Can you squirt?
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LipstickKitten
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I squirt, but not every time. Only when I'm completely, totally, 100%, over-the-edge turned on. 
MissTaken
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I have read a couple of different perspectives on "squirting".
One theory: Squirting is natural and individual. It isn't necessarily a learned thing, nor can it be learned. For me, I didn't know what was happening the first time. It simply coincided iwth my first real orgasm.
Don't give up yet.
A second theory: I have read that if a woman pushes down when cumming, she may learn to squirt.
A third theory: Squirting is a fallacy is and is actually golden showers. I beg to differ as I have read far too much that contradicts that theory. Also, it doesn't taste or smell like urine. However, the fluid does come from the urethra. (Boring clinical fact.)
Basically, stimulation and orgasms are different from person to person. Good Luck.
One theory: Squirting is natural and individual. It isn't necessarily a learned thing, nor can it be learned. For me, I didn't know what was happening the first time. It simply coincided iwth my first real orgasm.
Don't give up yet.
A second theory: I have read that if a woman pushes down when cumming, she may learn to squirt.
A third theory: Squirting is a fallacy is and is actually golden showers. I beg to differ as I have read far too much that contradicts that theory. Also, it doesn't taste or smell like urine. However, the fluid does come from the urethra. (Boring clinical fact.)
Basically, stimulation and orgasms are different from person to person. Good Luck.
UncleSpooge
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I have read on the Web specific information relating to the experience of squirting, and it seems to involve concentrated stimulation to the area known as the G-spot. One of the main points to keep in mind, according to this source (which I can't remember), is that if you are close to cumming and feel that you have to pee, you should not hold back for the fear of peeing. Apparently, that is the sign a squirt is coming on, and once that appears, you should just go ahead and "pee." The source describes various accounts of the results. Often, the stream can be quite long and powerful, totally unlike like the one that occurs during urination.
I've never seen this phenomenon, but it is just another bit of evidence that tells me women have more fun, or at least the potential for more fun.
I've never seen this phenomenon, but it is just another bit of evidence that tells me women have more fun, or at least the potential for more fun.
wildflowerblooms
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i think it can be a learning thing....my hubby and i just kept trying..you do need to relax...read up on it....my girlfriend i worked with did this and i was soooo curious...so thats how i learned other than just having fun and trying different things...i sometimes squirt but allot of times i gush...but then again he is too busy trying to drink it ....lol......it has made me multi orgasmic....mmmmmmmm......he is having trouble keeping up with me...lol......but right before i have an urge to push..and it feels sooo good..just try to relax...and let it happen...you just might want to try alone first...thats how i did it.i thought it was piss but it wasnt......hubby kept telling me it was in my head and i needed to relax..well its been 2 months and i have female ejaculations...all the time he eats me now....and many!!!! whew...love these big O's 
whew...love these big O's 
Honeygirl
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I think the best thing for me to do is to keep trying, and trying, and trying D ) until I master the art of it...<sigh> - I will think of it as my purpose on earth - my golden goal as it were...Seriously though - I'm gonna learn - even if I knock myself out in the process!!!
Thank you to those who posted after me...it's nice to know that it may indeed be possible!
Right - off to find vibe...
D ) until I master the art of it...<sigh> - I will think of it as my purpose on earth - my golden goal as it were...Seriously though - I'm gonna learn - even if I knock myself out in the process!!! Thank you to those who posted after me...it's nice to know that it may indeed be possible!
Right - off to find vibe...
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so far i have only been able to make my partner squirt once. It was a bit of a shock at first to! She squirted with such gust that i wasnt sure at first if she had pee'd herself or it was just an intense orgasm. But it wasnt urine!
She said it was one of the most intense orgasm's she'd had to date. I've been trying hard to replicate it - but so far havent been able to. But now that i know she can, practise makes perfect they say!!!
DM
She said it was one of the most intense orgasm's she'd had to date. I've been trying hard to replicate it - but so far havent been able to. But now that i know she can, practise makes perfect they say!!!
