Cheating and what is it

[Morden]

Here is a question. If you are with someone and they consider something cheating that you don't. What do you do?
Me personally I figure the weakest link wins in this case. If my woman considers what I am doing cheating I will not do it. I may say that it is innocent, but in the end I will not do it. On the same token i expect the same from her.

 

[Weevil]

Depends on how crazy your woman is.

The love of my life has a serious problem with me going to movies with other girls.

 

[Boxstar]

Here is a good rule to follow and I quote:

"Sex with two girls is not cheating cause they cancel each other out."

 

[Angel]

 

[Morden]

Are the other women close friends of yours? Is there a reason she doesn't trust that way? Have you brought her along with you and another girl? I can see your point on the plain simple fact. That is a little bit of a leap. But, maybe she has issues from it with a past boyfriend.

 

[Weevil]

Sorry Box but quoting from Road Trip has made you lose 15 EBW cool points.

 

[Renegade]

Here i sa question. If you are with someone and they consider something cheating that you don't. What do you do?
Me personally I figure the weakest link wins in this case. If my woman considers what I am doing cheating I will not do it. I may say that it is innocent, but in the end I will not do it. On the same token i expect the same from her.

Exactly. I agree with this 100 percent. Everyone has their own 'standards' for what's cheating and I always try to respect what my better half(when I have one. lol)feels about what I do. But, at the same time, I'd also expect her to not do that which she has a problem with me doing and what I myself consider as cheating.

 

[Renegade]

Sorry Box but quoting from Road Trip has made you lose 15 EBW cool points.

What's wrong with Road Trip???

 

[Angel]

Sorry Box but quoting from Road Trip has made you lose 15 EBW cool points.

I don't recall getting any EBW Cool Points for my Bangles post.

 

[Weevil]

Are the other women close friends of yours? Is there a reason she doesn't trust that way? Have you brought her along with you and another girl? I can see your point on the plain simple fact. That is a little bit of a leap. But, maybe she has issues from it with a past boyfriend.

Nope. She is simply 100% crazy. I suppose her insane jealousy should be flattering but, well.

She might have past issues with it but it doesn't change the fact that she's nuts.

 

[Laurel]

If you have to lie about it, don't do it.

If you can say it to your partner's face, "Yes, I'm doing this with so-and-so," then do it.

To me, the definition of cheating isn't whether it's first, second, or third base. The second you do something behind your partner's back that you KNOW would hurt them if they knew, that's cheating.

If their demands are silly or strange, then you have to deal with them about that. If EBW's chick gets upset about him going to movies, he should find out why she's upset and do his best to make her feel secure with him. He shouldn't take the easy road and go to movies with other chicks without telling her. THAT's cheating. It's a deliberate breach of trust.

This is, of course, just my opinion. You all live your life how you wanna...

 

[Weevil]

I don't recall getting any EBW Cool Points for my Bangles post.

Because EBW cool points are things that have to be strenuosly won. They aren't given out all willy nilly like lit points.

Earning them is a tricky thing. For instance simply posting a cool song won't win you points, unless its a little known cool song that I happen to love.

Or, say, if you can name the movie that started my life long love of Kristy Swanson. That would earn someone major cool points.

 

[Angel]

Oh Lord.



Flowers in the Attic?

 

[Weevil]

If their demands are silly or strange, then you have to deal with them about that. If EBW's chick gets upset about him going to movies, he should find out why she's upset and do his best to make her feel secure with him. He shouldn't take the easy road and go to movies with other chicks without telling her. THAT's cheating. It's a deliberate breach of trust.

Cheating, maybe. Easy, yes indeed. And I have always been a proponent of taking the easy way out

 

[Boxstar]

wasn't Kristy Swanson the original Buffy the Vampire Slayer? <folds hands and prays> I need those EBW points bad!!!!

 

[Weevil]

She was but that ain't the flick.

 

[Angel]

1986 DEADLY FRIEND
1986 FERRIS BUELLER'S DAY OFF
1986 PRETTY IN PINK
1987 FLOWERS IN THE ATTIC
1990 DIVING IN
1990 THE DREAM TRAP
1991 HOT SHOTS!
1991 MANNEQUIN TWO: ON THE MOVE
1992 BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER
1992 HIGHWAY TO HELL
1993 THE PROGRAM
1994 THE CHASE
1995 HIGHER LEARNING
1996 THE PHANTOM



I think I'm forgetting one.

 

[Weevil]

Oh Lord.



Flowers in the Attic?

Nope. But thank you berry much for playing

 

[Boxstar]

Hint? c'mon I'm 15 points in the hole. I won't be able to sleep.

 

[Weevil]

1986 DEADLY FRIEND
1986 FERRIS BUELLER'S DAY OFF
1986 PRETTY IN PINK
1987 FLOWERS IN THE ATTIC
1990 DIVING IN
1990 THE DREAM TRAP
1991 HOT SHOTS!
1991 MANNEQUIN TWO: ON THE MOVE
1992 BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER
1992 HIGHWAY TO HELL
1993 THE PROGRAM
1994 THE CHASE
1995 HIGHER LEARNING
1996 THE PHANTOM



I think I'm forgetting one.

Well now you've taken all the fun out of guessing

 

[Renegade]

1986 DEADLY FRIEND

Loved the Basketball scene.

 

[Weevil]

Hint? c'mon I'm 15 points in the hole. I won't be able to sleep.

Sure the hint is that it's on Angels list.

 

[Angel]

*grin*

I'm a Swanson fan, what can I say?

 

[lavender]

 

[Boxstar]

The Chase?