CBT. Warning: explicit.

[Shankara20]

Wow. what's your tumblr, so I can follow it?

I just set it up and I'll have to get back to you with it - I don't remember.

So far I only use it to post photos that I can link here (and follow several porn sites )

I have most of my wank/self play stuff on Flickr but could post more of the BDSM stuff on tumblr. I'll get back to you soon.

edit -

here it is link - all are welcome. I'll post more of my more "kinky" stuff later here.

 

[Stella_Omega]

got it. I don't put much on mine, i use the dashboard to follow other people. So there's not much to see.

 

[Licia]

Yep. Women have all of their sensation collecting material concentrated in a few areas-- which paradoxically, allows women to feel sensation in more diffused and prolonged ways. Except for sounding. The top tried a vibrating sound on me, and when she used it to press my urethra against my pubic bone-- that felt pretty good, but then any sort of vibration does. We wanted to see if she could stimulate a Gspot from the inside. It didn't work that time, but I have a feeling that, if there were something inserted into the vag at the same time-- we might have gotten somewhere. Like maybe the stratosphere!

Hmm. Whoah. gotta investigate that now. For, you know-- science.

Zaaah!

Probably best to censor the explicit dirty, so I'll keep the TMI to myself. 'Tis a twist on what most would assume about "three holes".

I'll spill if you want to hear.

 

[Licia]

Thanks very much for providing all the visual aids. 'Tis greatly appreciated, and I'm happy that all who've contributed in their own way are gracious in assisting. I know I'll be teaching CBT to at least one other in the home group, so I take the process very seriously. The fact that I find it sexually stimulating is a mere bonus.

So on the way home tonight I asked myself "What Would Shank Do" with a cock and balls presented while the owner of said equipment was restrained?

After a moment or two my mind offered up a list of things to consider bringing to the party that was about to start:

cloths pins
Tiger Balm
banjo picks
ice
candles for hot wax play
stiff brush
makeup brush
and I know there are more items.​

Anything here we want to discuss?

Ironic that I've learned bondage is just as important for safety as it is for preference?

Yes, I get a sexual thrill from tying up my hubby so that he is implicitly vulnerable to my whim. I do not; however, want him permanantly damaged or spiritually broken. He enjoys the pain I give, but reality is what it is.

Sometimes he's scared. Sometimes he will jerk and flinch. He faces it with courage, and that is a gift I both understand and treasure.

Anyway, I am coming to a point.

Yes, I would love to discuss the saftey issues with edge play--my dude is a heavy masochist.

Some of the things you've listed, I've already tried by hand.

Tigerbalm. See, I've been pondering on icy hot of late. Same principle? Safety issues?

Toothpicks: splinters are a concern, but I think as long as I do not insert them into the urethra they may give better sensation versus the fingernails.

I'd hear anything you feel like sharing regarding the list.

 

[Licia]

Serious infection risk and risk of tearing inner surfaces. I consider this edge play and requires research, education, and training and safe practice.

There is material I can share about safe sound play if you wish.

I noticed that the devices are metal construction? How do you sanitize them? The dishwasher or just warm, soapy water?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Zaaah!

Probably best to censor the explicit dirty, so I'll keep the TMI to myself. 'Tis a twist on what most would assume about "three holes".

I'll spill if you want to hear.

Umm...this IS a porn site. You can be absolutely explicit. Or haven't you noticed?


There are only two things that get censored; underage and bestiality.

And I want to hear what you've got to say!

Re: Tiger Balm, I use it on myself-- maybe my jar is getting old or something, but the zing ain't what it used to be. And its hard to persuade other women to try it, they are afraid of it

 

[Shankara20]

I noticed that the devices are metal construction? How do you sanitize them? The dishwasher or just warm, soapy water?

When I first got it I used a home process, that I can describe for you if you want, that is as close to what an autoclave does as one can get at home to sterilize it.

As I am the only one using it now, I wash it with hot soapy water and sanitizer it with hand sanitizer when it is dry before I put it away in its own plastic container. When I'm going to use it I wipe the head of my penis and my hand with alcohol first and use lube from a bottle that I have not use for any other play.

This is the same process I use with all my sounds. Everything I put up my penis is stainless steel - no other material goes in me. Others may have there own thoughts.

 

[Shankara20]

And I want to hear what you've got to say!

Indeed! Me as well.

