Celibacy

[Betticus]

i think that for a man it might damage sanity to go for too long without sex but for me it gives me time to explore myself, who i am and my own needs/desires without the distraction of another persons needs poluting my flow of thought.
i think a future partner would rather get me than a set of behaviours and feelings shaped by my ex...
still finding myself here. close but not quite there yet

if you can do this without going out of your mind then i think this could be a really good thing for you.
xx

I hope so.

 

[rosco rathbone]

just letting you know, there are submissive, even slave whores out there.

I've heard this before. I simply don't have the energy or will to go tracking them down. Prostitutes, to me, are the sexual equivalent of a Burger Kings meal: fast, easy, and you know where to find it. (Relatively cheap as well; once you factor in all of the whining and dining and diamond-ringing that goes along with intercourseing human women.) Yet bloating, unsatisfying.

In the end, a man such as I is left feeling like a sucker; an unbearable state of being. Yet another reason why I consider masturbation the workhorse of sexual modalities.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

THWAP THWAP

Shite..she's on so much lithium, that if I stuck a firecracker up her ass I could substitute her for a fusion weapon.

Between you and Winston, i'm going to have a broken wrist ...

Give a guy a warning next time ... http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2003-8/363868/yelrotflmao.gif

you just earned a new nickname.

 

[Guest]

Re: THWAP THWAP

Between you and Winston, i'm going to have a broken wrist ...

Give a guy a warning next time ... http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2003-8/363868/yelrotflmao.gif

you just earned a new nickname.

Ohhhhhhhhhhh ......shit...

Hmmm lessee...adequate cover......................

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Sure ColdFusion ... chuckle

 

[caela]

Betticus, good luck with the celibacy thing. If you are as drained as that post sounded it seems like a wise course for you to take for awhile to recharge and center yourself. I hope it goes well for you. And just remember you are the one who gets to decide when to call it quits so when those panting, drooling girls mentioned in an earlier post become too much temptation...well you get the idea.

 

[Betticus]

Betticus, good luck with the celibacy thing. If you are as drained as that post sounded it seems like a wise course for you to take for awhile to recharge and center yourself. I hope it goes well for you. And just remember you are the one who gets to decide when to call it quits so when those panting, drooling girls mentioned in an earlier post become too much temptation...well you get the idea.

Oh my. I hadn't thought of that. It may take a while to get my shit straightened out. I've got the whole mental thing, trying to not give but to just recharge myself. I've got the exercise thing that I need to nail back on track as well as the diet. I have one small debt that I want to get rid of but these are life changes and may take some time. I haven't thought of the poor girl that is going to be subjected to who knows how many months of pent up sexual aggression when I am finally ready to come out and play again.

I might break someone.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[caela]

I might break someone.

awwwwww, i am sure that by the time you are ready to get back into the game you will be centered and even more in control of yourself and your life then you are now and as such will be able to also control whichever girl is lucky enough to be at the end of your celibacy streak.

 

[dolf]

I haven't thought of the poor girl that is going to be subjected to who knows how many months of pent up sexual aggression when I am finally ready to come out and play again.

I might break someone.

i wouldn't mind getting broken

if there's one thing that self enforced celibacy can teach you it's self control...and you can always try working out tiring yourself out before you start.
personally i love pent up sexual aggression and i'm sure lots of other girls do too. just don't choose anyone diabetic, brittle boned or with a heart condition
xx

 

[sincerely_helene]

 

[dolf]

 

[snowy ciara]

Remember that scene in the Craft where the girls are getting off the bus in the middle of nowhere and the bus driver says "watch out for the weirdos, girls." or something to that effect? Nancy says "We are the weirdoes, Mister"..

Thanks for the affirmation of my sanity. You can count me in for the &^*%$*#*#& celibacy thing too. My brief foray into the world of dating the other day reminded me why I don't bother.

Sir ColdFusion. Hee. I like it.

ROFLMAO!!!!

Love..You aren't crazy... Hell, compared to her, everyone on the BDSM boards (INCLUDING Bytor) is perfectly normal and sane...

Shite..she's on so much lithium, that if I stuck a firecracker up her ass I could substitute her for a fusion weapon.

 

[niteshade]

I just came off a 14 month celibate run, and the only thing I can think of that it had going for it was that I felt tight as a virgin again when I finally got some. Otherwise, it was just an excuse to buy LOTS of porn and masturbate frequently.

 

[Netzach]

And there's a sound plug for enforced female chastity if ever I heard one, gents!

*grin*

 

[catalina_francisco]

I just came off a 14 month celibate run, and the only thing I can think of that it had going for it was that I felt tight as a virgin again when I finally got some. Otherwise, it was just an excuse to buy LOTS of porn and masturbate frequently.

LOL, now this might be just what I need to show him!! He complains about me being too tight now but has begun to think chastity devices might be interesting to play with where I am concerned.

Catalina

 

[~hellbaby~]

On Celibacy..A woman's View

There are a few benifits in celibacy
Your unshared pussy will stay disease free
You may get mean and act real witchy
It's a great excuse for being bitchy
The lonliness is the hardest part
But at least you won't get a broken heart

~From someone who just ended almost six years of it~

 

[witcha]

Good luck Betticus....was thinking whether not do it myself..but nah...



witcha

 

[Marquis]

Shite..she's on so much lithium, that if I stuck a firecracker up her ass I could substitute her for a fusion weapon.

Actually, a patient's dosage of lithium is not relative to the severity of their disorder.

 

[Marquis]

Yet another reason why I consider masturbation the workhorse of sexual modalities.

True indeed, and put like a poet.

Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't be trying to get better at masturbation.

 

[snowy ciara]

Actually, a patient's dosage of lithium is not relative to the severity of their disorder.

Nope, but I beleve it's one of those drugs you eventually tolerate so you need higher and higher doses of it to get any consistent effect, or you need to alternate with different drugs to maintain any good effect.

 

[Marquis]

Nope, but I beleve it's one of those drugs you eventually tolerate so you need higher and higher doses of it to get any consistent effect, or you need to alternate with different drugs to maintain any good effect.

I don't believe this is the case either. The toxicity level of lithium is so close to the therapeutic level that there generally isn't any room to raise the dosage. If you're suggesting that the body somehows adapts to the effects of lithium, I don't think that's possible, although I hesitate to say for sure.

Lithium is not a pharmacological agent in the typical sense of the word. It's merely a mineral, like Zinc. It's been shown to curb the symptoms of people who are manic-depressive, but medical scientists believe we are 100 years away from understanding why.

 

[dolf]

True indeed, and put like a poet.

Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't be trying to get better at masturbation.

i've been looking into this recently...things are much better if i give myself a little foreplay. celibacy is easier to handle if you give yourself a little more attention than a five minute death wank!
xx

 

[Marquis]

i've been looking into this recently...things are much better if i give myself a little foreplay. celibacy is easier to handle if you give yourself a little more attention than a five minute death wank!
xx

See, that's the problem though. The death wank forces me to get out there and get, as Rosco so eloquently put it, a human woman.

If I bought myself one of these:

www.fleshlight.com

I'd probably never leave the house! Man I'd save a lot of money though.

 

[dolf]

See, that's the problem though. The death wank forces me to get out there and get, as Rosco so eloquently put it, a human woman.

If I bought myself one of these:

www.fleshlight.com

I'd probably never leave the house! Man I'd save a lot of money though.

if that thing could cook, clean and fetch beer it'd be perfect