curioustoronto
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- Sep 4, 2001
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Hello,
I know this is a bit of a strange forum for a celibacy post, but I’ve hung out on these boards for awhile, and I’m looking for some advice (and averting my eyes from all tempting content).
I’ve been doing a complete celibacy routine for five weeks now. No sex, no masturbation, no nothing. Oh, BTW, I’m a 25 y.o. SWM. I decided to give it a try for a couple of reasons – first, I had always been curious whether I could actually maintain a celibacy challenge (you’ve all seen the Seinfeld episode – I’ve bet my housemate that I can make it to Christmas). Second, after I broke up with my long time girlfriend a few months ago, I slept with someone I probably shouldn’t have, and wanted to make sure that I didn’t cause any problems by repeating that mistake. So, off I went. Or off I didn’t go, I suppose.
It’s been about five weeks now, and there have been a couple of rough spots, but I haven’t fallen down yet – although I plan on giving myself a nice, long Christmas present.
My question for all of you is threefold – first, some entertainment. What do you think I should do to celebrate on Christmas day? Second, and somewhat more seriously, I’m a little nervous that after I’ve finished this two month experiment my revolver may go off a little easier than normal if I should decide to get back into a sexual relationship. My sex life with my ex was very active – we had sex four or five times a week for over two years, and my control was excellent. I could get her to orgasm three or four times every times we had sex, but I don’t know how I’ll be when I try with a new partner. Has anyone else tried this, and if so, did you notice any performance problems afterwards? Third, and last, if you have tried this, would you recommend waiting for a sexual partner to come along, or should I masturbate before then? At this stage, I think I can wait as long as I have to, and I’m just wondering about other people’s experiences after celibacy – I could see it being very satisfying to end off celibacy with some steamy sex instead of masturbation down the road.
Thanks, guys and girls!
P.S. In order to avoid any “difficulties”, I’m not going to check this very often, so please be patient if you’d like a reply, or email me at curioustoronto7675@hotmail.com
I know this is a bit of a strange forum for a celibacy post, but I’ve hung out on these boards for awhile, and I’m looking for some advice (and averting my eyes from all tempting content).
I’ve been doing a complete celibacy routine for five weeks now. No sex, no masturbation, no nothing. Oh, BTW, I’m a 25 y.o. SWM. I decided to give it a try for a couple of reasons – first, I had always been curious whether I could actually maintain a celibacy challenge (you’ve all seen the Seinfeld episode – I’ve bet my housemate that I can make it to Christmas). Second, after I broke up with my long time girlfriend a few months ago, I slept with someone I probably shouldn’t have, and wanted to make sure that I didn’t cause any problems by repeating that mistake. So, off I went. Or off I didn’t go, I suppose.
It’s been about five weeks now, and there have been a couple of rough spots, but I haven’t fallen down yet – although I plan on giving myself a nice, long Christmas present.
My question for all of you is threefold – first, some entertainment. What do you think I should do to celebrate on Christmas day? Second, and somewhat more seriously, I’m a little nervous that after I’ve finished this two month experiment my revolver may go off a little easier than normal if I should decide to get back into a sexual relationship. My sex life with my ex was very active – we had sex four or five times a week for over two years, and my control was excellent. I could get her to orgasm three or four times every times we had sex, but I don’t know how I’ll be when I try with a new partner. Has anyone else tried this, and if so, did you notice any performance problems afterwards? Third, and last, if you have tried this, would you recommend waiting for a sexual partner to come along, or should I masturbate before then? At this stage, I think I can wait as long as I have to, and I’m just wondering about other people’s experiences after celibacy – I could see it being very satisfying to end off celibacy with some steamy sex instead of masturbation down the road.
Thanks, guys and girls!
P.S. In order to avoid any “difficulties”, I’m not going to check this very often, so please be patient if you’d like a reply, or email me at curioustoronto7675@hotmail.com
