Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

drinks, did someone say drinks

https://imgur.com/NDQGyt3

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

Okay, now that I have been a total ass hat and brought people down… lets drink, smoke, and go dance on the beach!

Sorry for sharing too much. Can I blame it on whiskey?

You didn’t bring any one down. You just posted in a lull

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

Alarm goes off on 4 hours. This is P. Nebula saying goodnight and good luck.
And Glenn Gary Glenn Ross. I don’t know why. G stuff.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Sorry for sharing too much. Can I blame it on whiskey?

darn drunk people sharing too much (says the Pot as she uploads a video of her getting screwed from behind)

 

[BrendaBear]

poof

This is the car I built. Pictured with my brother and some friends. It is a 66 Malibu that I owned it for 20 years. The fact I had to sell it 15 years ago is still extremely painful to me. I am such a puss!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

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This is the car I built. Pictured with my brother and some friends. It is a 66 Malibu that I owned it for 20 years. The fact I had to sell it 15 years ago is still extremely painful to me. I am such a puss!

very cool. mad skills
who did you sell it to? Did they seem excited to buy it?

 

[BrendaBear]

who did you sell it to? Did they seem excited to buy it?

He was a bit older, and knew exactly what he was getting, and was super excited to get it. Exactly like I had been 20 years earlier when I bought it.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

He was a bit older, and knew exactly what he was getting, and was super excited to get it. Exactly like I had been 20 years earlier when I bought it.

positive side. you got to enjoy it for 20 years, and passed the enjoyment on. (and got paid)

 

[BrendaBear]

positive side. you got to enjoy it for 20 years, and passed the enjoyment on. (and got paid)

Didn’t get paid- lost money on a car that I should have made crazy money on. Loved the car, likely won’t ever be able to afford another one. If I think too much about how much I got screwed, I will put a bullet in my head. Getting fucked that bad physically hurts.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Didn’t get paid- lost money on a car that I should have made crazy money on. Loved the car, likely won’t ever be able to afford another one. If I think too much about how much I got screwed, I will put a bullet in my head. Getting fucked that bad physically hurts.

sorry. but but passed enjoyment on, good karma or some shit

 

[BrendaBear]

sorry. but but passed enjoyment on, good karma or some shit

Yes!!!

 

[cascadiabound]

Yes, kids grown and gone. Spouse dead. Family in another state, and wouldn’t know or care if I dropped dead tomorrow. I have a fair amount of equity in my house, and have things I worked my ass off to buy that I don’t wish to lose. And I have lost almost everything twice before, and sold off “treasures” that meant far more to me than money. Many of which actually kind of haunt me to this day. Particularly a car I sold after 20 years of building it. None of that matters to anyone else, and I totally get that. But it is (perhaps stupidly) painful to me. I don’t want to go through that again, and especially not since I am alone now (before I had my love with me).

I had two more paragraphs of my experience typed in here, and I just deleted it. It was all depressing. All true, but depressing and nothing good will come of me sharing it. So instead, we should look on the positive!

Hugs Brenda Bear
It's just fine to treasure things you have collected and have memory and extrinsic value to you.
We value you too... and we would miss you terribly if something happened to you.
I have confidence you will find a path that you are ready and willing to walk. You have more life ahead of you than you sometimes realize. And I say that as a women older than you.

Mwah!

 

[Strixaluco]

Morning.... I don't wanna

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Morning.... I don't wanna

whatcha gotta do today?

 

[Strixaluco]

whatcha gotta do today?

Get up. Travel. Woke up with a headache and asthma is troubling me despite taking rescue inhaler earlier in the morning when I was up briefly

 

[Cindy027]

Get up. Travel. Woke up with a headache and asthma is troubling me despite taking rescue inhaler earlier in the morning when I was up briefly

Come to South Africa, hot air should be good for you. And we can go drinking last time I drank with a Finnish woman I ended up getting a tattoo

 

[Strixaluco]

Come to South Africa, hot air should be good for you. And we can go drinking last time I drank with a Finnish woman I ended up getting a tattoo

The max temp I can deal with is about 30°C...

And though not an absolutist, I never really get drunk.

 

[lanceGibs]

Come to South Africa, hot air should be good for you. And we can go drinking last time I drank with a Finnish woman I ended up getting a tattoo

Would drinking with men keep you more cautious?

 

[Cindy027]

The max temp I can deal with is about 30°C...

And though not an absolutist, I never really get drunk.

I become sluggish at anything over 27, the heat here is very dry and sometimes very humid. Like now I should go lie outside in the sun but I just feel like sitting inside in the cool.

 

[Strixaluco]

I become sluggish at anything over 27, the heat here is very dry and sometimes very humid. Like now I should go lie outside in the sun but I just feel like sitting inside in the cool.

My sluggishness starts about at the same temperature - and I definitely don't lie in the sun when it's above 27, my head starts boiling. The best side of hot weather is that it's nice in the shade too.

If there's no good shade available, then my max is close to 25-26. Even with a good wide straw hat.

And I don't deal very well with humidity either... I'm one damn big meteopath.

 

[Cindy027]

If there's no good shade available, then my max is close to 25-26. Even with a good wide straw hat.

I have one too maybe it’s a Nordic thing. My gf says I look like a sexy pumpkin farmer when I wear it.

 

[Strixaluco]

I have one too maybe it’s a Nordic thing. My gf says I look like a sexy pumpkin farmer when I wear it.

Many people here actually take all the sun they can get. But think of a stereotypical picture (maybe a drawing) of rice fields in Asia - they always have wide hats.

 

[lanceGibs]

I have one too maybe it’s a Nordic thing. My gf says I look like a sexy pumpkin farmer when I wear it.

I am sure the Sun cooks you up to your " Hottest possible self ".

 

[Lindi37]

Good evening/morning lovelies

The sun hates me too although I’m brownish for being Irish (decent)

 

[Strixaluco]

Good evening/morning lovelies

The sun hates me too although I’m brownish for being Irish (decent)

Good morning!

I don't even burn easily. My skin can take much more than my head.