DM
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Not sure about it being learnt, but yes i have hada girlfriend do it.
as was already pointed out, it was during a VERY intense orgasm and again, I thought she had wet herself.
Basically it definately happens, but it might be based on the individual.
/wave
QuickDuck
as was already pointed out, it was during a VERY intense orgasm and again, I thought she had wet herself.
Basically it definately happens, but it might be based on the individual.
/wave
QuickDuck
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MissTaken
I too don't agree with your number 3 that it's a golden shower and not a ladies cum as I have been lucky enough to have met a few squirters the last one was a very flexable lady who had many unrealised fantasies one being entered while her ankles were behind her head*I did say flexable*Well we did it and the flow was unbelievableshe said to me that she was going to cum so I moved to the end of the bed with my face close to get the best view and got drowned as her cum projected from her pussy all over my face,hair and body......IT tasted wonderful.I then went to work with my tongue to get more tastes of her and had her squirting again.She actually squrted every time she came.
I too don't agree with your number 3 that it's a golden shower and not a ladies cum as I have been lucky enough to have met a few squirters the last one was a very flexable lady who had many unrealised fantasies one being entered while her ankles were behind her head*I did say flexable*Well we did it and the flow was unbelievableshe said to me that she was going to cum so I moved to the end of the bed with my face close to get the best view and got drowned as her cum projected from her pussy all over my face,hair and body......IT tasted wonderful.I then went to work with my tongue to get more tastes of her and had her squirting again.She actually squrted every time she came.
Iaim2pleez
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I've read your responses with interest. As a male I've been fascinated by women who squirt and often wondered if it was something every woman was capable of.
I first heard of squirting back in 94 from a girlfriend. We hadn't had sex yet when the conversation was getting hot. I was talking about how much I enjoyed giving oral sex and what a turn on it was to hear, feel, smell, taste a woman who was in completely lost in her orgasms. She looked at me with a serious look in her eye (or was it lust?)and said, "I have to warn you. I ejaculate." I laughed because I had never heard of this. She explained to me that roughly 10% of women ejaculated. To make a long story short...I had quite a baptism that night.
Since then, I've been fascinated by female ejaculation and have done some hands-on research. In short, here's what I believe.
Every woman is capable of ejaculating and multiple orgasms. For some it comes (no pun intended) naturally for others it will never happen. Why? That's the million-$$ question. Almost every woman I've met since has learned to achieve multiple orgasms and ejaculate. The common factors are similar to what is posted above...finding out what turns her on the most and doing it a lot....making her the complete center of attention...she must relax and let it happen...for women it's hard to give up....one gf described giving complete control of her body to me as an out of body experience....
Anyway, thanks for sharing your experiences. Look forward to hearing more.
Just my $.02
I first heard of squirting back in 94 from a girlfriend. We hadn't had sex yet when the conversation was getting hot. I was talking about how much I enjoyed giving oral sex and what a turn on it was to hear, feel, smell, taste a woman who was in completely lost in her orgasms. She looked at me with a serious look in her eye (or was it lust?)and said, "I have to warn you. I ejaculate." I laughed because I had never heard of this. She explained to me that roughly 10% of women ejaculated. To make a long story short...I had quite a baptism that night.
Since then, I've been fascinated by female ejaculation and have done some hands-on research. In short, here's what I believe.
Every woman is capable of ejaculating and multiple orgasms. For some it comes (no pun intended) naturally for others it will never happen. Why? That's the million-$$ question. Almost every woman I've met since has learned to achieve multiple orgasms and ejaculate. The common factors are similar to what is posted above...finding out what turns her on the most and doing it a lot....making her the complete center of attention...she must relax and let it happen...for women it's hard to give up....one gf described giving complete control of her body to me as an out of body experience....
Anyway, thanks for sharing your experiences. Look forward to hearing more.
Just my $.02
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yes it can be learned!
