can i squirt?

[Guest]

Can you learn to squirt?

I've read lots of internet articles on female ejaculation and learned that the key is the G spot. but i've also learned that the G spot is sensitive in some women, but not others. I dont think mine is.

when i get turned on, i get super wet but it would be sooooo cool if i could squirt. i love seeing men shoot their loads and i love getting covered in cum. i'd like to do the same for my lovers.

so does anyone know if you can learn or are you only born with this talent?

 

[Jellybeangirl]

I don't know if you can learn that- I know w/ me, I really can't control when it happens, it just does- usually during hard-thrusting sex. I don't know if it helps any, but I wish you luck!

 

[asphaltangel]

It isnn't something that be answered simply! Every woman is capable of squirting but,it is really weather she can bring herself to relax enough to let it happen. I tried for years to make myself squirt and with little results. It wasn't until my current partner also my Husband alowed me to explore what it was within me that alowed me to relax and get to the level of excitement that it finally happened.

I have found what works best for me is alot of erotica in foreplay either movies or reading the GREAT stories here on Literotica,to get me in the mood. Then some self stimulation I use a hand held massager with a small bulb on the end. When I get to the piont that I feel the orgasm building inside and the sensation we all feel with a true orgasm I am speaking of that feeling that we have to PEE!!

I bare down like I was pushing out a baby and I can flood like you wouldn't believe!!

Hope this helps in your efforts.
AA

 

[just_so_mmmmm]

wow thanks so much! i think i'll go practice now!

but is female ejaculate obviously different from pee? will i be able to tell if i am practicing by myself? is there usually a lot of it? i'm just afraid that i will accidentally pee, and not really squirt. then when the time comes around i decided to show off to my partner, i'd just end up peeing on him.

we're not really into watersports and peeing on him would just be embarrassing.

 

[Ohbacchus]

Squirting

Nice question - I've been trying to get my girl to try that and at this time is just a little un easy about it. However, she found out that a friend of ours was able to do it so she's gotten a little more intriqued by it.

Actually if you go to sexysquirter.com you'll see Ro- do it all the time.

here's a file to click on

 

[Wizard]

I think the more you become in touch with your body and your partner as well you can squirt.
MY wife does and when she does she gushes.
I find it highly erotic and love it. I think learning what you like, and being in touch, and having trust is a big part.

 

[thesatinrose]

Just a little FYI . . .

A woman's G-spot is toward the front of her body only a couple of inches from the front. To just go right for it and expect to feel all tingly, it doesn't happen. There is a very thin wall of tissue that separates the wall of the canal and the blatter. When you become aroused, a consistant rubbing (firm) of that spot will cause eventual ejaculation.

I have read so many articles regarding what is ultimatly "squirted" it's dizzying. What I can tell you, for certain, is that is the the most intense orgasm, the best release, and what comes out is as thin as water, nothing like a man's sperm. Being concerned about it being urine will definately not lend itself to allowing you to relax enough to get there. And your reaction to such a fantastic orgasm will have him eating from the palm of your hand, no matter the source of the discharge. . .

No kidding . . .

 

[TastySourCream]

pee?

I remember making my ex squirt for the first time. and the 2nd time... and the 3rd time... and... well, you get the idea.
it was really cool because she had two previous boyfriends and they couldn't even make her have an orgasm. but *I* did. and that was a big ego trip. it only happened during oral sex though. she would get me totally soaked and I loved it!

...unfortunately... it looked, smelled, and tasted like pee. and we never did decide if she was actually peeing while having an orgasm. I'm not into watersports, but I certainly didn't mind having her squirt on me.

edit: I thought I'd add the fact that we discovered her squirting talent while she was on all fours, straddled over my face. she didn't even know she had squirted until the orgasm was over and she looked down to see my face, chest and stomach covered in her fluid. then she said that it was "17 years worth" that had gushed out. but it turned out it wasn't, because she'd always get me soaked whenever she gushed.

 

[gottabebi]

Squirting

My man makes me squirt by taking his index and middle fingers and rubbing my G-spot. It definitely not pee!!! The liquid is hot, almost clear, and oooooo there is so much of it. It is an intense orgasm and it feels so good. He is the only man who has ever done that to me. Also, it does not take long....about 2 minutes and that's only if I am not already stimulated. But sometimes it is too much to start off with because it causes a burning sensation.

I don't know how he does it, just that he does.......consistently.

