can someone help

[looking4ateacher]

my girlfriend is really great and we have desided to wait on sex but she one of those people thats very selfconfident about sex so she doesn't orgisism often when i fingure her she has only really cum good when i eat her out but alas my girlfriend is very strong and the smell sometimes makes it to hard for me to do it, any suggestions how we can work on that? and also i don't know how to ask her to shave the ahir around her lips she is trimmed everywhere else but i would love to see here shave around the lips. thanks for the help

 

[Mischka]

You're willing to stick your face in your girlfriend's crotch but you're unwilling to talk to her?! Great physical intimacy starts with emotional intimacy. Talk to her about what turns you on - tell her you'd find it incredibly sexy if she'd shave, or that you'd like to shave her. If she doesn't like razors, use Magic depilatory lotion (see the thread on this site about the wonders of this product).

Is her smell more pungent at certain times than others? A woman's smell fluctuates with her cycle, so maybe she can give you a warning when she's close to her period if you find the smell overbearing. Or maybe she just needs to keep herself cleaner. A good bar of soap does wonders. If you're uncomfortable bringing it up, then take a shower together and lather her all over. After the shower, go down on her, stressing how good she tastes after getting so squeaky clean. That should inspire a serious devotion to hygiene.

 

[Two2Tango]

Don't know how to ask her? or don't want to be turned down? If she's your girlfriend, she'll understand. Just don't try to say something like "shave it you hairy ape." Make it part of the tease... mention it casually. "Hey, girl.. naked lips would be fun.. something new to try..." Make a game out of it.

As far as her "strong" odor, there's nothing you can really do about that. You could do what we girls do sometimes, if we're concerned about oral sex on a guy. Start in the shower. *grins* Honestly, begin your tryst in there, soap each other up, rinse off, migrate to the bedroom. Try eating her out then. It may help, it may not. You can only try.

~*Feather*~

 

[djacq]

Good Suggestions

It’s cool that you two decided to wait a while to have intercourse and use oral sex for pleasure. If you got problems, it’s okay to talk openly about sex with your girlfriend. The best sex is the one were both of you can communicate. The situation that I can’t figure you out is why you can’t get her to cum when you’re fingering her. Perhaps you’re doing it wrong. It’s not all about sticking a finger inside the pussy. A woman likes a soft gentle approach around the lips then a varying pressure on the clit. Try stroking your finger or two inside her and rub on the clit in one sweet motion. If you still can’t get her to cum have her show you. Come on, we all know our own body and she only knows how to get her self off. She can use your finger or hers.

About the smell of her pussy. It could be a hormonal thing with her period cycle. The suggestion of the use of soap is good but the use of a douche is even better. I love to eat a freshly clean smelling pussy and my wife douches herself for my oral attention. If you’re a bit hesitant to approach her about the subject, present her with a couple of boxes of Massengil as a gift.

Other than tasting a clean smelling pussy, I like to lick a shaved pussy. What I did in my situation was I took matters in my own hands. I treated my wife to a surprise shaving. I used an electric mustache trimmer (hint the vibration) and groomed her mound to a naked skin. She came so hard because of the difference when I ate her, she keeps herself trimmed. Best of luck and let me how it went.