Broken Hearts

[Feistyred16]

Re: *hugs*

Hiya, Feisty - haven't popped onto your regular thread in a long while, but I just wanted to offer my sympathies - that's no fun, darlin. Good luck, there's lots of good advice here.

Thanks WG....Missed seeing you around....

 

[Feistyred16]

Re: Re: Broken Hearts

If only I knew....
that would make things much easier.

But I got one piece of advice. In order to mend your broken heart you first have to get it back from the person that broke it.

Snoopy

I think you could be right Snoopy...
I'm not sure how to go about getting it back though...

 

[Feistyred16]

Thank you to everyone who has posted here so far.
I don't know many of you...Some I have seen around before...Some are brand new to me...BUT I want to thank you so much for answering...You have no idea how much it's helped my "inside me".

I'm glad its all here in black & white for me to come back & read whenever I want...

Hugs to you all

 

[Darkknight2010]

Thank you to everyone who has posted here so far.
I don't know many of you...Some I have seen around before...Some are brand new to me...BUT I want to thank you so much for answering...You have no idea how much it's helped my "inside me".

I'm glad its all here in black & white for me to come back & read whenever I want...

Hugs to you all

You're very, very welcome, sweetie.

 

[Pleasurekitten]

Hello Feistyred.......i hope you don't mind me adding my recent experiences to your thread.

i am just starting to mend my broken heart. i have read through this whole thread and a few similar ones and can see all the very sensible and logical ideas people have suggested, or even used themselves. The trouble is, when you have truly loved someone and you are faced with the reality of being shut out of their lives for good, you can't think clearly, cause your heart hurts too much.

i've cried more tears than i thought i ever could. And i know there'll be more yet to come. i'm not angry nor do i hate him. i'm grieving for the loss of my best friend. i understand why he felt he had to leave the relationship. i know, that in time, the pain will lessen and eventually i will be able to get on with life. Right now, i find it hard to do anything at all, even though i try. i want to be happy and i want him to be happy in whatever life brings him. i just wish it would all go away, the hurt, the pain, the sadness.

i liked that thought Darkknight posted earlier about you when you can remember what happened and it no longer hits you like a train. That moment has not arrived for me yet.......hopefully one day soon.

Take care Feistyred, as i will too, and know that we will both survive it. Here's to better days ahead.

 

[Feistyred16]

Hello Feistyred.......i hope you don't mind me adding my recent experiences to your thread.

i am just starting to mend my broken heart. i have read through this whole thread and a few similar ones and can see all the very sensible and logical ideas people have suggested, or even used themselves. The trouble is, when you have truly loved someone and you are faced with the reality of being shut out of their lives for good, you can't think clearly, cause your heart hurts too much.

i've cried more tears than i thought i ever could. And i know there'll be more yet to come. i'm not angry nor do i hate him. i'm grieving for the loss of my best friend. i understand why he felt he had to leave the relationship. i know, that in time, the pain will lessen and eventually i will be able to get on with life. Right now, i find it hard to do anything at all, even though i try. i want to be happy and i want him to be happy in whatever life brings him. i just wish it would all go away, the hurt, the pain, the sadness.

i liked that thought Darkknight posted earlier about you when you can remember what happened and it no longer hits you like a train. That moment has not arrived for me yet.......hopefully one day soon.

Take care Feistyred, as i will too, and know that we will both survive it. Here's to better days ahead.

God!... Your words ring so true!
That moment that Darkknight spoke of hasn't found me yet either...
I was driving to work this morning, thinking it was going to be a good day and all of a sudden I had tears rolling down my cheeks and I felt like I couldn't breath...Thanks to a song on the radio.

I look forward to getting thru one day without the tears
Take Care

 

[Darkknight2010]

God!... Your words ring so true!
That moment that Darkknight spoke of hasn't found me yet either...
I was driving to work this morning, thinking it was going to be a good day and all of a sudden I had tears rolling down my cheeks and I felt like I couldn't breath...Thanks to a song on the radio.

I look forward to getting thru one day without the tears
Take Care

I still feel that way if I hear 'Time After Time'... the thing is the oddest things will hit you... music... food... reading a passage from a book...