 

[Shankara20]

Re: Tiger Balm, I use it on myself-- maybe my jar is getting old or something, but the zing ain't what it used to be. And its hard to persuade other women to try it, they are afraid of it

Could be the Tiger Balm, or your little ol' spot is getting use to the stuff. Put a little on the outside on your anal folds and report back

 

[Shankara20]

Tigerbalm. See, I've been pondering on icy hot of late. Same principle? Safety issues?

Icy Hot is good as well. Just place a small dab on tender spots. don't forget places like the underside of his penal gland at the head, the perineum between the balls and anus, on the anal folds, etc. I would not recommend
insertion, but just on the outside of his urethral opening might be ok.

Toothpicks: splinters are a concern, but I think as long as I do not insert them into the urethra they may give better sensation versus the fingernails.

sounds good - banjo finger picks are fun for this sort of play.

I'd hear anything you feel like sharing regarding the list.

cloths pins - any experience yet? - photos available on request
hot wax - any experience yet? - can be edge play


more later....

 

[Nina327]

edit -

here it is link - all are welcome. I'll post more of my more "kinky" stuff later here.

I think... I just might have fainted in sudden orgasmic delight.

Just thought i'd let you know.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Could be the Tiger Balm, or your little ol' spot is getting use to the stuff. Put a little on the outside on your anal folds and report back

You underestimate my appetite for sensation, my dear.

Anything I do to my pussy I also do to my butt-- except I've never been anally fisted. Never had the time, or something.

Ginger doesn't work intravaginally, by the way.

 

[Licia]

Umm...this IS a porn site. You can be absolutely explicit. Or haven't you noticed?


There are only two things that get censored; underage and bestiality.

And I want to hear what you've got to say!

Re: Tiger Balm, I use it on myself-- maybe my jar is getting old or something, but the zing ain't what it used to be. And its hard to persuade other women to try it, they are afraid of it

*chuckles*

See enough faces in your life and you learn to ask if someone really does want to hear or if they're just trying to be polite. Often my blurts are automatic. The crowd might chuckle, but it does not always make one seem approachable.

Anyway, three holes.

A common dude fantasy: the three-holed slut. Talented, the girl can take cock in each of her orifices. She is capable of being used by at least three men at once, and if the relationship is monogamus this girl is awesome because she belongs soley to him. This girl knows her place in a relationship!

Or maybe there is a non-consentual consent theme happening. Rather conventional stuff. *shrugs* If it fries their bacon, more power to 'em.

The hubs expressed the normative naughty chain: Mff. MMf came out a while later. He went off on his own tangent after asking for my opinion--normal "guy" behavior. (I'm condensing. Really, I am.)

So I decided to give him a clue.

"Three holed slut, hmm?"

Shock transfigured his face. He couldn't believe I called his fantasy out of hiding.

"I will tell you what I find erotic in an orgy situation." Sardonic chuckle restrained by a smirk, I sat up in bed to make a clear and honest point. "Manslave restrained to a table of sorts, his nudity is on full display except for the sheet which is folded horizontal style against his thighs. He wears a half-hood: nose, mouth and chin exposed. Ready and willing to take whatever I would give, he is silent--the rise and fall of his chest is the music for the room.

Myself and two more are present: woman and man. I mount my owned cock on the table; the other woman takes her position on his face. The other man in the background is set to lick my rectum as well as the occuring sex. This way, the other woman and I are free to kiss and explore.

*laughs*

He was begging for sex before the story was over. Nope! I decided instead to give him an education on what I call the three spot orgasm: clit, vagina and anus. The waves are powerful enough to give me vertigo and tinnitus as I come down.

Tongue on the clit, two or three fingers saying c'mere against the g-spot and a PIV type digital friction for the anus. It takes a mouth, two hands and some practice. I like to stand as he sits on the floor and attends his work. Part of the power rush happens when I cum on his face and hands. It's a bonus that my cock responds appropriately. It must be either an arousal orgasm or one from the prostrate; thigh to knee is soaked in a pre-cum sort of substance.

You're descriptive experience of sounding reminded me of the three spot orgasm--'if there were something inserted into the vag at the same time, we may have made it to the stratosphere.' I wonder if it would take a contortionist to pull off the three holed orgasm if a sound were being used as a tool.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Sweet!

 

[Licia]

When I first got it I used a home process, that I can describe for you if you want, that is as close to what an autoclave does as one can get at home to sterilize it.

As I am the only one using it now, I wash it with hot soapy water and sanitizer it with hand sanitizer when it is dry before I put it away in its own plastic container. When I'm going to use it I wipe the head of my penis and my hand with alcohol first and use lube from a bottle that I have not use for any other play.

