Catching a child in the act of pleasuring themselves.

[estevie]

I couldn't think of a title that fits this little tidbit. It isn't really about masturbating but more of an exploration.



I heard this at work today. A co-workers sister caught her 3yo old daughter playing with herself. She asked what she was doing, the little girl replied that it felt good. The mother replies with "don't do that, your hands will stink"


Ummmm, while I'm not exactly sure what I would say, it certainly wouldn't be this!!!

What an odd thing to say, don't you think?

 

[penguindance]

 

[Guest]

 

[estevie]

Kids that age touch themselves all the time, it's totally normal. I always just tell my kids not to do it when people are around.

While I haven't had this happen to me, thats what I would say. Its a normal thing but please do it some place private. Or something like that.

I just couldn't believe she said her hands would stink! LOL, what a weird thing to say!!!

 

[KillerMuffin]

My son was two and halfish when he casually wanked away while getting in the bath. I said, "Son, don't do that in front of momma or company."

He asked why and I said that it was just something that isn't polite to do in front of momma or company.

Then he asked what company was.

 

[A Desert Rose]

This is what I told my children when they did this:

"I know that feels good to you, but it is something you do privately (in your room, is what I would actually say.) It is not for every one else to see, honey."

 

[estevie]

Re: Re: Catching a child in the act of pleasuring themselves.

Very odd, but much better then telling her shes bad or disgusting i suppose.

Yes, quite true. But do you think that perhaps saying that her hands would stink implies that it is dirty?

 

[penguindance]

 

[FallenSeraph]

Re: Re: Re: Catching a child in the act of pleasuring themselves.

Yes, quite true. But do you think that perhaps saying that her hands would stink implies that it is dirty?

To a child's mind? Without a doubt

 

[Mischka]

When my brother was around four, he discovered a new game: drape the dish towel. He would proudly walk through the house, grinning ear to ear, buck naked except for the towel. He was so disappointed when my mother insisted he didn't show his new trick to the babysitter.

 

[Saint Peter]

I guess the hairy palms threat is old school.

 

[estevie]

When my brother was around four, he discovered a new game: drape the dish towel. He would proudly walk through the house, grinning ear to ear, buck naked except for the towel. He was so disappointed when my mother insisted he didn't show his new trick to the babysitter.

My littlest one shows me his morning wood every morning before he goes pee. If I'm not in the same room, he comes to find me and says "See!" and runs off giggling. Ohhh to be a child!

 

[lobito]

A cousin of mine discovered how good the vaccuum "worked", for making himself feel pleasure, about 15 years ago.

To this day he still doesn't know that his Mother betrayed him by telling EVERYONE. Thus he has no clue that we even know about it.

 

[estevie]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Catching a child in the act of pleasuring themselves.

To a child's mind? Without a doubt

I thought that as well.

Apparently this child has just discovered herself and does it quite often. I just thought it odd that she didn't try to explain or give guidance. I suppose all parents are different and there are definately some uptight people when it comes to sex. Just sad to think of what that little girl may grow believing about herself and about sex.

 

[estevie]

A cousin of mine discovered how good the vaccuum "worked", for making himself feel pleasure, about 15 years ago.

To this day he still doesn't know that his Mother betrayed him by telling EVERYONE. Thus he has no clue that we even know about it.

Ohhhh, LMAO!!!

 

[lobito]

hey it's not like we didn't drop little hints to him, like "Man that really sucks like a Hoover". He's just too dumb to realize it I guess.

Our Uncle threatened to spill the beans on the boys 21st birthday, but sadly the Uncle passed away 9 months before he could say anything. Now the rest of us have vowed to "forget about it".

 

[estevie]

hey it's not like we didn't drop little hints to him, like "Man that really sucks like a Hoover". He's just too dumb to realize it I guess.

Our Uncle threatened to spill the beans on the boys 21st birthday, but sadly the Uncle passed away 9 months before he could say anything. Now the rest of us have vowed to "forget about it".

Oh, I'd tell. Absolutely!

 

[Guest]

 

[Guest]

my sister caught me slapping ham when I was 12. She joked around asking "how big is it?" I told her.

 

[Purrde Flower]

My oldest was playing with himself in the tub when I came in to wash his hair. He told me it was the best toy ever. I didn't know what to say.. I washed his hair.. Went into my room put my face in the pillow and laughed for about 5 minutes.

 

[Bondagebunni]

This is what I told my children when they did this:

"I know that feels good to you, but it is something you do privately (in your room, is what I would actually say.) It is not for every one else to see, honey."

i think that's probably the best response i've heard of...to tell them that it's fine to do, but it's a private thing, for and with yourself. That way they know it's ok...but not to sit in the middle of the living room doing it when the boss is over for dinner.

 

[Bondagebunni]

A cousin of mine discovered how good the vaccuum "worked", for making himself feel pleasure, about 15 years ago.

To this day he still doesn't know that his Mother betrayed him by telling EVERYONE. Thus he has no clue that we even know about it.

omg! someone should buy him a vacuum with the hose attachement for christmas or something...and then take pictures!

 

[InnocentAngel81]

While I haven't had this happen to me, thats what I would say. Its a normal thing but please do it some place private. Or something like that.

I just couldn't believe she said her hands would stink! LOL, what a weird thing to say!!!

wouldnt that traumatize her later?

 

[Riles]

I have yet to experience the joys of motherhood, but if THIS is what I have to look forward to, you have all just created a VERY effective form of birth control! I have enough problems explaining away a dog’s tendency to "hump" when excited...and that's on a professional level. I'm soooooooo not ready for parenting!

 

[Rambrat]

I started the first time the friction sent a wave of pleasure through my body...I was 2 I think...

I remember being breast fed too..,

and I've been wanting breast milk ever since...