Can't orgasm without...

[purring_faerie]

flexing my legs? Does anyone else have the same problem? I'm talking about when I'm pleasuring myself solo. I've gotten so used to flexing my legs that I don't see how I could orgasm without doing it? (let's say when having intercourse)

 

[caela]

What do you mean by "flexing my legs"? Do you mean they tighten up and you lift a little, or do you mean you move them a lot?

 

[UncleDan]

You could flex your legs around my ears anytime .

 

[boston_bbw]

I'm the opposite I think. Could never do it standing or squating with any weight on my legs... they feel too weak as I get close and dunno just can't. Now if your talking flexing as in really pushing yoru thighs back and almost lifting your butt then I could do it without but it's a whole lot better when I do.

 

[warrior queen]

i read somewhere a while ago, that women who do this have much less intense orgasms.
the article suggested learning to relax and 'breathe' to orgasm - and although it took a while for me to figure out how to do this, once i did, WOOHOO!!

masturbation reached an entirely new and better plateau, and i actually made myself squirt as a result! (i had never been able to do this solo before.)

now, i make the effort to relax my legs/body as i'm nearing orgasm, and i have to tell you, doing it this way - i could maybe do without a man altogether! (on second thoughts, no not really! )

 

[SexyChele]

Yes, I have to flex my legs as well. I never considered it a "problem" though. And my orgasms have always been i n t e n s e! I've tried to "break" myself of this, but it's the way my body has always worked and that's the way it is.

No, I do not orgasm during intercourse, unless I'm getting stimulation on my clit and can flex my legs. For a couple of guys it has been an issue. But then, they were also the ones who didn't quite understand the concept that I could not orgasm by simply having their dick inside me. With a man who is a considerate lover, it has never been a "problem."