NewbieMaster097
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- May 6, 2016
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Hey everyone, I've recently gotten into the whole BDSM scene, and after all the stuff that I've seen and found after some looking around, I have to ask: Can I still be a Master even though I'm a bottom?
I'm a very dominant person, and I love being in control, sexually or otherwise. It was the reason why I got into the whole BDSM scene in the first place. However, my preferred sexual position is as a bottom, a very aggressive bottom mind you, but a bottom nonetheless, and from what I've noticed in the scene so far, is that most people expect bottoms to be the submissive, subservient types, and I'm not that at all.
I rather tie someone up, than be tied myself. I'd rather make the decisions, rather than simply follow them. And don't even get me started on hitting and slapping. i don't mind dishing it out so long as the other guy wanted it, but if a top randomly slapped me in the face in the middle of sex, I would deck him on the spot.
So guys, is there even a chance for someone like me in the scene? I know there are passive tops out there. But BDSM, and definitely, Master/Slave is a whole different ball game, and I'm not so sure.
Any advice?
I'm a very dominant person, and I love being in control, sexually or otherwise. It was the reason why I got into the whole BDSM scene in the first place. However, my preferred sexual position is as a bottom, a very aggressive bottom mind you, but a bottom nonetheless, and from what I've noticed in the scene so far, is that most people expect bottoms to be the submissive, subservient types, and I'm not that at all.
I rather tie someone up, than be tied myself. I'd rather make the decisions, rather than simply follow them. And don't even get me started on hitting and slapping. i don't mind dishing it out so long as the other guy wanted it, but if a top randomly slapped me in the face in the middle of sex, I would deck him on the spot.
So guys, is there even a chance for someone like me in the scene? I know there are passive tops out there. But BDSM, and definitely, Master/Slave is a whole different ball game, and I'm not so sure.
Any advice?