changing from good girl to bad girl

[lonelygirl]

I'm a 25 year old lady who is currently changing her identity. I'm tired of being a "good" girl all the time. I have never masturbated and have never even been to first base. If anyone can help me, I'd be ever go grateful. Please email me at either Lisabal2000@aol.com or Lisabal1975@home.com.

Thanks!

 

[Young Knave]

Shouldn't be too difficult.

If you are at all attractive, I'm sure there are plenty of guys (or girls for that matter) willing to deflower you.

 

[Ezzie]

Hey!

I'm not at all attractive and still get guys, must be the tattoo. LOL

And lonelygirl, I've been the "bad girl" my entire life. Started masturbating at 12, had sex at 15, spit out my first kid at 20 and got my first tattoo at 25. I'm the first to shoot off at the mouth about things I disagree with and I've never hanged my head in defeat. I call it being bent but never broken.

If you want some advice from a real bad girl, get in touch with me. My icq and E-mail addy are in my profile.

 

[R Nitelight]

Ezzie

I can't think of anything more sexy than a beautiful tattooed woman glowing with new life.

 

[Ezzie]

Wow

I think you just made my day, Nitelight.

 

[R Nitelight]

Ezzie

Nitelight never forgets......

 

[Guest]

Yes, Tiggs is back, but be warned: NO Flirting on here!

Well, it's obvious that I am not an attractive person, but I've still been able to get both men and women. I think a lot of it is your attitude and how you carry yourself. I am a blunt person and generally do not give a shit about what others think of me. Anyway, I can't help you on the "good girl" part since I know nothing about it. I won't go into sexual details since a lot of my firsts happened before I turned 18. Good luck to you, and my mail is always open too...

~Linds~
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P.S.
Ms. Forgetu...
Thank you once again for the gif
and the lovely e-mail!

 

[Ezzie]

Tiggs, you ugly bitch...

Guess it takes one to know one eh? IWUBU!

Don't let what people say get you down, I know better than ANYONE on this board what you look like, how you live and what you're really like. And to me, my opinion is more important that anyone who doesn't even know you face to face. I'm thrilled to call you my best friend.

Damn these hormones, I'm going to waddle upstairs for my bath now, hope I can find the kleenex on the way.

 

[Guest]

ROFL!!!!!

I told ya... I never would have gotten ya pregnant, but NOOOOOOOOOo, you chose Chris anyway! lol Oh hell. Am I fliritng? lol

 

[R Nitelight]

Tiggs

Welcome back. I promise to not flirt with you.







Much.

 

[catlover]

Tiggs

Tiggy - I think you're beautiful - i enjoy your posts. They come from your heart and soul and THAT is beautiful - never put yourself down

 

[Mr_Neb]

So shoot me (or flame me as this board tends to do to dissenting opinions) but I think is it sad that that you think you should change your image.

Go right ahead and masturbate to you hearts content but please don't compromise any personal convictions that you have had to this point to eleviate temporary loneliness.

Having sex for sex's sake and "spitting out" kids as a result are far worse legacies than being lonely. There are many more appropriate ways to resolve loneliness. In the long run, the "bad girl" solution will leave you far lonelier than anything you are feeling right now.

I hope you take this in the positive way it was intended. You are certainly free to do as you please. It is you that must make the decisions and live with the consequences. The right ones can provide emense satisfaction and personal peace.

Good luck to you.

Mr. Neb

 

[Behr_Naked]

I'm new here and don't really know anyone but I just wanted to chime in with my two cents.

I've been a bad girl for a long time. I was really wild in my youth and kind of didn't care enough about myself enough to cherish my body.

I had sex with guys (and girls) and while I got a lot of pleasure out of the physical acts I was left at times feeling depressed because there was nothing more then sex between me and my partners.

I've been masturbating since I was about 10 and got a jolt of pleasure when I touched myself there. And I find nothing wrong with doing so.