 

[Wizard]

Re: Squirting

My man makes me squirt by taking his index and middle fingers and rubbing my G-spot. It definitely not pee!!! The liquid is hot, almost clear, and oooooo there is so much of it. It is an intense orgasm and it feels so good. He is the only man who has ever done that to me. Also, it does not take long....about 2 minutes and that's only if I am not already stimulated. But sometimes it is too much to start off with because it causes a burning sensation.

I don't know how he does it, just that he does.......consistently.

So enjoy it.....Don't question it ....love it.....

 

[sazmotax]

yep

i never knew i even did it til i started dating my husband. he never even told me, just handed me a printout he found on the internet. boy was i embarassed! he told me he thought i was peeing on him at first, but then realized i was actually cumming all over him! i had never even heard of it. he says its a tremendous turn on and even likes me to "spray" on him, lol. it only happens when he finger fucks me tho...what an amazing orgasm! ~Lisa

 

[OldAllisWD45]

My wife squirts. And it is a killer turn on for me. The first time it happened I did think she peed on me but that wasnt the case.
I have to ease her into it lots of foreplay and maybe an orgasm or two. It happens most often when I insert my middle and ring fingers. Palm up towards her belly and curl them towards my palm as if i were motioning for some one to "come here". Nice and slow works best for her. A little practice and I have learned to tell when she is close......... when she gets close i pop my pinky in her ass and watch the show!!!!!. and it is definitely not pee I dont know where it all comes from but soaks everything!!! Finally had to put a vinyl mattress cover on the bed to keep from having to sleep in the guest room all of the time!!

 

[TD Gunz]

HI,

Having a girl squirt is the most erotic that I have ever seen! It is, as many previous posters said, tied directly to g-spot stimulation. It is also something that can't be 'forced', you have to be very open and in touch with your own body, and not afraid to 'practice', repeatedly.

I gave my girlfriend her first orgasm ever. She thought she'd had them before with other partners, but when I got her that first time, she said she'd never ever felt that way before. It was a good feeling to know that I could give her pleasure, and after some more 'experimenting' we learned how to do it so that she would squirt.

Some guys, and probably some girls can't find the g-spot. It is kinda tough to feel the first time or two. Too many guys want to reach in there and 'dig for gold', but the real treasure is just inside!! I've found it to be about 1 to 2 inches inside the vaginal opening, on top, if you are laying on your back. It's supposed to be the size of a postage stamp, but that it varies from girl to girl. It is just slightly rougher than the surrounding skin, and if you or your partner feel around pushing up on the vaginal wall you can feel where it starts and stops, but again the more aroused you are the easier it is to feel.


The best way to practice, is with you on your back, sometimes pillows help lift your bottom up enough for your partner not to get a crook in his neck (LOL). You have to be really aroused, from fore-play, erotica, etc, I can't stress this enough. If your partner will insert his fingers usually one or two, (I've had the best luck with my two middle fingers, and it let's the others hold your lips open) inside you with his palm facing up and use that "come here" motion they should be able to feel it. It will feel for you like you have to pee, because the g-spot isn't separated from your bladder by much. Don't rush it, take your time, let your partner arouse you, RELAX. The biggest thing is the relaxation, if you are tense, you are fighting an up-hill battle.

When you feel that you are close to an orgasm from yours or your partners touch, stop, hang there on the edge of the abyss for a minute, don't make yourself cum right at first. It seems that after one or two "close calls", you really want to cum badly and it works better at first. Them like the other posters said, when you do cum, bear down. My partner "squirted" best when she held her labia lips open, and I orally pleasured her clit, and used my fingers on her g-spot. She got so good at it that she could really drench me! I love it!!

It isn't pee, but it is nothing like a guys cum. It's slightly sticky, kinda like pre-cum, has a little musky scent, and is clear to a slight yellowish. If you need to pee before trying this, do it! It is sometimes uncomfortable to my partner when she has to pee, and yes, it is common for a girl who has a really fulll bladder to lose control of it for a second when she orgasms. It is nothing to be ashamed of, or even worry about. That is why I said in the beignning that you and your partner have to be completely comfortable with your sexuality, and each others bodies. Sex is sex, and is supposed to be messy, sticky, wet, and have a smell of, well sex!

Good luck, don't get discouraged if you can't do it right away, just keep practicing, lol. At least the practice feels good.

TD Gunz

 

[BBWlynn]

I have managed to "squirt" a couple of times, but I don't really know how I did it. I think you just have to be really turned on, oh and I did notice that if I hadn't come in a week or so thats when it happened!

Lynn