Cheating brides...

bride to be

I'm getting married new month (3-16-19), and this looks so fucking hot. I don't think my fiance would be into this, but I would love to be made to service his friends after the ceremony. I'm just going to imagine my blush-colored gown stains with their cum.
 
I'm getting married new month (3-16-19), and this looks so fucking hot. I don't think my fiance would be into this, but I would love to be made to service his friends after the ceremony. I'm just going to imagine my blush-colored gown stains with their cum.
Are his friends hot? Is your fiancé open minded?
 
I'm getting married new month (3-16-19), and this looks so fucking hot. I don't think my fiance would be into this, but I would love to be made to service his friends after the ceremony. I'm just going to imagine my blush-colored gown stains with their cum.

How is he when you flirt or notice other guys checking you out?
 
I'm getting married new month (3-16-19), and this looks so fucking hot. I don't think my fiance would be into this, but I would love to be made to service his friends after the ceremony. I'm just going to imagine my blush-colored gown stains with their cum.

Don't ask ur fiance's permission...just do it...it's super fun...
 
This idea is so hot, I still have my wedding dress from a decade ago! Might be hotnto slim down a little and slip back into it for a night of fun! Hubby would go through the roof lololol

I know I would if my wife did this. Please do it and let us know how it goes
 
I'm getting married new month (3-16-19), and this looks so fucking hot. I don't think my fiance would be into this, but I would love to be made to service his friends after the ceremony. I'm just going to imagine my blush-colored gown stains with their cum.

Wow and more wow.

He wouldn’t even let you blow them?
 
Working as an event planner for a long time I’ve come to the point where nothing surprises me anymore. The first years though opened my eyes to how many women would open up with a stranger in the room, especially if they were with their friends instead of the groom (it happens more than you’d think) another surprise was how many will reveal more when they think you’re not listening. Some brides are just plain open books and you know the marriage won’t last. I had one who attended with her husband and the best man and spent more time smiling at the best man and talking to him than she did her husband. Even on the wedding day there was a lot of flirting with the best man and an intimate dance. The groom just laughed it all off as part of the fun but it was obvious there was a connection between them.
 
Working as an event planner for a long time I’ve come to the point where nothing surprises me anymore. .

I arrange a few business conferences a year and I am always surprised by the number of married women who want to have sex when they are away from home
 
I arrange a few business conferences a year and I am always surprised by the number of married women who want to have sex when they are away from home

I’ve found the same, not sure whether it’s being away from home, a little freedom and some extra attention that turns them on and let’s them explore with a new lover. Maybe they’re just plain horny and looking for extra marital fun.
 
I’ve found the same, not sure whether it’s being away from home, a little freedom and some extra attention that turns them on and let’s them explore with a new lover. Maybe they’re just plain horny and looking for extra marital fun.

Plain horny and looking for variety
 
I arrange a few business conferences a year and I am always surprised by the number of married women who want to have sex when they are away from home

Been there done that...love to have sex gangbangs when on business trips ...the thought that hubby is not with me and there to stop me is the motivation...
 
This idea is so hot, I still have my wedding dress from a decade ago! Might be hotnto slim down a little and slip back into it for a night of fun! Hubby would go through the roof lololol

I love this idea too! Maybe to celebrate one of our birthdays, I'll get a hotel room. Invite some other lucky guy. My wife is waiting for him in her wedding dress
 
I arrange a few business conferences a year and I am always surprised by the number of married women who want to have sex when they are away from home

I don't doubt that. I wish my wife's career took her away on business trips. I'm sure she'd be enjoying a new cock every trip!!
 
Informed Husband?

Been there done that...love to have sex gangbangs when on business trips ...the thought that hubby is not with me and there to stop me is the motivation...

Do you tell your husband about your business trip dalliances? Or us he left in the dark? I would love for my wife to have business trip romances, and then come home to tell me about the hot sex!
 
Been there done that...love to have sex gangbangs when on business trips ...the thought that hubby is not with me and there to stop me is the motivation...

