Built for procreation not pleasure

[TijuanaHitman]

I am a little quick on the draw and only last a few minutes. I am very sensitive in the head area and with the addition of lubes makes it worse. I use rings, creams, and viagra (i get headaches and congested) with not much luck. Any suggestions? Sex is a big thing to her and I want to do my best. She has no problems with orgasim during oral or toys. Just during intercourse. She does orgasim on occasion during intercourse but not often enough.

Thanks

 

[Mansa Musa]

First things first: Most men last for 5-10 minutes, so you aren't alone in being unable to break the ten minute barrier.

Now, assuming that masturbation hasn't helped to decrease your sensation, my sole piece of advice is to increase your foreplay. Instead of using oral to guarantee one orgasm, use oral to give her a few orgasms. Massage, internal and external, is a very effective relaxation tool, and she'll orgasm quicker if she feels relaxed. And G-spot play is essential. Before I discovered the G-spot, I'd (maybe) be able to bring a woman to one orgasm through straight intercourse. After learning some of it's secrets, however, almost all of my partners became (seemingly) multi-orgasmic. I had to practice, I had to do a lot of practice (poor me ), and I still tend to linger when I finger. But the results, ahhhhh, the results. When she's all loose and sweaty and unable to catch her breath, and wondering where in the hell you managed to learn how to do something like that, then you insert Tab A into slot B and hold on for dear life. within a six minute window, you should be able to bring her to orgasm at least a couple of times, maybe more if you get the positions right.

 

[JamieB]

Age?

If you're close to thirty, this may not work.

When I was in my early twenties I was sort of a minute man myself...it bugged me until I decided the first round was part of foreplay. I'd cum after a minute or two (or less....fine I said it), switch back to foreplay, get hard again, and commence round two which usually was sufficient.

It helps to be in shape and healthy too...minimizes down time between orgasm and hard-on #2.

J

 

[Quesla]

Oh!!! PLEASE! beg my plump hubby to hang around on this thread! Love & Light: Quesla

 

[Quesla]

I guess it helps if hubby were in shape? I'm only in a little better shape than him and I love to play like a child. Building snow forts, swimming, Climbing trees, Swimming and camping excetra. Hubby prefers to walk between the cupboard and T.VV. and watch WWE! *sigh!* Quesla

 

[DavePunter]

I guess it helps if hubby were in shape? I'm only in a little better shape than him and I love to play like a child. Building snow forts, swimming, Climbing trees, Swimming and camping excetra. Hubby prefers to walk between the cupboard and T.VV. and watch WWE! *sigh!* Quesla

Try sex first thing in the morning! I often find I'm much slower "getting going" when I first wake up.

And let us know how you get on!

 

[mjl2010]

Anyone can learn to delay their orgasm/ejaculation.

The most effective method is to control ejaculation by using the PC muscle. This is the same muscle used to stop your urine stream when you urinate. It takes considerable practice and dedication but you can learn to do this.

Just Google pc muscle and choose a page. The do the exercises and during intercourse, use the muscle. At first you'll be frustrated. It does take time, practice and exercise. Don't expect to google this tonight, take the lady to bed and voila, instant super man. It doesn't work like that.

A couple of months will give you better control. A year will make it worth your effort. Just - once you learn this, remember that few women like it to last more than 20 minutes and half an hour is really pushing it.

A side benefit - you get to have mini orgasms. Very nice and no ejaculate but still very nice.

MJL