Broken Hearts

[Stormystarr]

It seems that I am not the only one who has been hurting lately, there are lots of people on here who are. So this is my question, What do you do to relieve a severly broken heart? I have been so upset, please give me some advice on what to do.

 

[Savage Kitten]

Its really hard to say hun. everyone deals with pain and grief differently. What works for me may not work for you. The only thing I can suggest is to not deny what you feel. Acknowledge it, embrace it, consume it, don't let it consume you. Understand what it is you feel and why you feel it. Try to be honest with yourself. If the blame it partfully yours, accept it. And then sweety, move onward, and heal. {{{hugglez}}}

 

[teresafannin]

Hello, I am sorry you are having such a bad time of it. Allow yourself time to hurt, don't push all those feelings down inside, it will give you ulcers at the least. Sometimes if you look at it from a neutral point of view (easier said than done, I know), it makes a little bit better. If you have some good friends to hang out with, that sometimes will help as well. If all else fails, you can email & vent to me. I have good ears for listening. Give yourself time, everyone has to deal with hurt in a different way. Get those feelings out there, then hold your head up high & move forward. There is always a new adventure right around the corner. Good luck & know that I am sending good thoughts your way.

 

[Stormystarr]

Well, as Marilyn Manson says, "I wanna live, I wanna love, but it's a long hard road out of hell"

I find these words to be so true right now.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

If I had the answer I wouldn't be unhappy... nice idea I spose.

If anyone has the answer mail me... I dont care when, oh and the cure for cancer would be good too.

Da Chef

 

[Ian1]

Boy am I the WRONG person to answer this question...

Immerse yourself into someting, anything, and before you know it a whole lot a time has passed and you will feel a little better.

 

[MADDOG]

I went through the most painful experience of my life recently, and one thing I found that really helped me was to write down my feelings in a bunch of letters to the cause of my hurt. In my case it was a girl. I only sent a few, but just writing them helped me to come to terms with what happened, and it was a great release. I didn't even need to send them. In my case, I just felt I had to.

And if your problems are to do with money or something, you could write a letter to yourself about why it hurts to be broke. It may just give you the courage to change it. Or it might help you deal. Either is a good thing.

It REALLY helps. And I think it would help for almost anything. It won't fix it, but it will make it seem easier to deal with.

MADDOG

 

[Gingersnap]

I do not know the circumstances only know that loss is the pain you seem to be speaking of in your instance. Some things that help are writing your feelings every day and then walking away from it. Leave it there then take a walk outside. Allow yourself time to feel this loss and cry for gosh sakes. I guess what really helps the most is time and talking to a good friend or even here on the board. Write a story about your heartbreak put it into words. If you need someone to listen you can email me. Most important for you to remember is that you are not alone. IF you lived by me I would stop by just to hug you. Get your friends to do that ask them if you have too. It can really help touch can help heal.

 

[Guest]

By no means an expert here but I too have recently
been asking this very question. First, this whole
"healing process" is long and hard. My advise; take
it one day at a time, surround yourself with positive
people, do not dwell on the "what ifs" or the "wonder
what he/she is thinking/feeling." Take time out each day
for You, it's amazing what 10 or 15 minutes can do for
your spirit. I also try to keep this quote in mind


Yesterday is history, tomorrow's a mystery, today is a
gift, enjoy the present!

 

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