Chastity

I finally got back in my cage after a work trip last night. My wife has decided to keep the keys which is a new development. She’s starting to become a little more engaged in the chastity experience. We will see where this goes but I asked her if I was going to be able to orgasm this weekend and she said probably not. That’s tough after being on the road for a week, but I like that she is starting to take more of an active role.
 
well done on her part. I like that she said probably not.
so you had a week uncaged? I hope you didnt jerk it
 
I've offered to wear a cage for her but she prefers to have me hard and accessible, keeping me on edge is a pleasure of hers. I'm trained well enough that I will get relief when she allows it.
My wife prefers me cage-less as well. She loves to touch and tease and then deny me.
 
well done on her part. I like that she said probably not.
so you had a week uncaged? I hope you didnt jerk it
I did not. I took a cage that is easy to put on and off and would wear it at night when I was finished working.
 
I did not. I took a cage that is easy to put on and off and would wear it at night when I was finished working.
good job keeping it and not playing with it without her permission
I hope she is proud of you
 
She was glad to hear that I didn’t. I was tempted to as I woke up rock hard one morning, but I didn’t do it. She let me orgasm last weekend before I left. She’s never been very dominant at all so I’ve been giving her ideas of why is on the table if she wants to do it. I’ve told her she can let me jerk off but make me stop before I orgasm. I’ve told her she could peg me but not let me take the cage off. She seemed to enjoy the thought of those so we will see where this goes. She did take the keys last night and hid them so I couldn’t take the cage off now even if I wanted to. I may need to take it off for the shower to groom a little bit, but that will be up to her. This could be fun!
 
I’ve been locked in my new cage for over 24 hours now including going to visit a museum and see an old friend today. As much as I like my inverted cages, there is something really great about being truly locked full time. My wife took the keys away from me anyway so I have no idea when I’ll be out again which is fine with me.
 
I’ve been locked in my new cage for over 24 hours now including going to visit a museum and see an old friend today. As much as I like my inverted cages, there is something really great about being truly locked full time. My wife took the keys away from me anyway so I have no idea when I’ll be out again which is fine with me.
the new metal feels good, so happy to hear that, do you like the way it looks on you? more important does she like hoe it looks
 
I do like the way it looks and feels. I prefer the feeling of my inverted cages, but I did have to take them off for the restroom. I’m truly caged 24x7 now and I love it.
 
I do like the way it looks and feels. I prefer the feeling of my inverted cages, but I did have to take them off for the restroom. I’m truly caged 24x7 now and I love it.
yes you can sit and pee with that one. and she can poke at your cock between the bars to tease you, it will be fun. what does she say or think of it?
 
Maybe. I do like that I never have to take it off. We both like that she has the key and more control over when I am out of the cage. I can say that I haven’t put on my inverted cage since I’ve been off my work trip.
 
She does. The inverted cages near don’t have a key. One I can simply move it out if the way and the other locks with an Allen Wrench. I can’t wear that one to work as it’s too much of a pain to take off to use the restroom. My wife is starting to get into the orgasm denial as well. She didn’t let me orgasm this week a said it that she wants to peg me tonight but keep me in my cage. We’ll see if it happens…I hope it does.
 
Hello peeps. Newish here but not to the forums. So we just bought my first cage last night a. So tomorrow is going to be day one of the fitment and overall adjustment of the cage. Soooooo. I am hoping to empower her as she is not a dominant due to a previous marriage, she is so much stronger then she thinks and my desire is to make her even stronger by caging me. She is an awesome woman, I am happy and offer my total consent to her, and she's good with that. This is her first time down this BDSM rabbit hole and from what i can see she's slowly accepting it. I've worn steel rings before, I am usually good for a day or so, but they end up hurting. I am just worried about the cage being uncomfortable and not being able to deliver for her. The thought of being arms bound, caged, pegged is something I hope comes very soon. Any hints or tips would be appreciated. She is a member here and will most likely see your tips.
 
Start slow. It’s seems easy at first but the mental aspect can build up over time. I went a few hours at first and then just kept building on that every day. I’m still fairly new to this as well. We’ve only been at this for a little over 3 months so I am still learning as well. The most I’ve made it is 13 days with only short breaks to shower/groom and use the restroom. I’m currently on day 3 of being truly locked and not being out of the cage at all.
 
Hello peeps. Newish here but not to the forums. So we just bought my first cage last night a. So tomorrow is going to be day one of the fitment and overall adjustment of the cage. Soooooo. I am hoping to empower her as she is not a dominant due to a previous marriage, she is so much stronger then she thinks and my desire is to make her even stronger by caging me. She is an awesome woman, I am happy and offer my total consent to her, and she's good with that. This is her first time down this BDSM rabbit hole and from what i can see she's slowly accepting it. I've worn steel rings before, I am usually good for a day or so, but they end up hurting. I am just worried about the cage being uncomfortable and not being able to deliver for her. The thought of being arms bound, caged, pegged is something I hope comes very soon. Any hints or tips would be appreciated. She is a member here and will most likely see your tips.
My two cents worth (from a fellow sub) I love how you started this out by making it about HER!... Keep that mindset, first and foremost.
While there's nothing wrong with your "hopes" make sure that there's ZERO pressure on her... if you fully and truly submit to her, everything else will fall into place naturally.
Best wishes to you both!
 
She does. The inverted cages near don’t have a key. One I can simply move it out if the way and the other locks with an Allen Wrench. I can’t wear that one to work as it’s too much of a pain to take off to use the restroom. My wife is starting to get into the orgasm denial as well. She didn’t let me orgasm this week a said it that she wants to peg me tonight but keep me in my cage. We’ll see if it happens…I hope it does.
I hope she has her fun with you tonight. I do like that cage also on myself
 
Hello peeps. Newish here but not to the forums. So we just bought my first cage last night a. So tomorrow is going to be day one of the fitment and overall adjustment of the cage. Soooooo. I am hoping to empower her as she is not a dominant due to a previous marriage, she is so much stronger then she thinks and my desire is to make her even stronger by caging me. She is an awesome woman, I am happy and offer my total consent to her, and she's good with that. This is her first time down this BDSM rabbit hole and from what i can see she's slowly accepting it. I've worn steel rings before, I am usually good for a day or so, but they end up hurting. I am just worried about the cage being uncomfortable and not being able to deliver for her. The thought of being arms bound, caged, pegged is something I hope comes very soon. Any hints or tips would be appreciated. She is a member here and will most likely see your tips.
like its been said start slow and work your way up with a few more hours each week, a little each day then try a night
 
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