I'm one of those people that believe, if you dont know what you like and where places on you feel good then how are you going to tell someone else what feels good to you?

So my advice is masturbate, it's a good thing to do.

If you ask a lot of guys they will say that they want a girl who they can take home to thier mother but is a whore in the bedroom. So save the bad girl side for when you are with that special person. You don't need to sleep around to nessecarily be a bad girl.

Trust me I know this, you can do all those naughty little things with one person and have it be more enjoyable then if your spreading the "love" around.

 

[Weird Harold]

Out of the mouths of 'babes'

I'm new here and don't really know anyone but I just wanted to chime in with my two cents.
...
If you ask a lot of guys they will say that they want a girl who they can take home to thier mother but is a whore in the bedroom. So save the bad girl side for when you are with that special person. You don't need to sleep around to nessecarily be a bad girl..

Wise words from a newbie.

I think Behr_Naked says it best. You don't have to be promiscuous to be 'bad.' Suddenly trying to be a 'bad girl' overnight is going to confuse your subconscious. You can't shake off a lifetime's habits and conditioning all at once.

Start with masturbation. Then get out and meet people -- all sorts of people. Make friends, both male and female. Eventtually, you'll find someone who you want to be more than a friend and 'bad girl' will just happen.

 

[Ezzie]

Mr_Neb

The term "Spitting out" kids is just a joke we have in my family. My sisters and I can get pregnant just by looking at a man the wrong way, I'm sure of it. Between my sisters and I, we have 9 1/2 kids (I have one on the way) that are 10 and under. And most importantly, all these children were conceieved in love. I love my daughter more than life itself and I didn't use the term to slander her, I never would.

And I'm a "bad girl" I'm safe about it, and being a bad girl doesn't have to revolve around sex. I'm 25 and been with 4 men. There are other ways to become a little like a bad girl that won't destroy beliefs of cause you to be lonely. Dye your hair a wild color, get a tattoo, get something pierced... do something that you would not normally do. I'm not saying go out and steal a car or have sex with some guy the first night you meet him. There are plenty of SAFE ways to accomplish the bad girl image.

 

[Mr_Neb]

Whoops. Sorry about that Ezzie. No offense meant. I certainly get what you mean in the context of that last post. Again, sorry.

Mr. Neb

 

[catlover]

Mr Neb

for those of you who might not know - Nr Neb is a hell of a good writer - I urge you to read his stories

 

[Ezzie]

No problem

I just wanted to make sure that you knew I wasn't saying that term in a bad way. But, I'd better quit talking to you now, as you already know my sisters and I joke about getting pregnant from just being around men and my best friend and I joke about me getting "more pregnanter" so... maybe I'm not even safe talking to men. LOL

 

[Mr_Neb]

Hey CatLover, what a very nice thing to say. Thank you.

Ezzie. If that's the case, then it is probably too late because I think I am the male counterpart to your proclivity towards reproduction. My wife became pregnant on our honeymoon and four months after delivering our first son, she was pregnant AGAIN with our second! By the time of our second wedding anniversary, we had two sons, 13 months apart.

Clearly we could not be trusted on our own so she went on the pill. The FIRST month off, you guessed it, WHAMO, pregnant with our daughter.

Much more drastic measures were then required. I underwent the snip procedure but hey, you never know. It wouldn't surprise me if you aren't feeling well tomorrow morning.

Respectfully,

Mr. Neb

 

[Ezzie]

Maybe you're a long lost brother of ours?

That's how it works with my oldest sister too. She got pregnant on her honeymoon, had her first son in November. She played safe for a while, the whole condom and pill combo and one night they didn't use a condom and wham she was pregnant. Second son the following November. Then, just 11 months after that, a daughter, a small pause and then March 1999: a 3rd son and March 2000: a 2nd daughter.

As for not feeling well tomorrow, I think that's gonna be the case for the rest of my life. This pregnancy is sucking the life out of me. Only 12 weeks along and swollen and exhausted already. LOL