Can you describe your fetish?

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Sometimes I struggle to describe my own.

There's the obvious physically attractions like yoga pants and milfy types, but there's a certain type of sexual teasing I enjoy that I struggle to describe.

Anyone else struggle to articulate what they find attractive?
 
Fetish

Breasts, boobs, tittles,,, I love them all, large or small, firm and erect or saggy, it makes no difference,,,at 80 years of age and suffering erectile dis function, I take enjoyment in any form that I can and a woman’s tits just make me want to cum, which I can still do through masturbation
 
Fetish

Breasts, boobs, tittles,,, I love them all, large or small, firm and erect or saggy, it makes no difference,,,at 80 years of age and suffering erectile dis function, I take enjoyment in any form that I can and a woman’s tits just make me want to cum, which I can still do through masturbation. I also love to hear a woman’s voice dis riding her titties or those of a girl friend.
 
Few things tick my boxes..... older guys, facials, giving oral, elements of humiliation/exposure,
 
Sometimes I struggle to describe my own.

There's the obvious physically attractions like yoga pants and milfy types, but there's a certain type of sexual teasing I enjoy that I struggle to describe.

Anyone else struggle to articulate what they find attractive?

You need to compare it to what people think your fetish usually involves to realize/get a better idea of what it is that you're into if that makes sense.

So for me, I have a panty fetish and people usually think I like to wear women's underwear or sniff used underwear. But that's not the case.

My attraction to panties is because it provides, at least in my point of view, a glimpse into what a person is like behind closed doors even though you have zero chance to seeing that person in a sexual situation (ie. a serious uptight person who has crotchless panties in her panty drawers).
 
Well mine is obviously nylons so here's an excerpt from my article:

"Embrace the allure and the hypnotic nature of our gossamer dream. From its softness to its electricity, let it feed your desire and further your passion. Deeper we go; entranced and willingly entrapped..."

From experience there are several distinction sensations you can get from nylon hosiery depending on the denier, quality, construction and stage of wear. From the smoothness of a pair of high quality Wolford Fatal 15s to the softness of a pair of affordable L'eggs Silken Mist pantyhose, from the slick glide of a pair of Falke Shelina stockings to the tantalizing buttery silkiness of Cecilia de Rafael Miss 20s; there's a myriad of nylon sensations waiting to be discovered! Furthermore, your nylons will change in characteristics after a couple of uses and washes. This can either make it softer, smoother, change its luster or a combination of the aforementioned.

I won't go too much into different brands, makes, types but the crux of our exploration is the feel and the sensations you can get with the material and for this there are four different attributes from experience (I'm sure you can break this down even further): degree of smoothness (this usually comes from the quality of the weave and construction), degree of softness (this is usually an effect of denier, generally the higher the denier, the softer the material), slickness/sheen and stretch.
 
I love big tits, big asses, especially on sexy black women, but that is more just preference and sexual normal attraction.

Fetishization is an unreasonable interest or importance given to something

obviously mine is BBC...have thousands of pics and vids of them, can't get enough of watching them...completely unreasonable interest and importance but such an excitement from it...

it can create a drug like euphoria to embrace a fetish. That is why it becomes a fetish...rewires your brain in an unreasonable way that caused an insanely heightened arousal.

completely addictive and often irreversible , especially in males.
 
Well mine is obviously nylons so here's an excerpt from my article:

"Embrace the allure and the hypnotic nature of our gossamer dream. From its softness to its electricity, let it feed your desire and further your passion. Deeper we go; entranced and willingly entrapped..."

From experience there are several distinction sensations you can get from nylon hosiery depending on the denier, quality, construction and stage of wear. From the smoothness of a pair of high quality Wolford Fatal 15s to the softness of a pair of affordable L'eggs Silken Mist pantyhose, from the slick glide of a pair of Falke Shelina stockings to the tantalizing buttery silkiness of Cecilia de Rafael Miss 20s; there's a myriad of nylon sensations waiting to be discovered! Furthermore, your nylons will change in characteristics after a couple of uses and washes. This can either make it softer, smoother, change its luster or a combination of the aforementioned.

I won't go too much into different brands, makes, types but the crux of our exploration is the feel and the sensations you can get with the material and for this there are four different attributes from experience (I'm sure you can break this down even further): degree of smoothness (this usually comes from the quality of the weave and construction), degree of softness (this is usually an effect of denier, generally the higher the denier, the softer the material), slickness/sheen and stretch.

That is definitely DEEP fetishism...so fascinating. Thanks for sharing.

