Can all women squirt?

[WifeloverVue]

So my wife has never squirted. With or without me. She wants to though. I am quite small but have been with two women that were squirters. I can’t say I did anything special/different.

So that begs the question. Can any woman be a squirter? If so, advice on this so I can share with my wife would be appreciated.
Thanks

 

[Cuckwannabe111]

My wife has squirted a few times. Always happened in the passenger seat of a car. Maybe the way she was sitting, her feet propped on the dash, is what did it? I don't know. I was fingering and eating her pussy when it happened. I have wanted to replicate it, but we haven't been successful

 

[Meekly_Anna]

First of all, it's urin, normally.
Second, no, not all do. It's perfectly normal not to do.

 

[LMWM321]

First of all, it's urin, normally.
Second, no, not all do. It's perfectly normal not to do.

Agreed! Ask a Board Certified OBGYN or Urologist, and they'll tell you the same - it's almost entirely urine.

Men...if want to pile yet another unrealistic, porn-driven expectation onto your female partner that ruins sex for her… Go ahead, start pressuring her to squirt.

 

[WifeloverVue]

First of all, it's urin, normally.
Second, no, not all do. It's perfectly normal not to do.

Urine wouldn’t really bother me. But I think it’s more than just pee. One of the women in my past did squirt and would engage in golden showers with me. Very different tastes.

 

[WifeloverVue]

Agreed! And if men want to pile on more unrealistic porn-driven expectation onto their female partner… Start pressuring her to squirt.

It was her request. I don’t mind squirt. It’s fun. Clean up can be a bitch. lol

 

[lily_wall_]

I've never squirted. Idk what would it take to get me there

 

[Sgts19]

I haven't had any luck getting my wife to squirt but one other guy did pretty much every time he was with her. Maybe it's we've been married for 47 years thing. Ho hum been there done that. His wife told me the first time we swapped with them that he was to big for her, they didn't fuck much because of it. Funny because I fit perfect in her. He got different reactions from her. Basically, her fucked the shit out of her and made her cum.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I've never squirted. Idk what would it take to get me there

There should be no unrealistic expectations, and no pressures to perform.
But it might be nice just to try with some prolonged pussy-licking and finger-fucking, just to see what might happen...

 

[JaysonFromMars]

I’ve never been with a woman who I couldn’t make squirt, at least manually. But I feel like it’s more of a male ego parlor trick. Some women squirt every time they orgasm. Most don’t. For some, it’s more intense, for others it’s not even all that connected with orgasm. To me, the bottom line is if a woman wants to squirt, that’s great. But if not, there is no reason they should be made too feel “lesser than.” Squirting (or even orgasm) should not be a goal. That just puts pressure on the woman, typically reducing their satisfaction. The only goals should be her pleasure and connection.

Just my two cents.

 

[wouldloveto]

I've never squirted. Idk what would it take to get me there

There are specific techniques that are available for you you try. I have found some success utilizing such techniques.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I have squirted and yes, normally because I hadn't urinated prior to the playtime..
I've never done it like the females do in porn scenes...

 

[geekyKT90]

I find with a lot of guys, its an unrealistic expectation that every woman should squirt and if they don't there's something they're doing wrong/something wrong with the girl. It's almost an obsession like anal!

 

[JaysonFromMars]

I have squirted and yes, normally because I hadn't urinated prior to the playtime..
I've never done it like the females do in porn scenes...

Yeah. Most of the porn stuff is bullshit anyway. That’s why I said it’s become a parlor trick. It seems to have been popularized in porn as some kind of goal, but that’s just because men are visual and they are the main audience. My biggest gripe is that it’s just another form of pressure for women to “measure up” which certainly doesn’t help women who are made to feel insecure about their bodies anyway.

 

[JaysonFromMars]

I find with a lot of guys, its an unrealistic expectation that every woman should squirt and if they don't there's something they're doing wrong/something wrong with the girl. It's almost an obsession like anal!

 

[GoodnessO]

Squirting feels very good to me, but I'm gonna have to start using a proper bed pad. I've been putting my largest & thickest, most absorbent bath towel under me, & most recently with it folded in thirds. But now I've been soaking right through it.
As far as I know, I only started squirting during the past year. But I don't think I would've known if I squirted during intercourse, while my partner & I were cumming at the same time, which I most often did. I would've just thought it was all his hot cum bringing me extra delight.
When I masturbated acoustically (by hand only), I never squirted. Then last fall I got a rabbit vibrator, & after getting familiar with it (& really good at using it ) I squirt pretty much every time I use it, & upon good fucking with a partner.

 

[LMWM321]

I find with a lot of guys, its an unrealistic expectation that every woman should squirt and if they don't there's something they're doing wrong/something wrong with the girl. It's almost an obsession like anal!

Exactly.. just ridiculous. The goal of having great sex is best served by being as attentive a lover as possible, and that's it. Piling on performative expectations like "squirting" is going to make more women withdraw from sex or approach it with anxiety. And it epitomizes men wanting a woman to ograsm for all the wrong reasons - ie., reflected glory for HIM, rather than enjoyment for her. ..Not good.