This is the same process I use with all my sounds. Everything I put up my penis is stainless steel - no other material goes in me. Others may have there own thoughts.

What was the process you used for the autoclave sterilization?

Germs and bacteria have a difficult time sticking to stainless steel, so I would think the material is one of the safest to use for that sort of play. I believe it is why that type of metal is also used for piercings?

 

[Licia]

Icy Hot is good as well. Just place a small dab on tender spots. don't forget places like the underside of his penal gland at the head, the perineum between the balls and anus, on the anal folds, etc. I would not recommend
insertion, but just on the outside of his urethral opening might be ok.

Soap has been an accidental urethral offender. The reaction is personally amusing, but I will tell him to empty his bladder when it occurs. I'm not sure the same sort of relief would come with icy hot or tigerbalm.

cloths pins - any experience yet? - photos available on request
hot wax - any experience yet? - can be edge play.

Hot wax and clothes pins, no. All the candles I own burn hot. I've looked at a few from shops which were designed specifically for that sort of play, but those who've used them report the temperature as cool. Clothes pins: if they are placed on the testees themselves could it cause rupture? Or are they meant for the skin of the scrotum?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Clothes pins: if they are placed on the testees themselves could it cause rupture? Or are they meant for the skin of the scrotum?

Skin only, I would think. You're pinching with a lot of pressure on such a small area...

Also: "testees" damn spell check

 

[Shankara20]

Skin only, I would think. You're pinching with a lot of pressure on such a small area...

Also: "testees" damn spell check

And there is so much available skin - left on they are sorta fun to tease around, but when they come off and all that blood returns to that pinched skin...

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Remember, if the cloths pins are too "pinchy" - hurt too much - they can be sprung a little to make them softer. Try them on the webbing between your thumb and forefinger to see how they feel.

 

[Shankara20]

Soap has been an accidental urethral offender. The reaction is personally amusing, but I will tell him to empty his bladder when it occurs. I'm not sure the same sort of relief would come with icy hot or tigerbalm.

With Icy Hot / Tiger Balm the only relief is time - hee - "poor little baby boy" - hee

 

[Shankara20]

All the candles I own burn hot. I've looked at a few from shops which were designed specifically for that sort of play, but those who've used them report the temperature as cool.

One way to cool wax is to hold the candle higher and higher so the drip cools as it drops. This takes some practice, I suggest on your own upper leg for example, as you build skill.

There is so much one can do with warm wax ( link )

 

[Shankara20]

What was the process you used for the autoclave sterilization?

Germs and bacteria have a difficult time sticking to stainless steel, so I would think the material is one of the safest to use for that sort of play. I believe it is why that type of metal is also used for piercings?

I will find the autoclave info and post it later.

Surgical grade stainless steel will not rust and most bodies don't reject it. These are additional reasons for its use.

When I hear "bright - shinny" I think of things make of stainless steel. I so love the stuff.

 

[Shankara20]

I will find the autoclave info and post it later.

link - here is way too much info about insertion play. It includes the process I mentioned earlier.

 

[Licia]

Skin only, I would think. You're pinching with a lot of pressure on such a small area...

Also: "testees" damn spell check

*nods*

Rather like heels on a hard wood floor, I imagine. Science stuff.

That's funny "testees". Add an extra "e" and the subject becomes human, but 'tis what I get when I'm feeling exhausted.

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And the previous is said sans sarcasm.

Which brings me to a related point: the hubs feared to show me what porn turned his crank. He feared offending my "academic sensibilities." My ... propriety.

...

Blah hahahaha!

Yeah, he's not the only pervert in this world.

He had a point, though. How many "women" are actually interested in the "disguting" stuff her husband or boyfriend watches for wank fodder?

"You treacherous shit! How dare you cheat on me with a monitor?! What, I'm not enough for you?!"​

Disclaimer: the scene in quotes is a reality; only meant to fit the context of the whole which proceedes it.

How's that for tangent? Conversations are meant to be fluid and organic in my world.

 

[Licia]

Ooof. There are many points which I would like to address, but I'm fading into meditation mode.

My ass has been kicked today.

A question which momentarily registers:

Shank, did you start with some body modification before or after your interest in CBT?

I'll post more later.

 

[Shankara20]

Shank, did you start with some body modification before or after your interest in CBT?

The interest in body modification stated to manifest later then CBT self-play. Once I found out what and where on my "junk" it was safe to mess with, it was easy to have the jewelry installed. And some of the jewelry made for interesting self play (photos on request)