Can you remember or define it's origins?
 
When asked, I always say power is my fetish. Any sexual scenario where I can feel the illusion of power I’m down for. Force fantasy, hypnosis, somnophilia. All those and probably more check my boxes.
 
Definitely love being called dirty names, including racial insults, degrading insults. Gets me so turned on. Also older white guys.
 
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That is definitely DEEP fetishism...so fascinating. Thanks for sharing.

Can you remember or define it's origins?

I think it started with my mum's pantyhose like many others. I was using the bathroom and saw a pair of her pantyhose hanging up and was intrigued by the material since my nanny used to put nylon socks on her hands and tickle me with them (not knowing the effect they'd have on me down the track). I think I was hooked by the allure and sensation of the material from that day onwards and since then my fetish has only grew stronger since my partner loves to indulge me with various forms of nylon play.
 
A cute small pointy nose, a deep rounded bellybutton, and nice shapely round buttocks.
 
There can be a lot gained in researching a person's own fetish.

For instance, I always thought I enjoyed Cuckolding, but that is not really my thing. I don't really want to share my wife so much, but like when other guys see her dressed in the clothing that their wives might not wear like; high heel, stockings, fishnet, miniskirts, etc,

It took a bit, but then I realized there is Candualism, which is not so much sharing your wife, but having her dress in ways that bring attention for other men. I first saw the term on Wikipedia.
 
Conqueror Fetish

A fetish can be material or immaterial. Normally I would say, “Black Men, Black Cock, and Black Breeding.” Material fetish. In fact, I have said that in response to previous, similar threads!

About eight years ago I became consciously curious about black men. A couple years later I experienced a black man sexually for the first time and it was incredibly erotic and satisfying. And thankfully, I didn’t get used to it! There was something about it that continues to fascinate and satisfy me in a way much deeper than just the physical. It has never gotten routine and I’m thankful for that.

So, why does Black Cock continue to own my body and mind like a fetish? A woman wanting something so natural - to be taken or bred by a strong, dominant man - shouldn’t be called a fetish, so now I don’t consider Black Cock as such. The past few years I have asked myself why I love it so much, why something that shouldn’t be considered a fetish provides me fetishized feelings.

The answer that I have come up with is I have a “conqueror fetish”. When I think of media cliches of submission and despoliation, though often symbolic and not overtly sexual, my response has always been sexual. I have always understood these ideas and images at the primal level. Later, as a voracious reader, I was exposed to countless stories, historical and fictional, of prized women being taken by conquerors. Cities invaded, the men slaughtered, their women raped in holy places and taken away as sex slaves. Though terrifying and something I would never want, they make me wet and swollen. Totally irrational. Total fetish.

The thought of my treasured pink pussy penetrated, my white body invaded by darkness excites me deeply, body and mind, and only the Black Man can satisfy that psychological desire to be conquered by the “other”. Taken and owned by somebody so different from me in every way.

My name is Erin and I want Black Cock to conquer me.
 
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my fetish is Hindu Goddessdomme which springs from the ancient Hindu scriptures which say that Mistress Kali created the Cosmos and all men and women are Her slaveboyz'n slavegalz!!!!
So i whip my ass as tribute to Her Divine Goddess-ship, insert Her Rod of Cosmic Supremacy into my poor penis /lingam and beat my balls/scrotal sacs with a letter opener to propitiate Her Divine Majesty!!!!
I feel no shame to be a submissive , masochistic man as She created men to be such and i am Not to blame for my Cosmic Wimphood : Victory Mistress Kali / Jai Malkin Kali!!!!
 
You need to compare it to what people think your fetish usually involves to realize/get a better idea of what it is that you're into if that makes sense.

So for me, I have a panty fetish and people usually think I like to wear women's underwear or sniff used underwear. But that's not the case.

My attraction to panties is because it provides, at least in my point of view, a glimpse into what a person is like behind closed doors even though you have zero chance to seeing that person in a sexual situation (ie. a serious uptight person who has crotchless panties in her panty drawers).
I completely agree with this. But I also like the intimate knowledge of knowing their scent from sniffing their worn panties. Definitely adds an element.
 
As a bisexual man what turns me on in my fetish is taking facials from guys. I love to suck dick and at the end of it get splashed with cum. I love it when a guy moans that he’s getting close and then moans when he cums. The girl I’m with loves to hear about it and pushes me to meet up with guys.
 
Pronouced muscles, but not exorbitant. Just the distinguish look of strength and force. I love the sight of a muscled leg, let alone to hold and touch it. 😍
 
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