Cheating brides...

You're not going to get a one-size-fits-all response. I can only answer for myself. For me, there are a few elements. Here are some:
  1. I do, in fact, get off on humiliation. Only, and specifically, sexual humiliation. And in order to work, it can't be too extreme or exaggerated. I don't want to feel like a character in an x-rated graphic novel (even though I do enjoy those occasionally). Humiliation fetish is no different than any other form of masochism. But for some reason, when masochism involves flogging and the like, it's considered normal. When it involves emotional content only, a lot of people get squicked out by it.That's never made any sense to me—but that's me. In any case, it really sucks that your formative experience was with an unbalanced man who ended up committing suicide. I imagine that must have left a pretty bad taste. But I assure you, we are not all like that. Some of us are even pretty self-aware and well-balanced. :)
  2. The second is even simpler than the first: I really get off on strong women who know what they want, and aren't afraid to take it— wherever, whenever, and with whomever they want. I don't think most of these women have any desire to hurt their husband or BF. I know for sure that this has been true of the women I've known personally who were into this lifestyle. In most cases, I'm pretty sure there's an understanding, whether spoken or not. For other women, (including the only one I've been involved with directly as 'cheater,' rather than 'cheatee),' it seems the thrill is in the act of cheating itself—the forbidden, the taboo. But they are very careful not to get caught, and very skilled at keeping it hidden.
  3. Third, and this ties closely with #2, is that men have been in the position of power, and been the ones doing most of the cheating, for thousands of years. Extreme consequences for women who cheated, no consequences at all for men. I personally get a real emotional and sexual charge out of seeing women who are willing and able to stand this tradition on its head—even if I'm the one who gets 'cheated' as a result.



Thank you. These are the kinds of answers I'm looking for.
 
yeah. I totally just wanted to see hot chicks in white dresses getting fucked
 
Apologies all. Didn't mean to depress everyone.
I don't think you were out of line at all hun. You were giving your perspective on it and legitimately asking for answers. Ignore the rest of the jerks. It's not a lifestyle for everyone, and especially on a site like this everyone should feel free to question honestly to their heart's content, without risking being judged for it-as long as you're not being judgemental yourself.
 
It wasn't really a wedding but I was watching a house that belonged to my parent's friends and I went out to this bar and managed to hit it off with these two guys and we came back to the house and were having some drinks and in looking around the guestroom closet found her wedding dress. With some encouragement I decided to try it on and come and show off to the guys who cheered and clapped as I modeled the dress and then we proceeded to have a fun threesome while wearing the dress with some naughty talk along the lines of being a naughty bride. Lots of naughty fun but I did have to have the dress cleaned again.
 
It wasn't really a wedding but I was watching a house that belonged to my parent's friends and I went out to this bar and managed to hit it off with these two guys and we came back to the house and were having some drinks and in looking around the guestroom closet found her wedding dress. With some encouragement I decided to try it on and come and show off to the guys who cheered and clapped as I modeled the dress and then we proceeded to have a fun threesome while wearing the dress with some naughty talk along the lines of being a naughty bride. Lots of naughty fun but I did have to have the dress cleaned again.

lovely story, puts the kink right in place!

btw, this topic is a turn on, for some it's fantasy, for others reality, judging it is so vain
 
I get married a week from today!

and the idea of being defiled in my pretty, lacy dress just turns me on so much.
 
Sounds like the perfect start to married life. Hope you got sloppy seconds.

He was staying at our house and we got a bit drunk. I could see they wanted each other. Then I fucked her when he was done

They didn't even take their clothes off
 
He was staying at our house and we got a bit drunk. I could see they wanted each other. Then I fucked her when he was done

They didn't even take their clothes off

Nothing beats watching your wife being fucked then getting your cock into her cum filled cunt.
 
Did you mean 'at a couple of your friend's weddings'? If so I'm sure you stole the show! Well I want to take you with you wearing your wedding dress.:devil:

Yes 3 of my friends precisely...I went to the wedding sans panties... I and they knew that I love sex... They only warned me not to fuck their husbands (to be)...
 
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