Broken trust

[BobFrapples]

So, my wife and i have been together for 8 years and throughout this time we’ve played with multiple partners together- both male and female. We always have set boundaries that made each other feel safe and secure in the world we were delving into. Recently, my wife has crossed those boundaries with the guy we’ve been playing with for about a year now. They had both been pursuing a exploits together outside of our relationship and it’s left me distrustful of her and worried about the health of our marriage. She has told me cointless times that she doesn’t have feelings for this gentleman, but that he had feelings for her, so they explored.

Anyway, i love my wife and i want our marriage to work. I know it’s going to take a while to rebuild trust, but where do i go from here?

Has this happened to anyone else?

How did you move past it?

Does it mark the end of sharing in a relationship?

Why do I still want to see her with another man? Am i fucking nuts?

 

[Justfantasies]

So, my wife and i have been together for 8 years and throughout this time we’ve played with multiple partners together- both male and female. We always have set boundaries that made each other feel safe and secure in the world we were delving into. Recently, my wife has crossed those boundaries with the guy we’ve been playing with for about a year now. They had both been pursuing a exploits together outside of our relationship and it’s left me distrustful of her and worried about the health of our marriage. She has told me cointless times that she doesn’t have feelings for this gentleman, but that he had feelings for her, so they explored.

Anyway, i love my wife and i want our marriage to work. I know it’s going to take a while to rebuild trust, but where do i go from here?

Has this happened to anyone else?

How did you move past it?

Does it mark the end of sharing in a relationship?

Why do I still want to see her with another man? Am i fucking nuts?

My experience with open relationships is that they have a dynamic of their own and you have to go with the flow

 

[FGB]

My experience with open relationships is that they have a dynamic of their own and you have to go with the flow

Pissing down someones back an telling them it's raining is not going with the flow!

 

[FGB]

So, my wife and i have been together for 8 years and throughout this time we’ve played with multiple partners together- both male and female. We always have set boundaries that made each other feel safe and secure in the world we were delving into. Recently, my wife has crossed those boundaries with the guy we’ve been playing with for about a year now. They had both been pursuing a exploits together outside of our relationship and it’s left me distrustful of her and worried about the health of our marriage. She has told me cointless times that she doesn’t have feelings for this gentleman, but that he had feelings for her, so they explored.

Anyway, i love my wife and i want our marriage to work. I know it’s going to take a while to rebuild trust, but where do i go from here?

Has this happened to anyone else?

How did you move past it?

Does it mark the end of sharing in a relationship?

Why do I still want to see her with another man? Am i fucking nuts?

Do what she is doing with a sweet young thing and when she protest ask her what the difference is between what she is doing and what you are doing.

Good place to start negotiations...

If they don't work out you haven't lost anything.

 

[FGB]

Crap like this is a question of "Mind Over Matter"

If per chance you don't mind...then it really doesn't matter.

If you do then it does...cause she is Disrespecting you.

This is Bullshit and it stinks!

And THAT is the beginning of the end for many relationships.

Are you going to be a chuck or not?