Castration play.

[OdysseusMan]

I'm curious if anyone is interested in castration play as an erotic experience, obviously NOT the real thing!

 

[bjlatx]

How does that work?

 

[Dreamer110]

 

[switchersm]

My wife and I play it.

 

[bjlatx]

My wife and I play it.

How do you play it?

 

[Eunuch_Marc]

I played it in real life

 

[Travler99921]

After I came out to my wife about my bisexuality, she asked me if I ever fantasized about becoming a eunuch. I confessed I had. That excited her. Years earlier I had had a vasectomy, and that had really excited her. She could not explain why.

It became part of our foreplay for us to discuss castration. Usually she fantasized about having a lover who would castrate me. Sometimes her fantasy was for a doctor to castrate me while she and her lover had sex.

It got both of us very excited. About the only time she masturbated was when we had these castration discussions.

 

[Eunuch_Marc]

The chemistry between me and my wife has changed a lot since I was castrated. There are no tensions or unfulfilled expectations anymore although I was impotent for many years before so my abilities didn’t change. Intimacy is only aimed at feeling comfortable and enjoying each other's bodies without the goal of getting an orgasm. Obviously I have no sexual longings anymore and I look at women differently than before. It seems like women feel this and are intrigued without knowing what is different about me.

 

[BillyWalrus]

The chemistry between me and my wife has changed a lot since I was castrated. There are no tensions or unfulfilled expectations anymore although I was impotent for many years before so my abilities didn’t change. Intimacy is only aimed at feeling comfortable and enjoying each other's bodies without the goal of getting an orgasm. Obviously I have no sexual longings anymore and I look at women differently than before. It seems like women feel this and are intrigued without knowing what is different about me.

I assume that you were castrated for medical reasons.

 

[OdysseusMan]

After I came out to my wife about my bisexuality, she asked me if I ever fantasized about becoming a eunuch. I confessed I had. That excited her. Years earlier I had had a vasectomy, and that had really excited her. She could not explain why.

It became part of our foreplay for us to discuss castration. Usually she fantasized about having a lover who would castrate me. Sometimes her fantasy was for a doctor to castrate me while she and her lover had sex.

It got both of us very excited. About the only time she masturbated was when we had these castration discussions.

Yes, I can relate to your fantasies, they are super erotic for me. I'd love to hear more details about the fantasies, if you are willing to expand on it.

 

[Calibikini]

I would feel weird if a guy wanted. I think I'd say no.

 

[OdysseusMan]

I would feel weird if a guy wanted. I think I'd say no.

Even if it was just castration fantasy play, and not actually doing it?

 

[Calibikini]

Even if it was just castration fantasy play, and not actually doing it?

Lol, well obviously not doing it. But no, i just don't think i could get into it. Not meaning to kinkshame, it's just not for me.

 

[OdysseusMan]

Lol, well obviously not doing it. But no, i just don't think i could get into it. Not meaning to kinkshame, it's just not for me.

I respect that.

 

[Eunuch_Marc]

I assume that you were castrated for medical reasons.

Yes indeed. After years of pain i am happy to be a eunuch now for 2 years.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Yes indeed. After years of pain i am happy to be a eunuch now for 2 years.

It's good to hear that your surgery was successful.

 

[Eunuch_Marc]

I would feel weird if a guy wanted. I think I'd say no.

Of course that is very understandable. The character of a man who doesn’t produce testosterone any more changes profoundly. Only after castration I realised how much we are guided by hormones and how sexdrive affects almost anything we do. Strength, leading capacity, confidence, assertiveness and sexual abilities is how we perceive masculinity and what makes a man a man. But also selfishness, aggression and narcissism. I am happy as a eunuch and i think the best part of my personality is the part not guided by hormones and that's why i am only on a very low dose of hormone medication.

 

[bjlatx]

The chemistry between me and my wife has changed a lot since I was castrated. There are no tensions or unfulfilled expectations anymore although I was impotent for many years before so my abilities didn’t change. Intimacy is only aimed at feeling comfortable and enjoying each other's bodies without the goal of getting an orgasm. Obviously I have no sexual longings anymore and I look at women differently than before. It seems like women feel this and are intrigued without knowing what is different about me.

Did you have balls and penis removed or just balls?

 

[Eunuch_Marc]

Did you have balls and penis removed or just balls?

Only my balls. My penis is just a urine outlet anymore

 

[bjlatx]

That’s too bad you had to go through that.

 

[Eunuch_Marc]

That’s too bad you had to go through that.

I am happy now although i understand most men will not understand. And probably women too ...

 

[BillyWalrus]

There was a guy here with a user id of TooTallPaul who had his balls removed as part of transitioning. He said he loved having them gone.

 

[Eunuch_Marc]

I love having them gone too, but not for transition reasons. It's just great not feeling masculin because it has been so troublesome for such a long time. Estrogen makes me feel good and emotional in balance

 

[Summerflowers]

I love having them gone too, but not for transition reasons. It's just great not feeling masculin because it has been so troublesome for such a long time. Estrogen makes me feel good and emotional in balance

Would it be ok to ask what you mean with not feeling masculin? Could you explain a bit more in detail please? How do you react on women? Is there a difference how you talk to them or react? You wrote above women are intrigued. What do you think is their perception of you?
Sorry, now it became a lot of questions.

 

[Eunuch_Marc]

Would it be ok to ask what you mean with not feeling masculin? Could you explain a bit more in detail please? How do you react on women? Is there a difference how you talk to them or react? You wrote above women are intrigued. What do you think is their perception of you?
Sorry, now it became a lot of questions.

There are many masculine signs of course. Now, looking at men, i feel everything is prompted by strength. Mentally and physically. Of course that is also a big part that women find appealing about men. It takes strength to conquer a woman because that's what masculinity does. Checking femininity, youth and looks.

It might be disrespectful to say but i find an attractive woman, or man pleasing to see, the way i see a beautiful piece of art, a sunset or a flower. Of course a human being is the highest of creatures and incomparable but for me, there is nothing more to it. No longing, no feeling and no desire to conquer or show my strength.

My perception of how women look at me obviously has changed too but i think they feel, recognize i am not a threat, nor a potential partner. I am not like a gay bff either but i am easily approachable by women while men often keep a distance. Both ways is fine by me.