Cant get off!

[Guest]

im a guy that has an unusual problem, i have a hard time getting off. im 20 years old and dont have too much experience, but when i have sex its hard for me to get off. the last time i had sex i was in the back seat of a car and i had been drinking and i never could get off. has anybody else had problems finishing when they had been drinking? is that most likely the problem (everytime ive had sex ive been drinking)? also, there isnt as much friction when i have sex as when i masterbate. does this sound like a physical or mental problem? i could any help you guys could give

 

[EveBBW]

Give it a shot when you aren't drinking. Drinking and drugs, while some find it enhances their sexual experiences, tends to keep you from reaching peak.

Good Luck!

 

[Hullo_nurse]

It is most likely the booze. It has this nasty habot of causing erectile dysfunction & whatnot. Do you masterbate sober or drunk? Try fucking sober and use some lube, water based like k-y, cuz it's condom friendly, for the dryness, or let your partner warm up a little more. It takes women 30+min to get ready for orgasm, where it takes a guy...30seconds. If you have a little patience the well won't be dry

[This message has been edited by hullo_nurse (edited 01-19-2000).]

 

[Golden]

never works if I drink more than two or three; or if I have taken aspirin.

Also needing more friction isn't rare either. I suggest trying two things: during intercourse vary angles and positions to get more friction on your penis, or rather on the area which you need stimulated for orgasm - for example you may be a guy whose glans is too sensitive (you circumcised?) and the action of a vagina on it fpor too long makes you too sensitive to cum. At the same time when masturbating, try varying - lessening - the pressure of your grip. If you are used to a tight hand, then you might struggle with a softer vagina; so you need to take time to alter your "expectation".

Still look on the bright side - if you aren't getting off you'll be humping and grinding longer than other guys, and the women should appreciate it! Maybe a grateful one would finish you by hand once you've exhausted her!