Can you really speak your mind here? Or does your SO drop in - checking?

[Sparky Kronkite]

Me? Nope - can't really. For stated reason. Secrets are secrets. Dangerous secrets.

How about you?

Can you even respond to this thread (Oh my God!)???? Because if he/she even 'sees this' - they could find me/you suspect.

Well - I took it this far. How about you? Chickens.

 

[Azwed]

Of course. My gf knows I go to the board. As far as I know she never comes here though. She knows a fair bit about some of you because I talk about you alot.

 

[Todd-'o'-Vision]

I have a SO?

 

[Azwed]

I have a SO?

*Whacks todd over the head* no you moron.

 

[Todd-'o'-Vision]

*Whacks todd over the head* no you moron.

Ouch, what was that for?

 

[Zamdrist]

I left my SO for a lot of those reasons. I didn't leave her simply so I could surf porn and what not, but...if that's what I want to do, now I can.

Funny thing is, I don't have a real interest in surfing porn, the graphical version. I don't really consider Lit to be porn per se but I couldn't be here, expressing my thoughts and inner most feelings were I with my SO.

Anywho, that's my take on it.

 

[roxie]

Well, since my SO is completely computer illiterate except for the few games that he plays, I'm free to say whatever I please I suppose. But I don't post anything I wouldn't say in RL either. Altho that really doesn't leave much!

 

[Dillinger]

I try and speak my mind but usually my mouth gets in the way.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

I have.......

many, many, many thoughts on.......

infedelity - the techniques, the whys, the wherefores, the reasons, the rationale.........

the rules.

But I will not post them here.

In fact, I notice that most, maybe nobody - posts such info here.

Hmmmmmm?

I wonder why?

 

[Guest]

I speak my mind here and link my Boyfriend to many of the threads at Lit. And, of course, He's free to check out the board whenever He wants. Honest, open communication is wonderful!

 

[lilminx]

I have no SO to check up on me. One of the pluses of being single...

 

[MidnightAngel]

My spouse doesn't even know Lit exists......and I intend to leave it that way.

My ex-SO (or however you wanna say that) stops in once in a while to read what I've posted. Doesn't bother me....I don't say anything on here that I wouldn't say anywhere else.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Ahhha! I knew there had to be one plus.

 

[April]

There's much I don't post, not because I worry about being watched, but because I don't think many would be interested. My day to day life is boring. And the interesting things that have happened are not really for public consumption.

 

[carrie-on]

My hubby and I both post here...I have always felt free to post and reply to anything I want to and so does he, we have always been open with each other. If I had wanted to hide anything from him,or had to worry about what I was doing here,I probably would never have introduced him to Lit. We would also not have lasted 27 yrs either.

 

[sabbathstorm]

My boyfriend does read the threads I post to and very rarely comments. Since we've been here, he's only jumped in on one thread that he didn't agree with (but it was something I knew about anyway). I'll respond to any thread I feel I need to since I know he won't hold anything against me. He knows almost all of it anyway

 

[T.H. Oughts]

My husband knows I post here, but I'm 99% sure he dosn't come here. He knows what goes on here, so we are both cool about it.

Also tonight Kiwi Wolf came over to my house and meet my SO and we were all talking about Lit and some of the things that happen here..... so no hiding for me

 

[RisiaSkye]

He lurks sometimes, but rarely posts. I still say whatever I damn well please. If I couldn't say something here for fear that he might see it, what would that say about our marriage?

I don't intend to live in a web of lies if I can avoid it by simply being the same person all the time. I am here basically who I am in RL. If (and possibly when) he doesn't like that person, or I don't like who he is (or becomes), it'll be a problem. Right now, it works just fine.

 

[juicylips]

Re: I have.......

many, many, many thoughts on.......

infedelity - the techniques, the whys, the wherefores, the reasons, the rationale.........

the rules.

But I will not post them here.

In fact, I notice that most, maybe nobody - posts such info here.

If you don't post them here, Sparky, then where DO you post your many, many thoughts on infidelity?

Actually, I think there has been quite a few threads about what consitutes infidelity online vs r/l. People become vocal and outraged. I assume you are talking about why people cheat on their SO's in r/l. Those responses would be varied, I am sure. Everyone's situations are different.

I would be interested in such rules & techniques. Now, that is something that isn't discussed.

Kisses,
Cassidy

 

[lovetoread]

My so sees every thread that I post to. I say what I think and thats that.

He tells me whether or not he likes what I post.

Tis the way it is,so no hiding anything from him,though I wouldnt even if I could.

 

[christophe]

My wife knows I post here, and every time she comes in and sees me doing so, shakes her head and says one thing......."pig"



tis a small price to pay I think

 

[Isabella Thorne]

ohhhhhhh ... do i speak my mind here? do i reveal my most intimate personal thoughts?

well doh! yup ....

does my SO drop in - checking? ha ha ha ... that is soooo fucking funny to me ....

when i find a particular thread really hot or entertaining or something ... i almost have to beg him to read it ... well at least encourage him ... lol ...

he is so open minded about anything i do ... there is never never never any threat in my mind that he might not approve of anything i say or do or think ...
__________________
In fact dear Spark
he likes me to bark ...
to reveal all the dark ...
Would i even do so
if it weren't for my SO?

 

[SweetBrat73]

Well I posted to this already...but I came up as Pinklady and now the posts have disappeard. Something is wrong with Lit this morning... Oh well, here it goes again.

I post here and so does my SO. I think that if you have to hide things from your SO then your relationship isn't all that great. Pretty much the only things we keep secret from each other is gifts we're gonna give each other for b-days and such. I'm sure there are things about my SO that I don't know yet, but we've only been together for 2 years. If I knew everything right away it would make for a boring relationship. That's something I don't want to be in.


Brat

 

[JennyOmanHill]

My SO reads everything I post here (and posts himself when he can). I am as honest here as I am any other time, and our postings have a way of communicating information to each other, at times bringing up topics that we later discuss when we're "connected".

Even if we lived with each other, I could not imagine spending any time on the LIT boards without sharing it with him.

As far as online "cheating", it just won't be happening for me!