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Where is my prostate and how can i stimulate it?
cymbidia
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Women have a G-spot, men have a prostate gland. The function of this gland is to produce a fluid that helps create semen and to close the urine duct to allow for safe passage of sperm. It's also a source of pretty intense pleasure for many men.
The prostate can be found 2" - 4" up inside the opening of the anus. It's a small ball of tissue and feels different than the surrounding tissue. When men are close to orgasm, it gets much harder and more solid-feeling.
To manipulate it: slip a finger or two into the anus facing forward - facing toward the balls, toward the belly-button. Make a "come here lover boy" motion with your finger. Most men like it stroked or massaged.
Always be very sure that your nails are trimmed. Anal tissues are sensitive and can tear and scrape easily. You anus is definitely not as durable (penetration-wise) as the vagina, which is designed to take in foreign objects. You may want to snap a latex glove on your hand, found in many drug stores or sex shops, which will insure you don't cut the tissues. There are also finger cots you can purchase that serve the same purpose. In addition, don't forget the lube. The anus doesn't naturally secrete slippery, sexual fluids conducive to easy gliding.
Fingers aren't the only anal pleasure enhancers. The receiving male can try butt plugs, vibrators, dildos or, of course, 100% nature-made penises. Use your imagination on wich toys you can buy, adapt, or make.
The one warning i'll give you is make sure any toys you use have a flange. A flange is a widened base that prevents your toy from slipping up into your anus. If that happenes, you might have visit your doctor or emergency room to get them to remove the toy. Whew! Talk about embarassing!
Another thing to remember about prostrate stimulation is that not all men like it. Some find it irritating and painful. On the other hand, some men like it manipulated gently and others like you to really go for it hard. The best way to make sure that you - or your male sex partner - is enjoying what's happening there is to communicate about how much you like it WHILE you're doing it.
The prostate can be found 2" - 4" up inside the opening of the anus. It's a small ball of tissue and feels different than the surrounding tissue. When men are close to orgasm, it gets much harder and more solid-feeling.
To manipulate it: slip a finger or two into the anus facing forward - facing toward the balls, toward the belly-button. Make a "come here lover boy" motion with your finger. Most men like it stroked or massaged.
Always be very sure that your nails are trimmed. Anal tissues are sensitive and can tear and scrape easily. You anus is definitely not as durable (penetration-wise) as the vagina, which is designed to take in foreign objects. You may want to snap a latex glove on your hand, found in many drug stores or sex shops, which will insure you don't cut the tissues. There are also finger cots you can purchase that serve the same purpose. In addition, don't forget the lube. The anus doesn't naturally secrete slippery, sexual fluids conducive to easy gliding.
Fingers aren't the only anal pleasure enhancers. The receiving male can try butt plugs, vibrators, dildos or, of course, 100% nature-made penises. Use your imagination on wich toys you can buy, adapt, or make.
The one warning i'll give you is make sure any toys you use have a flange. A flange is a widened base that prevents your toy from slipping up into your anus. If that happenes, you might have visit your doctor or emergency room to get them to remove the toy. Whew! Talk about embarassing!
Another thing to remember about prostrate stimulation is that not all men like it. Some find it irritating and painful. On the other hand, some men like it manipulated gently and others like you to really go for it hard. The best way to make sure that you - or your male sex partner - is enjoying what's happening there is to communicate about how much you like it WHILE you're doing it.
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