls cheat WITH rather than ON, so having the story told from his perspective makes empathizing easy and fun. At the same time, while I find it harder to empathize with the female character, it's always interesting to see their perspective and see the internal battle between being a good girlfriend/wife and lust for a good dickin'

THE MORE GRADUAL THE BETTER TOO!! On top of being really into the infidelity theme, I'm also just fascinated by human behavior and decision making in general. Seeing the ways that people can gradually rationalize behavior in very small baby steps to eventually end up doing something they'd never have initially been okay with... I don't know, something about it is so interesting to me. So very long, drawn out stories where a woman is initially completely and utterly devoted to her relationship and is very, VERY gradually worn down by an attractive, masculine stud so that by the end of the story she's like addicted to sneaking off and fucking him...

AMAZING!!

It's interesting to me that being on the side of the "cheated on" party is so much more popular. It would seem natural for me for more people to fantasize about being in a "superior" position, taking someone else's woman, than in the position of the person having their woman taken from them. Again, I can't stress enough that I intend absolutely no judgement toward anyone into cuckolding fantasies. It is in a way the complete opposite of what I'm into and I won't pretend that I understand the urge to be in that position, but I also understand that my preferences are no more valid than anyone else's; we're all just trying to get off!! :)

I'm not really posting this for advice or anything. If anyone happens to have story recs that might fit what I like I'd be interested to check them out, but that's not really what I'm here for. I guess I'm just curious how many others are interested in this side of cheating and what their perspectives are/what they like about cheating. If anyone has any other thoughts on what I wrote here (literally ANY other thoughts) feel free to share! I haven't talked with many people before about my fantasies so I'd be more than happy to chat away. I'd also be more than interested to hear the perspective of someone into cuckolding who would like to compare our respective fantasies and why we like what we like.
For me it’s not the cheating and getting away with it, it’s not the adrenaline rush. It’s the newness, the wonder, the feeling like I’m a teeny bopper again with my hand up her skirt in the back seat. THAT feeling of discovery, her intricacies, the things special and definitive of her. Things like her scent, how she holds herself, how wet, how she gets wet, how her wetness feels, the intricate differences of every woman are a massive turn on for me. I’m always wondering what my neighbors ass looks like in her panties. Or, what her nipple might be like under that summer blouse.

I love those things
 
"My impression from women I've talked to and women I've read both here and elsewhere is that there is a huge rush in doing the forbidden, and getting away with it—a sexual rush and an adrenaline rush mingled into one."

Getting away with the forbidden is a rush for everyone, i expect. But women can find someone to cheat with easier to men. I expect that the proportion of women that cheat -- especially GFs that cheat is very high

That is the absolute truth of it. there is no pleasure in him watching for me anyway
 
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