It may take a loooooooooooong time... I was in denial about my feelings for about... geeze, about 9 years... three years of therapy... sorry, this sounds like an episode of Oprah. chuckle.

Seriously, it'll hit when it feels REALLY weird... and it'll feel like it'll never stop... it dosn't STOP... it just gets a bit easier... someone here said 'day by day, breath by breath'... that's soooooooo true...

 

[Darkknight2010]

You have described exactly what I'm feeling...I feel almost bi-polar at times...I'm up one minute and down the next.
Thank you so much!...Thank God for Cold Stone Ice Creamery!

Ice cream rules.

 

[Feistyred16]

Ice cream rules.

Ice Cream is almost as good as Chocolate in my book...

Too bad its almost swimsuit weather...

ahhh hell I don't care...
Bring on the ice cream & chocolate!

 

[Darkknight2010]

Ice Cream is almost as good as Chocolate in my book...

Too bad its almost swimsuit weather...

ahhh hell I don't care...
Bring on the ice cream & chocolate!

... getting a craving for Ben and Jerry's Chocolate Fudge Brownie.... oooooooohhhhhhhhhhhh...

 

[Darkknight2010]

Milady... how are you feeling?

 

[Feistyred16]

Milady... how are you feeling?

Thank you for the Roses!
I'm getting there...Today is a good day so far.
Thank you for checking on me!

 

[Darkknight2010]

Thank you for the Roses!
I'm getting there...Today is a good day so far.
Thank you for checking on me!

yw, milady. The good days DO come. Um... just remember... the bad days do come too.... I know, I sound like some harbinger of doom, but unfortunately the do... just ride the wave, ride it and tomorrow comes.

 

[shadow_dreamer]

Originally posted by Darkknight2010
yw, milady. The good days DO come. Um... just remember... the bad days do come too.... I know, I sound like some harbinger of doom, but unfortunately the do... just ride the wave, ride it and tomorrow comes.

Time is measured but with it comes the healing of a broken heart. It may seem as if it may never mend but eventually you do. There may be ups and downs and things that remind you of your broken heart but it will subside.

OH YEAH...ICE CREAM AND CHOCOLATE!!! CAN I HAVE MARSHAMALLOW TOPPING TOO?

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Ice Cream is almost as good as Chocolate in my book...

Too bad its almost swimsuit weather...

ahhh hell I don't care...
Bring on the ice cream & chocolate!

Mmmmmmmmmm I will have Hot Fudge on mine! now that is the best of both worlds!! *sigh*


Hi {{{Sister}}}

 

[Feistyred16]

Good Morning Kids
Hugs Sister!
Just passing thru, reading all the advice again...
Thanks to each of you again!

 

[Owlz]

Don't know what happened to this post



Forgive me if this has been done before...


I'm wondering how others have dealt with a broken heart...
How/what made it easier for you?

I went a little overboard, myself, Feisty. After having my heart broken several times, I compared it to beating my head against a brick wall. After doing this enough times, one realizes that it *hurts*! In my case, I simply avoided (and continue to avoid) putting myself in the position of beating my head against a wall/having my heart broken. If I'm fond of someone, I don't pursue her, avoiding another broken heart. Granted, this is extreme & makes for a lonely life, but...'Nothing ventured, nothing gained/No more heartache, no more pain.'

 

[Darkknight2010]

Good Morning Kids
Hugs Sister!
Just passing thru, reading all the advice again...
Thanks to each of you again!

Hey sweetie. You're always welcome.

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Good Morning Kids
Hugs Sister!
Just passing thru, reading all the advice again...
Thanks to each of you again!

{{{{Sister}}}} Hope your feeling better today! miss you bunches and bunches

 

[Owlz]

'morning, GoS.

 

[Feistyred16]

One of those days when I need to go back & read all the advice again.....
finding other threads with some good advice too...
Thanks again!
You Litzens ROCK!

 

[Owlz]

Good afternoon, sexy Feisty.

 

[Owlz]

Good afternoon, sexy Feisty.

 

[Darkknight2010]

One of those days when I need to go back & read all the advice again.....
finding other threads with some good advice too...
Thanks again!
You Litzens ROCK!

Always willing to oblige, sweetie.