Assuming you are not full of shit with your over the top exploits (I think you are), but let's say you're not. Have you ever considered the possibility that your Husband might actually know or suspect what you're doing? Do you think he might not care as he has a side piece he's getting all his sex and affection from? Do you know with absolute certainty that he loves you and isn't just going through the motions so he doesn't get divorced raped in court? I've known women who were 'sexually liberated' like you are. None of them are this reckless. And the one who came close paid the price with her life when her Husband snapped, kidnapped her and tortured her to death.


For the rest of you guys, I don't get the thrill. I really don't. It just doesn't compute for me. There are real consequences to cheating. I was deployed to Iraq when my Fiance cheated on me. There was nothing hot about it. My buddies knew before I did thanks to a network of loyal wives who kept us informed. They didn't tell me because we were in a really fucking bad area and if I lost my focus I'd likely get killed and possibly get some of them killed in the process. So imagine my shock and gut wrenching pain (and their horror) when one of her dingbat friends accidentally added my name to a mass email; a pre-invite notification before the actual invitation to the wedding was sent out. I was Doc, I was the one who kept them healthy and alive when shit hit the fan. But I was out of commission as my head wasn't in the game. Then one day while on a mounted patrol our vehicle got hit by an IED. I KNEW that patch of garbage wasn't right, didn't belong there. I knew every inch of that route and what did and didn't belong on it. I should have seen it sooner. I didn't because I was stuck in my head feeling sorry for myself because my whore of an ex couldn't keep her fucking legs closed. That nearly cost the lives of four of my brothers and my own.

So, yeah the bitch married the guy she cheated on me with. Turns out I dodged a bullet. He forgot the cardinal rule. She who will lie for you is she who will lie to you. He found out the hard way when she got knocked up by another guy and tried to pass the baby off as his. He apparently isn't a cuck like you guys and divorced her, though he ended up getting divorced raped. I sent him a fruit basket of apples for consolation.

There are so many more stories too. Which is why I dont get the appeal. I don't want to condemn you guys. To each their own, ya know? But I don't get it.
 
. . .Which is why I dont get the appeal. I don't want to condemn you guys. To each their own, ya know? But I don't get it.

I understand where you're coming from. what I don't get is why, given your feelings, you would want to be part of this thread. When I see a thread extolling some kink that turns me off (and there are plenty of those) I avoid it.

Maybe I'm misinterpreting— maybe you're not criticizing, but seeking understanding of something that's foreign to you. But if so, all I can say is that it's a kink. Kinks aren't logical, and can't be explained through logic.
 
Assuming you are not full of shit with your over the top exploits (I think you are), but let's say you're not. Have you ever considered the possibility that your Husband might actually know or suspect what you're doing? Do you think he might not care as he has a side piece he's getting all his sex and affection from? Do you know with absolute certainty that he loves you and isn't just going through the motions so he doesn't get divorced raped in court? I've known women who were 'sexually liberated' like you are. None of them are this reckless. And the one who came close paid the price with her life when her Husband snapped, kidnapped her and tortured her to death.


For the rest of you guys, I don't get the thrill. I really don't. It just doesn't compute for me. There are real consequences to cheating. I was deployed to Iraq when my Fiance cheated on me. There was nothing hot about it. My buddies knew before I did thanks to a network of loyal wives who kept us informed. They didn't tell me because we were in a really fucking bad area and if I lost my focus I'd likely get killed and possibly get some of them killed in the process. So imagine my shock and gut wrenching pain (and their horror) when one of her dingbat friends accidentally added my name to a mass email; a pre-invite notification before the actual invitation to the wedding was sent out. I was Doc, I was the one who kept them healthy and alive when shit hit the fan. But I was out of commission as my head wasn't in the game. Then one day while on a mounted patrol our vehicle got hit by an IED. I KNEW that patch of garbage wasn't right, didn't belong there. I knew every inch of that route and what did and didn't belong on it. I should have seen it sooner. I didn't because I was stuck in my head feeling sorry for myself because my whore of an ex couldn't keep her fucking legs closed. That nearly cost the lives of four of my brothers and my own.

So, yeah the bitch married the guy she cheated on me with. Turns out I dodged a bullet. He forgot the cardinal rule. She who will lie for you is she who will lie to you. He found out the hard way when she got knocked up by another guy and tried to pass the baby off as his. He apparently isn't a cuck like you guys and divorced her, though he ended up getting divorced raped. I sent him a fruit basket of apples for consolation.

