Can kink/vanilla relationships work?

[purplepenguin25]

Im currently dating someone who is much more vanilla than I am. I've had good luck introducing her to some things, and not such good luck with others, but at the end of the day even sex without the kink can be great! I think the important thing is to try and find a middle ground that you're both comfortable with.

 

[GloriHoleLover]

Im currently dating someone who is much more vanilla than I am. I've had good luck introducing her to some things, and not such good luck with others, but at the end of the day even sex without the kink can be great! I think the important thing is to try and find a middle ground that you're both comfortable with.

All I can say is...Good luck, and, please, DON'T marry her!

 

[NOIRTRASH]

This board is always good for a belly laugh.

The one constant in life is change. As far back as I can remember it was always something new and different to wallow in, from hula-hoops and Red Ball Jet sneakers to the rest. But Quests have brief shelf lives. A gotta have when youre 12 doesn't exist at 18. Some call such episodes PHASES. And they change.

At my first high school reunion I collided with the blonde cheerleader I lusted for since elementary school. Ten years after graduation she was fat. I had filled out and got cute. She said to me, I WISH I HAD BEEN NICER TO YOU. Aint that how it always is?

The girl I pined for 4 years married another. OK. A year later I married my wife. About a week or so after out wedding my old flame tracked me down to propose marriage to me. I'M READY TO MARRY YOU. Her husband wanted to be her best girlfriend, and was working on it.

You girls make me laugh.

 

[FurryFury]

It can work but yes, you have to give up on some of the things you want, almost always.

 

[DemiAngora]

Everybody is kinky in one way or another and it depends on you to wake his kinky mind from its coma. I hate the definition of kinky/vanilla. Human sexuality is a lot more complicated than what we like to believe.

 

[Newbie3311]

Def made the same mistake. Kicking myself over and over and over for it....

 

[Lazy_lay]

No! Not no but Hell no! Opposites attract but you don't want to marry one. I did.
She's a great girl but we are both unhappy to a degree. Me because I want all that
I read and fantasize about and she wants to make love in the missionary
position. Boring! Talk it out before you commit!

Ah, she's got the missionary kink perversion.

I have a different take on it (but could be wrong...) You would think women would be doing it in positions that create them the best and most orgasms, period. Sex is self centered. So I would just interpret her liking the miss as that's where and how she gets off.

Like I said, I could be wrong...