CFNM only a male fantasy or for women too?

[hotoldrguy]

Clothed Female Naked Male....is it something you would want to be a part of and why. The question is for both men and women so let's here from everyone!

My answer: I would love to be a part of a CFNM. To me it is all about giving control over to the woman/women and letting them do as they want with me.

 

[LWulf]

never had this as a fantasy but it does tend to go along with nightmares where I am walking into work naked or some such.

I imagine the only thing women would do if they saw a man naked while they are clothed is cover their mouth and giggle.

 

[janeyl]

I've done it...it's tended to be spontaneous rather than planned...I have a partner who just likes to be naked and will disrobe in company

frankly, it's not that big a deal, it was amusing rather than a turn on. there are things that are much hornier that I'd rather do...

 

[EctoJohn]

I like the fantasy of this, more seduced out of my clothing than just strip and hang out.
I like the idea of having my clothing taken away slowly and by surprise.
Losing control of whether it's on or off, even in public.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I like the fantasy of this, more seduced out of my clothing than just strip and hang out.
I like the idea of having my clothing taken away slowly and by surprise.
Losing control of whether it's on or off, even in public.

That is how I think of it too

 

[papadoc19]

I've done it on several occasions...it can be very fun...

 

[luckyseven]

I've done it on several occasions...it can be very fun...

I totally agree - I love being naked and my wife's friends have become accustomed to my nakedness. My SIL found it strange at first but she often disrobes when she visits now.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I totally agree - I love being naked and my wife's friends have become accustomed to my nakedness. My SIL found it strange at first but she often disrobes when she visits now.

your idea seems more of a nudist perspective. When I think of CFNM, I think of being in a situation where the women are in control of me and can do what they like. Guess it is somewhat like the idea of Gentle Femdom.

Does that appeal to the women as well as the men?

 

[Eva_Star]

I would not find this appealing but do find the reverse very appealing...so I get why you would enjoy this. I have zero dom/switch in me. Maybe you've got a hidden sub side...or at the very least, want to experience being submissive. I'm sure there are lots of women who would enjoy it.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I would not find this appealing but do find the reverse very appealing...so I get why you would enjoy this. I have zero dom/switch in me. Maybe you've got a hidden sub side...or at the very least, want to experience being submissive. I'm sure there are lots of women who would enjoy it.

I think I do have a sub side, yes. But the funny thing is, I also enjoy the idea of being the dominant one with a woman...so I guess I would lean towards being a switch.

Of course all of my thoughts and desires on the subject have no RL experience...

 

[hotoldrguy]

bumping

 

[beachbaby179]

I'm the reverse. CMNF is totally hot.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I'm the reverse. CMNF is totally hot.

I would love to get you naked

 

[barefootgirl69]

I read this all wrong and said yes.

I much prefer CM/nf. But... I wouldn't be adverse to walking in on him being naked and enjoying things as they happen.
Just not as a Top

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

never had this as a fantasy but it does tend to go along with nightmares where I am walking into work naked or some such.

I imagine the only thing women would do if they saw a man naked while they are clothed is cover their mouth and giggle.

Or call the police. Men can't just expose themselves everywhere like some women can and get by with it.

My husband has been naked in front of female friends ever since before we married. He's walked out of a room naked not knowing they were in our home and walked out on purpose. Even on a dare.

Later a few of us ladies have removed his clothes or talked him into doing it. Since we are nudists and exhibitionists it's not really a fantasy.

 

[ydahecnot]

One of my subbier fantasies involves this

 

[Sexybritches69]

The other way around, CMNF. Sounds hot.

 

[neakman]

The other way around, CMNF. Sounds hot.

is that a suggestion or an offer??.....

 

[hotwords229_A]

Virtually every story I've written, CAUTION: SHAMELESS PLUG, has been CFNM related. Most of the feedback I get is from guys though (glad to have any feedback, by the way). I wish more women were into it, but what can you do? It seems CFNM is more of a (certain type of) guy fantasy and CMNF is more of a female one.

I also think it works best if the guy is shy or easily embarrassed and I'm not much into the domination or humiliation aspect of it. But that's just me, I seem to be in the minority on that one.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I've done it unintentionally. But it wasn't the fact that I was clothed and he was not that made it sexy, it was the mental aspect of the power exchange: 'Stand there while I take off your clothes. Let me look at you. Lie down on the bed... '

Being clothed didn't give me any sort of power over him, it was just the way things happened to unfold.

I'd be up for doing either version, I'm kind of switchy.

 

[Beatrix_B]

I think CFNM, as a fantasy for men, isn't necessarily about that man being a submissive male. I'd imagine it's more about the experience of an assertive, confident woman using a man in whatever sexual manner she wants, freeing him to be an instrument of her desires instead of the catalyst.

CFNM fantasy has the undertones of a Femdom exchange were a female in powerful attire imposes her will over the nude male in the scenario—which can be very sexy—if a woman enjoys the idea of having her way with a naked man.

Not every woman wants to or is comfortable with wielding that type of control. It takes a certain amount of moxie and/or swagger to pull off. But, for those that can and do, the dynamic is quite a turn-on.

 

[Tallulah82]

I don't have this as must-do fantasy, however I am open-minded to many things and wouldn't say no to exploring this (or the vice versa) if the company was right.

 

[Sexybritches69]

Eeeevery once in a while, I'll meet a man that brings out a more--I won't say dominant, but forceful side--and I could see playing out this sort of fantasy with him. But not often. My job involves giving others directions, and after doing that all day, I prefer to be less in control in the bedroom.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I don't have this as must-do fantasy, however I am open-minded to many things and wouldn't say no to exploring this (or the vice versa) if the company was right.

So much is partner-dependent, isn't it?


I have mentioned this before, but I know that California has at least one 'naked tea society.'. The guests are women only, the (nude) servers are both men and women. Clearly this fantasy isn't exclusive to men.

The Northern California Ladies' Tea and Discussion Society
http://www.twistedteas.org/index.html

I found this site through my local kink group's page on FetLife. I imagine it wouldn't be too difficult for others to find similar events in their area in much the same way.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I think CFNM, as a fantasy for men, isn't necessarily about that man being a submissive male. I'd imagine it's more about the experience of an assertive, confident woman using a man in whatever sexual manner she wants, freeing him to be an instrument of her desires instead of the catalyst.

CFNM fantasy has the undertones of a Femdom exchange were a female in powerful attire imposes her will over the nude male in the scenario—which can be very sexy—if a woman enjoys the idea of having her way with a naked man.

Not every woman wants to or is comfortable with wielding that type of control. It takes a certain amount of moxie and/or swagger to pull off. But, for those that can and do, the dynamic is quite a turn-on.

This is exactly correct. This is true CFNM in my opinion, Betrix nailed it. It's not about domination/submission, it's more like reverse objectification. It's about women enjoying naked men and of men being a sexual object for women.

I grew up on 80's movies and in those (the ones I watched ) it was always the girl losing her top at the beach, or losing at strip poker, or the guys spying on the girls showers, etc. It's a fun idea to flip that and have the guy (ME) being the one who loses his shorts in front of the girls, loses at strip poker, or is spied on in the shower by girls. That's the joy of CFNM, at least for me.

Of course, as with everything, there are several sub-categories of CFNM: domination, humiliation, strippers, gay or bi (where the clothed women make the guys perform on each other for their amusement or desire).

That's probably why guys are more into CFNM and women are more into CMNF--we ALL want to be the object of sexual desire!

Or not.

Either way it gives me a boner!