There are so many more stories too. Which is why I dont get the appeal. I don't want to condemn you guys. To each their own, ya know? But I don't get it.


Anything is a possibility but knowing my hubby for close to 19 years I know he doesn't know...

I agree with liqueur...
 
I understand where you're coming from. what I don't get is why, given your feelings, you would want to be part of this thread. When I see a thread extolling some kink that turns me off (and there are plenty of those) I avoid it.

Maybe I'm misinterpreting— maybe you're not criticizing, but seeking understanding of something that's foreign to you. But if so, all I can say is that it's a kink. Kinks aren't logical, and can't be explained through logic.

Information mostly. I apologize if I come off so abrupt as rude but I've always felt that in order to advance a conversation don't be afraid to speak your point. I'm trying to see the other side of the coin to understand th full dynamic. My first sexual encounter was banging another guys wife when I was 15. I was a dumb teenager then and didn't know any better and she was this smoking hot red head with a nice body. Both of them were in their mid 20s. On my birthday no less. He told me he had a birthday present for me in the back bedroom and I went back and there she was in black lingerie, candles and q sexy smile.

My only hang up over it was that he wanted to be in the closet as it happened. So as I'm laying the pipe to his wife I can hear him stroking off. Weird as fuck at first but I just put it to the back of my mind and continued on. And for 2 years I fucked her any which way I desired at any time I wanted.

Towards the end I could sense something not right between them and offered to stop. They both steadfastly refused. He had become obsessed with me and his wife. The dirtier the things I did to her the more obsessed he became. She confided in me that they no longer had sex. Not because she didn't want too but because he didn't. He felt what I've come to witness as that weird arousal/Humiliation aspect at the fact a (at the time 17 year old) had a bigger dick than he did and could get his wife to squirt, when he couldn't even get her to cum.

That marriage ended rather tragically once he hit his limit. I stopped banging his wife despite the fact she wanted me to get her pregnant so they could have another child. The situation just got too toxic for me and I called it quits. I'm still amazed by the fact even then, at 17 I could recognize the fact that pussy came with a price. She left him almost immediately. 3 months later he hung himself and wrote a letter going into how emasculated he felt. I've debated on writing a story on the issue.

In retrospect I realized now that both of them were sexual predators. I babysat their daughter when I was 14, I cut their yard and did odd jobs around their house for cash. Real leave it to beaver stuff.. They groomed a 14 year old boy to be their personal sex toy. How fucked up is that? I refuse to call myself a victim though. He wasn't Bi (at least that I knew) and I sure wasn't Bi-curious so there was definitely no guy on guy stuff. The whole situation towards the end just felt wrong. If given a choice knowing what I know now, and knowing how good that pussy was, I would have not done it.

So fast forward a couple of years till I'm 21. I've had a couple of casual normal relationships but nothing serious. I'm on adult friend finder when I get hit up by this hot MILF that was a dead ringer for a blonde Diane Lane. We meet, hit it off and what do you know, she's got a hotel suite all ready to go. Didn't see a ring but there was that band of discolored skin to indicate she had one recently. I figured she was divorced and looking to celebrate her freedom. I was happy to oblige. So as I'm laying it into her and have her screaming for Jesus, I hear something in the background. Something I would have ignored had I not heard it many times before. A familiar sound coming from the closet. And I'm thinking 'not this crazy shit again'. After I blow my second load into her and we shower up she confesses that it was a fantasy of her husbands. Him and I get to talking and what do you know this guys is cool as shit. Complete different from the first time. We strike up a friendship that we still have to this day. There was no degradation, no surrendering of his wife to me. No wanting me to impregnate his wife. Just two guys sharing a hot piece of ass. I was their 'pinch hitter'. There were rules and boundaries, which was a first for me but it helped cement things oddly enough. One of the best memories I have of them is the 3 of us going to a cabin for the weekend and we took turns on her, did the MFM threesome and what not. One memory sticks out above all is him and I naked in Lawn chairs, drinking a beer and shooting the shit with her on her knees between us naked as she alternated sucking us off. Absolutely wild. But eventually they grew out of swinging and we mutually ended it. I've spent time with them since then and we're still good friends and they thank me for the good memories. But they're monogamous now in their late 50s. I'm 37 now. There was an awkward period there with them when their 16 year old daughter caught me and her father spitroasting her mother. Made even more awkward the girl had a crush on me. *shrugs*.

