Can being a bitch be attractive

[sexy-girl]

As i posted on KM's thread lisa probably would consider herself a bitch although i tell her differently her reply to that is "you know i can be"


she has a furious temper the whole smashing things and shouting im lucky that she is rarely angry at me but it still happens


my point is when i ask myself would i find her less attractive if she didn't have that (including the getting angry at me) and i have to say yes ... im in love with the whole package


but its not just her i've noticed that women on literotica that have that have a strong personality and are able to get angry at people and let them have it ... i find that i find those women attractive too ... so i think i have a thing for that type of person


perhaps because they tell people the things i wish i could ?
perhaps i admire she can defend me ? (even when maybe she go's to far)

(by way bitch isn't my word its i would describe lisa and these people differently)

 

[lilminx]

It must be attractive to some- some guys (and women as well) are attracted to me, after all.

 

[April]

Maybe it is the strength that attracts you.

But a woman doesn't have to be fiery to be strong. Strength lies in restraint as well as passion.

 

[Starblayde]

Too many women are attracted to complete bastards so why not men (and some women) being attracted to bitches?

 

[Zamdrist]

I don't think it's attractive in the least bit, sorry

Nothing wrong with a woman who is bold, agressive and speaks her mind. Just don't be...no. I won't go there.

 

[lilminx]

Yeah, but Zam- the characteristics you described are considered bitchy by most people.

 

[sexy-girl]

i have to say the women that are "bitches" that im attracted too have to have some redeeming characteristics


lisa is amazingly kind and thoughtful as well ... so just beacuse someone is a "bitch" doesnt mean they are horrible people


and i agree with you april

 

[Zamdrist]

Yeah, but Zam- the women you described are considered bitches by most people.

Not I.

If that sounds self serving, so be it.

I don't want some mousey, back-down gal. Bold and agressive is much more interesting. Just don't insult me or put me down doing it.

 

[Route66Girl]

Subtle difference

I'm hetero, so sexual attraction to bitchiness is not an issue with me. But I'm repelled by bitchy behavior from women all the same, and blanch when men are callous, as well.

I don't think that all women who are "bold, agressive, and speak their minds" are bitches. The difference between a self-assured woman and a bitch is their level of tact. Bitches, as it were, tend to be without tact or politeness, as if on a mission to dispell any notions one may have about their being domitable.

A self-assured woman, on the other hand, doesn't have anything to prove because her independence is expressed more in lifestyle and action, rather than attitude.

Just my opinion

 

[Zamdrist]

Re: Subtle difference

I'm hetero, so sexual attraction to bitchiness is not an issue with me.

I'm hetero too but 'bitchiness' is pretty damn relavent to me!

Bitchiness crosses all genders and sexual orientations

 

[perks]

I don't think it's attractive in the least bit, sorry

Nothing wrong with a woman who is bold, agressive and speaks her mind. Just don't be...no. I won't go there.

but, but...
you love me.

 

[sexy-girl]

im not "allowed" to give examples or i will get in trouble


but if a guy is slightly rude to a woman ... and the woman is even more rude back ... does that mean they are a bitch or just putting a rude guy in his place


by the way i could say guy or girl .. she isn't just a "bitch" to guys

 

[Zamdrist]

but, but...
you love me.

I love women who are obsessed with duck 'n panties

 

[paphian]

Bitchy is not attractive, whether its male or female bitchiness.

By my definition, "bitchy" is--broadly--rudeness or meanness without provocation. Never a good thing.

And, while rudeness in reponse to rudeness may often "end" a situation, it's often way more fun to get more polite and more correct when confronted with rude behavior. You can often have a devastating effect without ever doing anything rude.

 

[riff]

Of course. Haven't you ever wanted to fuck someone out of spite?

LOL

I am trying to learn to just allow bitchiness in my life without being seduced by it. Because the truth is- I don't really like it.

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[nasty]

"WE all go alittle mad sometimes." As long as she doesn't cause you any phyical harm, then, it's ok. And, if she's a bitch in the bedroom, yeah, that's GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! P.S.-Where my PM?

 

[Liontamr]

When I think of a woman as being a bitch, in my mind I see her as hard to deal with, stubbor and unwilling to even reason things out, rude and vulgar towards any one and anything weither the deserve being "bitched" at or not.

So that in mind, sorry but I don't find being an "out and out" bitch attractive at all... I'm more likley to scoff at you and turn away if that attitude is pulled.

Now traits that make up being a bitch are attractive, but in individual form and take in small doses.. Showing strength, boldness and agression can all be turn ons as long as they are applied in the right way.

 

[Starfish]

Isn't DA's Av just awesome? Nice photo, beautiful.

 

[OpposingBalance]

hmmm
well, personally sometimes i find women who are powerful and agressive very attractive, but i cant stand anyone who gives people a hard time for no reason.
sooo, i guess it all depends on the definition of being a bitch.

 

[Oilpainter]

Being a bitch is not atractive.

I vote that being a bitch is unnatractive.

 

[Monazwx]

A Bitch

Unfortunately, I know some hot bitches, but their attitude changes everyone's perspective of them real quick.

Therefore, bitches can be attractive, but in the end, people still don't want to be around them.

Thank goodness I'm just attractive.

 

[Private Vasquez]

On the outside, maybe

 

[Sillyman]

I need an aggressive assertive woman. Elsewise, we would never fuck because I'd be too frightened to make a move. I need to know that's okay.

I associate bitchiness with meaness for the sake of being mean, cattiness and cruelty, and self-absorbtion, the "Queen Bee" syndrome. I do not find any of these qualities attractive.

 

[Oasis690]

I want to screw your brains out just for asking that question...


Bitchy women generally equal hot sex...and crappy everything else...but...hot sex...hot sex....hot sex...it can even out.