Caught Girlfriend Cheating

[betamale30]

A while ago my girlfriend had been traveling with her boss and i got suspicious something might have happened.. Over the following weeks I couldnt get It out of my head.. She has always had a password on her cell phone, I started snooping while she would unlock phone.. It took a while but i was eventually able to figure out the 6 digit password.. 1 night when she was over and in the shower i was able to get on her phone and snoop and It was clear that she has been cheating on me.. Ive been so confused about It , my stomach dropped when i saw and i was jealous and angry but at times the thoughts about It turn me on alot.. Ive masturbated to the things i know have been going on but as soon as i cum I'm back to being jealous and mad about It .. Im not sure what to do, should i confront her and tell her what I've found out? Do i just let this all blow over and just keep moving on with the relationship? Has anyone dealt with tis before? Could use any feed back i can get.

 

[FL30]

A while ago my girlfriend had been traveling with your boss and i got suspicious something might have happened.. Over the following weeks I couldnt get It out of my head.. She has always had a password on her cell phone, I started snooping while she would unlock phone.. It took a while but i was eventually able to figure out the 6 digit password.. 1 night when she was over and in the shower i was able to get on her phone and snoop and It was clear that she has been cheating on me.. Ive been so confused about It , my stomach dropped when i saw and i was jealous and angry but at times the thoughts about It turn me on alot.. Ive masturbated to the things i know have been going on but as soon as i cum I'm back to being jealous and mad about It .. Im not sure what to do, should i confront her and tell her what I've found out? Do i just let this all blow over and just keep moving on with the relationship? Has anyone dealt with tis before? Could use any feed back i can get.

First of all, she wasn't travelling with my boss.

Second, tell her you've been dreaming of a MMF scenario and ask if she knows anyone that would be interested.

 

[betamale30]

Lol didnt even catch that misspelling.

I dont know if she would go for that but might be an idea i could through out there.. Ive never even had a MMF myself.

 

[ChattyCathy369]

Dump her,,, she isn’t worth the effort

 

[Jada59]

Dump her,,, she isn’t worth the effort

Yeo.

 

[screwher]

There are a couple trains of thought here. The idea of your girlfriend having sex with another man turned you on. But when that feeling dissipated (aka you came) it bothered you to the point of anger and jealousy. Ask yourself how you feel about her actions when you're not horny. Or getting there.

As well, confront her about it. Tell her what you found out. Trust me, she'll try the "Why are you snooping" and "You went into my phone??!!" bullshit. Like it's somehow equal. If she shows any remorse then the relationship could be salvaged.

When/if you're back on track then you should address the erection her screwing another man gave you.

 

[Smallchange4]

My first girlfriend cheated on me with a housemate. I lived in a communal basement flat. There were four bedrooms all of which had a single small window at ground level. I was coming home late one night and as I passed one of the guys windows I could clearly see him being given a blow job by my girlfriend. I was "kill someone furious" as well as hurt. I decided to go kill some shots at a nearby bar than murder anyone in my house. I don't remember coming home just waking up in the bathroom hugging porcelain.

 

[Justfantasies]

Did it turn you on in any way?

Did you confront her about it?

 

[Smallchange4]

Did it turn you on in any way?

Did you confront her about it?

She actually confessed it to me the next time I saw her. I forgave her. We broke up some months later though and she ended up with him. It didn't turn me on at the time but many years later the memory of it did and still does thanks to my SPH fetish. His cock (what I could see of it as It was partly in her mouth) was much bigger than mine - certainly thicker.

 

[Justfantasies]

She actually confessed it to me the next time I saw her. I forgave her. We broke up some months later though and she ended up with him. It didn't turn me on at the time but many years later the memory of it did and still does thanks to my SPH fetish. His cock (what I could see of it as It was partly in her mouth) was much bigger than mine - certainly thicker.

Most women want to try out big cocks. But they ,ay still stay with a small cocked partner

 

[bristolbabcock]

I agree with Cathy... run her ass off!

 

[policywank]

Is it the idea of her fucking other guys or the cheating that turns you on?. The latter fundamentally involves deceit and betrayal. The former simply implies non-monogamy with or without a fetish element.

I’m not disparaging your desires either way but just don’t confuse the two. I’m a hot wife and my husband and I enjoy that lifestyle. But I wouldn’t deceive or betray him - my sexual activities are non-traditional but he is fully aware and supportive. In fact it only works because of our openness and because he trusts me to respect the parameters of our relationship - again don’t confuse the fact that those parameters are non-traditional with violation of them.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

caught girlfriend/boyfriend cheating? that should be the end of that story. say goodbye. find somebody with integrity. its not that rare and you deserve it.

 

[gametime07]

Without a doubt, dump her. You will never get over that feeling of her betraying your trust.

I know this isn’t the right thing to do, but what is her bosses status? Single, girlfriend, also married? Maybe an anonymous call to his partner to top it off. That’s the vindictive side of me coming out, but might as well end both relationships.

 

[jaF0]

I started snooping while she would unlock phone.. It took a while but i was eventually able to figure out the 6 digit password..

Turn yourself in for hacking and do your prison time like a big boy.