My final experience with this lifestyle came in the form of my first interracial couple; a black couple. He was what he referred to himself as a 'reformed Bull'. Been in the lifestyle over 25 years when I met them. This happen about 2 years after my whore ex-fiance and I ended. I was 28 at the time.

This dude worked on the base I was stationed at and worked the gym. We became workout buddies and friends. And with his help I got into the best shape of my life. When I became Master Fitness Instructor for my unit I credited him. He invited me over to his place to celebrate and meet his family and I accepted. When I first laid eyes on his wife my jaw about dropped through the floor. HELLO EBONY GODDESS!!! Beautiful face and a body built for sex, light skinned with a Jamaican accent. Now you'd figure a woman this amazing to look at would be stuck up, entitled princess or have an attitude. Nope, her personality matched her beauty. I won't lie, I was seriously smitten and made a complete fool of myself. She was demure and feminine...just intoxicating. .wow. my body still flushes and my Dick gets hard when I think of her. I thought for sure I was pissing off my friend or providing him endless amusement. And then they dropped the bomb.

Ya know how some white women REALLY get off on interracial? Well what no one really knows or talks about are how some Black women REALLY get off on interracial too. So they laid it out. No tricks, no nothing, answer all questions. They wanted me to 'give my white cream to her black coffee'. Quote unquote. I needed exactly 2 seconds to think about it and responded with a resounding yes.

Now I've fucked women that have been very responsive but nothing like this. The moment I kissed her and forcefully shoved my tongue in her mouth she came. She was already leaking like a faucet leading up to this, but I've never before or since made a woman cum just from kissing her. I was her first white man, the culmination of all her fantasies. Naturally I didn't disappoint. I fucked her well into the wee hours of the morning and every chance i could get. He liked to direct and video tape us. She loved it when I came inside her. It never failed to set her off. And by set her off I mean body shaking almost epileptic like seizures. I even got her to pass out a few times.

I'd love to say it was my big cock that did it. Truth be told I'm 7 3/4 when hard. Her husband is about the same size though I'm slightly thicker. But nah, it was the sheer naughtiness of fucking a White cock. My cum was not to be wasted either. It was either down her throat or in her pussy or ass.

These two had fantasies too. Let me tell you. The White Master fucking his slave? Did it numerous times. Bandage, roleplay, anal? Too easy. She was my submissive little slut. And then we got in deeper. Ya see, Black people like to swing too. They more often than not keep within their community though, but in the past 10 years or so they've really started to branch out interracially. White couples are of course their primary interest. But an attractive, in shape White man with a fairly big dick and skills in the sack? You'd be surprised at how many black and Hispanic women hunger for that. She started to introduce me to her friends and yes I fucked all of them. Turned out she was a bit of a submissive cuckquean too. Servicing her Masters cock and eat my cum out of her friends. It was wild!

But all good things must come to an end. I got another overseas assignment that took me right back to the shithole of the middle east. We all moved on. Her and her Husband now have a steady White boyfriend for her.

So how do these stories of my wild depravity relate to this thread? I've asked each of the Husbands what they got out of watching me plow their wife. Seriously, these were hot women and very sexual. I get what the ladies get out of it. But I don't get what the guys get out of it. I could never let my current girlfriend fuck another guy. I get no arousal at the thought. So hence I ask you all to explain it to me.
 
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So how do these stories of my wild depravity relate to this thread? I've asked each of the Husbands what they got out of watching me plow their wife. Seriously, these were hot women and very sexual. I get what the ladies get out of it. But I don't get what the guys get out of it. I could never let my current girlfriend fuck another guy. I get no arousal at the thought. So hence I ask you all to explain it to me.