New to the board, but long time lurker. Had to post on this subject. Squirting can be learned. All you need is a willing partner, or a lot of self exploration. Relaxation is definately a part of it. Being way turned on is too. Fantasize, explore, try toys, role-playing, pictures, videos, whatever.....get naked and get going. But beware you'll need lots of towels and while you're practicing probably some good lube. FYI to the "flooder" Gushing, Flooding and Squirting are ALL GOOD! Lets count ourselves among the lucky who can! I find I "squirt" when playing with my dildo and clit at the same time. Making myself horny
New to the board, but long time lurker. Had to post on this subject. Squirting can be learned. All you need is a willing partner, or a lot of self exploration. Relaxation is definately a part of it. Being way turned on is too. Fantasize, explore, try toys, role-playing, pictures, videos, whatever.....get naked and get going. But beware you'll need lots of towels and while you're practicing probably some good lube. FYI to the "flooder" Gushing, Flooding and Squirting are ALL GOOD! Lets count ourselves among the lucky who can! I find I "squirt" when playing with my dildo and clit at the same time. Making myself horny
Chuckwrox
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Technique
I used to have a girlfriend who ejaculated sometimes. I say sometimes because she had a technique that completely pushed her over the edge and she dependly ejaculated every time.
I went down on her, tongue on clit, rubbed her g-spot, AND pushed a finger into her ass. Sounds gymnastic? It was! But it was SO hot.
Good luck!
I used to have a girlfriend who ejaculated sometimes. I say sometimes because she had a technique that completely pushed her over the edge and she dependly ejaculated every time.
I went down on her, tongue on clit, rubbed her g-spot, AND pushed a finger into her ass. Sounds gymnastic? It was! But it was SO hot.
Good luck!
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squirting
I think a "g spot" orgasm is the most vivid proof of giving a woman the most intense orgasm. I recommend that before a woman tries to experience this she relieve herself at the toilet so when she does squirt she knows it is not urine!
I think a "g spot" orgasm is the most vivid proof of giving a woman the most intense orgasm. I recommend that before a woman tries to experience this she relieve herself at the toilet so when she does squirt she knows it is not urine!
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This has been very interesting. I should probably try.
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Hey Chuck
I to had a few ladies squirt for me using the tounge on clit,g-spot attended to and finger/fingers in the butt but with my favorite possition as it frees the hands up is with the lady on top in a 69r position... Get both arms back as she throws her leg over you and wait for the shower then lap it up it's yummy
A shaved pussy I found increases the chances for her to squirt.
I hope I helped someone!!!!
I to had a few ladies squirt for me using the tounge on clit,g-spot attended to and finger/fingers in the butt but with my favorite possition as it frees the hands up is with the lady on top in a 69r position... Get both arms back as she throws her leg over you and wait for the shower then lap it up it's yummy
A shaved pussy I found increases the chances for her to squirt.
I hope I helped someone!!!!
Iaim2pleez
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EROTICFICTION
Need some help trying?!?!
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Re: MissTaken
I have to agree on this one it's alot different. But like Gil to really enjoy a good squirting women you really do to be down there eating and licking her.
And have to omitt that with the rigt women sometimes even goldenshowers are kind of fun.. But not with everyone.
Gil_T2 said:I too don't agree with your number 3 that it's a golden shower and not a ladies cum as I have been lucky enough to have met a few squirters the last one was a very flexable lady who had many unrealised fantasies one being entered while her ankles were behind her head*I did say flexable*Well we did it and the flow was unbelievableshe said to me that she was going to cum so I moved to the end of the bed with my face close to get the best view and got drowned as her cum projected from her pussy all over my face,hair and body......IT tasted wonderful.I then went to work with my tongue to get more tastes of her and had her squirting again.She actually squrted every time she came.
I have to agree on this one it's alot different. But like Gil to really enjoy a good squirting women you really do to be down there eating and licking her.
And have to omitt that with the rigt women sometimes even goldenshowers are kind of fun.. But not with everyone.
