chat during lovemaking

foxylady2

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or afterwards? Don`t know what pharses are used during lovemaking do you just grunt and make loud noises or what?
 
I love talking during sex, I've had some really fun conversations. Mind you, it's also really fun to just grunt or talk dirty while you're fucking too...
I think it's up to the people fucking.
 
My wife loves to talk during sex. The other day, she called me up from her hotel room.
 
Depends on the person, though chatting during sex means one or both of you are so doing it wrong. :eek:

Now personally I'm alot of moans, and I encourage what he is doing. It's basically all about going with the flow, the better the flow, the more your going to say something. Don't think about your saying, just say what your thinking. If your thinking you really want to be used like a whore, say so, if your thinking he needs to go faster, say so, if you want him to go slow and hold you say so. You enjoy sex so much better when you let him know what you want during, also means after he can go ahead and roll over and go to sleep and you won't care. ;)
 
We seem to only talk if one of us wants to change something with what's happening. We often gets lulls in the whole making out process and sometimes there's some lovey dovey talk during that, but not really all that much. When I'm getting close to climax, I'm usually incapable of much coherent thought anyways, so talking is kinda pointless.
 
Generally not much is said. In the past I've been turned off by women "talking dirty" during lovemakine but things are getting a bit boring lately. Maybe it's just because what I experienced in the past wasn't really very sultry and alluring. It just sounded too cheap at the time. I beleive if done intelligently it might really work for me!
 
I think that it really depends on the people and the mood. Sometimes, we're all about the sex, other times we drag it out lazily and chat in places, and still other times it's all about dirty talk. It just depends, and as long as it's ok with both partners, have at it. There are no rules.
 
I have no problem with her doing it but I guess I just saw to many porno movies when I was young and I feel very corny if I talk during sex.
 
Sometimes--it is brief words here and there---sometimes though--I describe fantasies--or past experiences. She loves it--and so do I :) Usually during the slow fucking or foreplay. I can't think of us talking during the hard fast times though :)
 
Sweet sexy talk does me fine.We are both pretty loud during any kind
of sex really.I can't think of anybody who wouldn't be.
 
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Depends...when my partner and I are having "serious" sex there's no talking but there is communication. Lots of eye contact and non-sexual touches.

Playful sex...we giggle and chat. He'll tell me how he loved what I was wearing earlier...or I'll tell him how much I'd been wanting him. Again the chat is playful and light-hearted with just a hint of sexy.
 
With my wife I used to talk about threesomes or ask "How do you fuck your lover" Now that was hot...

I love when the woman says "Fuck Me" and talks dirty. i love to say "Suck me like the whore that you are." It ws fun.

I love to go to Montreal and have the girl talk dirty in French. i dont even know what they are saying, I will tell her to say "Fuck me Lover" or something like that in French.
 
Timing is everything

If my partner wants to make me cum she starts with the dirty talk. If she wants it to last a long time then she has to restrict herself to moans and grunts.
 
Dirty talk is a major turn on to me... it is like fucking my mind as well as my body. But it doesn't have to be like that every single time, it depends and as they said before, there are no rules.
 
I think even logging on much less chatting during sex is rude.......:rolleyes:
 
Dirty talk is a major turn on to me... it is like fucking my mind as well as my body. But it doesn't have to be like that every single time, it depends and as they said before, there are no rules.

Anything every time can get old........:D.....
 
I love dirty talk during sex....especially if it is whispered in my ear in a moment of passion. There are certain trigger phrases for my husband....if I say them during sex, his orgasm isn't far behind. But then, come to think of it, he gets turned on by any acknowlegdment of pleasure...talking or moaning.
 
I love to talk dirty during sex.......telling him what i want....fuck my pussy...fuck my cunt harder...you get the picture....lol
 
Sexy Talk

After we had been married a couple of years and the sex started to cool off. I asked my wife to tell me about her fantasies during sex. At first she just thought me a pervert, but as time went on, she started telling me about minor things she had thought about, diffent places, situations, etc. I actually set up a few sexual encounters at the places that she mentioned, park, by the river, etc... Over time as she felt more comfortable, she really opened up, I think initially she thought that I would get mad, but to her surprise I did not. So, in the long run, learning to talk and trust in bed has broadened our sex life together.

Although I still like the "Fuck me!!!" "Fuck me hard!!!" talk too. LOL ;)
 
"Oh my God you're so tight."-Hottest thing I've ever had said to me during sex. It really is a situational thing, like I don't mind things like that getting said. It's kinda hot but I don't hold conversations no. Sometimes I just want moans cause those can be just as hot too, lets me know I'm doing good. I freaking HATE when guys don't make any noise... I don't understand that. :confused:
 
more often than not we keep conversation out of it, but every once in a while we get a little playful with the chatter

nothing dirty but just a little playful which ends up getting one of us going and its back to grunts, moans, and commands :devil:
 
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