This is not the place for a long discourse on human physiology: suffice it to say that there is evidence that after a woman has been with a third party the regular party, and the woman, enjoy a more intense orgasm than when performing routine sex. It is a design feature that women are more likely to cheat (unconsciously) during their fertile period and men are designed to respond to that cheating by overwhelming the strange sperm with their own - note the penis shape that is designed to suck out previously deposited deposited sperm. They who study these things believe that a number of human fetishes (swinging, cuckolding etc.) exploit this response to heighten sexual enjoyment.
It is a darn sight more complicated than this but I can attest that after a swinging encounter we fuck the shit out of each other for a good couple of weeks.

The thread title is a bit misleading as I think the owner was looking at the specific case of wedding encounters, not routine 'I'm bored to death' routine cheating, (of which you were a victim), and there is a while raft of brides in wedding dresses having the shit fucked out of them by multiple men. BTW, we've attended swinging weddings where the whole point was to get the bride and groom well and truly laid by as many guests as possible. A whole different ball game!
 
This is not the place for a long discourse on human physiology: suffice it to say that there is evidence that after a woman has been with a third party the regular party, and the woman, enjoy a more intense orgasm than when performing routine sex. It is a design feature that women are more likely to cheat (unconsciously) during their fertile period and men are designed to respond to that cheating by overwhelming the strange sperm with their own - note the penis shape that is designed to suck out previously deposited deposited sperm. They who study these things believe that a number of human fetishes (swinging, cuckolding etc.) exploit this response to heighten sexual enjoyment.
It is a darn sight more complicated than this but I can attest that after a swinging encounter we fuck the shit out of each other for a good couple of weeks.

The thread title is a bit misleading as I think the owner was looking at the specific case of wedding encounters, not routine 'I'm bored to death' routine cheating, (of which you were a victim), and there is a while raft of brides in wedding dresses having the shit fucked out of them by multiple men. BTW, we've attended swinging weddings where the whole point was to get the bride and groom well and truly laid by as many guests as possible. A whole different ball game!


Well thanks for the 'clinical' answer. But it's kinda boring. I've studied the research and mentally I understand it. But emotionally? What the guys are feeling and getting out of it? How they derive their enjoyment? That is what I don't understand. And to be fair the thread was off topic long before I got here.
 
So how do these stories of my wild depravity relate to this thread? I've asked each of the Husbands what they got out of watching me plow their wife. Seriously, these were hot women and very sexual. I get what the ladies get out of it. But I don't get what the guys get out of it. I could never let my current girlfriend fuck another guy. I get no arousal at the thought. So hence I ask you all to explain it to me.

You're not going to get a one-size-fits-all response. I can only answer for myself. For me, there are a few elements. Here are some:
  1. I do, in fact, get off on humiliation. Only, and specifically, sexual humiliation. And in order to work, it can't be too extreme or exaggerated. I don't want to feel like a character in an x-rated graphic novel (even though I do enjoy those occasionally). Humiliation fetish is no different than any other form of masochism. But for some reason, when masochism involves flogging and the like, it's considered normal. When it involves emotional content only, a lot of people get squicked out by it.That's never made any sense to me—but that's me. In any case, it really sucks that your formative experience was with an unbalanced man who ended up committing suicide. I imagine that must have left a pretty bad taste. But I assure you, we are not all like that. Some of us are even pretty self-aware and well-balanced. :)
  2. The second is even simpler than the first: I really get off on strong women who know what they want, and aren't afraid to take it— wherever, whenever, and with whomever they want. I don't think most of these women have any desire to hurt their husband or BF. I know for sure that this has been true of the women I've known personally who were into this lifestyle. In most cases, I'm pretty sure there's an understanding, whether spoken or not. For other women, (including the only one I've been involved with directly as 'cheater,' rather than 'cheatee),' it seems the thrill is in the act of cheating itself—the forbidden, the taboo. But they are very careful not to get caught, and very skilled at keeping it hidden.
  3. Third, and this ties closely with #2, is that men have been in the position of power, and been the ones doing most of the cheating, for thousands of years. Extreme consequences for women who cheated, no consequences at all for men. I personally get a real emotional and sexual charge out of seeing women who are willing and able to stand this tradition on its head—even if I'm the one who gets 'cheated' as a result.
 
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