Can't cum while drunk

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Was wondering if any guys have this problem or if any women have been with guys who have this problem. For some reason I can always get hard even when I'm drunk, but can never finish. I usually end up just going at it for a really long time until either or both of us is exhausted. At first I was thinking maybe I'm losing my attraction in women and I'm gay, since I was drunk 99% of the time I was having sex. That added on with the fact that I usually could cum if there was some ass play involved. But I can always cum when I'm sober, usually too soon lol. I've noticed that the feeling is numbed a little bit when I've been drinking, and I think that's why.
 
You can sort this out by empirical method. Get drunk and try to make love to a man in his bottom. If you can cum, you're gay.
 
If you are drunk 99% of the time you're having sex...you have more important problems than cumming.
 
I don't think it's odd. I had a boyfriend that used to last for hours when he'd had a few drinks. Usually, though, he'd get off from a decent blowjob.

rosco rathbone said:
You can sort this out by empirical method. Get drunk and try to make love to a man in his bottom. If you can cum, you're gay.

^^^This made me laugh. :) Definitely try it and report back.
 
I think men have this problem. If I'm a bit drunk then I can go for hours but I think it's easier for woman:devil:
 
Yeah I can usually get off from a blowie, it has to be a really good one though
In other words, you can come from the kind of blowjob that makes you come.

That doesn't tell us much we didn't already know...:D

A lot of men can't come when they are really drunk. And a lot of men only fuck when they are drunk. You'd think they'd figure out that sometimes... it's better not to keep drinking. Because coming? Is really really excellent. And for some women it's important that her partner comes.

I remember losing my respect and desire for a few partners because I could not get them to come during sex.
 
this is what the term "whiskey dick "is used to describe...

was it Nick Cages character in Leaving Las Vegas who said "I cant remember if I started drinking because my wife left me or my wife left me because I started drinking."

could be the case here with the whole limp dick gay thing...
 
Was wondering if any guys have this problem or if any women have been with guys who have this problem. For some reason I can always get hard even when I'm drunk, but can never finish. I usually end up just going at it for a really long time until either or both of us is exhausted. At first I was thinking maybe I'm losing my attraction in women and I'm gay, since I was drunk 99% of the time I was having sex. That added on with the fact that I usually could cum if there was some ass play involved. But I can always cum when I'm sober, usually too soon lol. I've noticed that the feeling is numbed a little bit when I've been drinking, and I think that's why.

I hope this is joke.
 
It's when you can't cum when you're sober that you have a real problem. That is just one the (many) side effects of extreme alcoholism. (Including not being able to get hard anymore). Might want to make you stop and think??
 
When I am drunk I have a much tougher time cumming than when I am sober. Sharing a bottle of wine or a few drinks I'm OK and then it makes me last a little longer but if I am hammered forget it. Smoke a joint and while I am high I am fucking like mad.
 
As a woman I become a bit of a tease and want to do all the sex stuff but as for the actual act - it's crap, feelingless (if that's a word) and I can't cum, either.

I'm aroused in the head but the body says otherwise

I don't like drunk sex - it's meaningless and horrible!

I agree with the above post though - if I'm high - HELL YEAH! Drink is a depressant, a joint is a relaxant and I'm multi-orgasmic!
 
you hit it dead on - i can last forever even having a 3some with my wife and her best friend and last forever drunk, but if i am sober with my wife or a 3some i am done in minutes
 
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Alcohol is a central nervous system depressant. It works fine if you want to suppress your inhibitions but it also makes orgasm less likely. It has the same effect on women. Young people often find themselves between a rock and a not so hard place because they use alcohol to get over their inhibitions about having sex and then have trouble having orgasms. If you need to drink to make sexual interactions more comfortable it tells you that you need to work on your conflicts about sex in general. Alcohol is not an aphrodisiac.
 
Just because I'm usually drunk when I'm having sex, doesn't mean I have a drinking problem. I don't drink during the week. It's just that I usually go out on the weekends and that's when I hook up.
 
As a woman, I can't imagine anyone wanting to be in the same room with you when you're drunk.
 
whiskey dick lol

when i was living with my folks, i would always come home drunk, pop in an old vhs and try rubbing one out. it took forever.
 
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