Men, how would you like it if your lover said, "Why can't YOU shoot your cum three feet like my last boyfriend? Instead, it just dribbles out of your dick, and that disappoints me."

I see these two expectations as roughly equivalent. Neither is within a persons ability to control so expecting it is detrimental to a healthy relationship.

 

[LoveOlderLove]

I dont have the most experience, especially on lit. But I believe not all woman squirt. I got very lucky my x was a squirter and I loved it. But I think it is all female dependant

 

[JaysonFromMars]

Exactly.. just ridiculous. The goal of great sex is best served by being as attentive a lover as possible, and that's it. Piling on performative expectations like "squirting" is going to make more women withdraw from sex or approach it with anxiety. And it epitomizes men wanting a woman to ograsm for all the wrong reasons - ie., reflected glory for HIM, rather than enjoyment for her. ..Not good.

Men, how would you like it if your lover said, "Why can't YOU shoot your cum three feet like my last boyfriend? Instead, you dribble it. And that disappoints me."

I see these two expectations as roughly equivalent and equally detrimental to a healthy relationship.

I couldn’t agree with this more. Perfectly said.

 

[GoodnessO]

First of all, it's urin, normally.
Second, no, not all do. It's perfectly normal not to do.

I'm not certain, but I think there may be 2 types of squirting. A mostly clear liquid that's very watery, versus a white liquid that's somewhat more viscous.
I'm also not certain which type of squirt I produce, because don't see it, & no one else has seen it yet, either because it happens during intercourse. But I think my squirt is clear & watery. I do know its not urine, because it doesn't smell like my urine. My squirt has virtually no smell, as far as I can detect, & I have a pretty good sniffer.

 

[LMWM321]

I do know its not urine, because it doesn't smell like my urine

Sorry, but it is. OBGYN's and Urologist's (inc. those who are women) will tell you - it's MOSTLY urine, with a small amount (as in a few drops) of vaginal lubricant from the skenes glands, which probably accounts for its slipperyness. But it's mostly urine. The fact that it's clear and tasteless means your'e well hydrated. AND may also mean that having sex prompted the release of the urine before you would normally feel the need to go, so it lacks a sufficient amount of the waste by-products that would give it a darker color, stronger odor, and consequently a stronger taste.

I'm not trying to spoil other peoples' fun, but misinformation is NEVER a good thing. ...Letting people believe that some (and only some) women have a secret reservoir containing ounces and ounces of lady-cum that modern medical science hasn't located may seem sexy, but it's misinformation all the same.

Knowing the truth about squirting doesn't mean it's any less fun or kinky.

 

[GoodnessO]

Sorry, but it is. OBGYN's and Urologist's (inc. those who are women) will tell you - it's MOSTLY urine, with a small amount (as in a few drops) of vaginal lubricant from the skenes glands, which probably accounts for its slipperyness. But it's mostly urine. The fact that it's clear and tasteless means your'e well hydrated. AND may also mean the sex you were having prompted the release of urine before you would normally feel the need to go, at which point the urine would have more filtration by-products giving it a darker color and stronger odor (and consequently a stronger taste).

I'm not trying to spoil other peoples' fun, but misinformation is NEVER a good thing. ...Letting people believe that some (and only some) women have a reservoir that modern medical science hasn't located that contains ounces and ounces of lady-cum may seem sexy, but it's misinformation all the same.

Knowing the truth about squirting doesn't mean it's any less fun or kinky.

There is newer & more complete research available on this topic. And there have been other threads, which I've also posted on. I'm a science nerd.

 

[LMWM321]

I'm a science nerd.

Yes, me too. And it's the newer and more complete science that points to it being "mostly urine."

 

[GoodnessO]

Sorry, but it is. OBGYN's and Urologist's (inc. those who are women) will tell you - it's MOSTLY urine, with a small amount (as in a few drops) of vaginal lubricant from the skenes glands, which probably accounts for its slipperyness. But it's mostly urine. The fact that it's clear and tasteless means your'e well hydrated. AND may also mean the sex you were having prompted the release of urine before you would normally feel the need to go, at which point the urine would have more filtration by-products giving it a darker color and stronger odor (and consequently a stronger taste).

I'm not trying to spoil other peoples' fun, but misinformation is NEVER a good thing. ...Letting people believe that some (and only some) women have a reservoir that modern medical science hasn't located that contains ounces and ounces of lady-cum may seem sexy, but it's misinformation all the same.

Knowing the truth about squirting doesn't mean it's any less fun or kinky.

Also, even though I'm hydrated, after sex & squirting, I get up to pee, & my pee isn't clear.
I know the clear watery squirts contain pee, but honestly it is not regular pee. And the sensation is different than urinating.

 

[LMWM321]

Also, even though I'm hydrated, after sex & squirting, I get up to pee, & my pee isn't clear.
I know the clear watery squirts contain pee, but honestly it is not regular pee. And the sensation is different than urinating.

I'm not trying to get sideways with you. Obviously, you can believe what you want.

But I hope any woman who might feel any degree of insecurity about this will ask her Board Certified OBGYN or Urologist.