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I could never study effectively from home when I was doing my postgraduate degrees. I kept looking around seeing all the other things that needed to done. I got so much more done at the university.

How is your day going?
 
I feel you. Sometime this week I'll go to the library so I'm forced to sit quietly.
My day was long. Pretty upset I had to miss class because of a cold. I was able to do the 2 tests and 1 quiz as a take home, open book. So that was a bonus, I have a long weekend in which to get that all done.
I went tea shopping! Other then txting a friend that was the highlight of the day. I picked up a box of cherry lemon green tea that I have never tried before. Also my african nectar and a ginger tea from Mighty Leaf. I purchased a pumpkin spice and maple apple cider boxes as well. They are from a tea company called Stash, never had it! So far the Apple exceeded my expectations.
Wow! Lots of rambling about tea!
 
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You are in danger of becoming very British with all that talk of tea :D.

I hope that you're feeling better. I used to hate missing any classes though illness too.
 
Susurration said:
You are in danger of becoming very British with all that talk of tea :D.

I hope that you're feeling better. I used to hate missing any classes though illness too.
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I am a very audio learner. Missing a day of lecture is tragic! I spent the day putting together furniture. Didn't get a chance to open the books. The "ole man" promised to get everyone out of the house tomorrow and I plan on spending my Sunday morning at the library so I can catch up quickly.
All my tea is in bags, I lose any Brit street cred. :)
 
Three years on Lit...

And I have used my ignore feature for the first time in the last 48hrs...three separate times!
...../snip
 
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SquirtnBrat said:
And I have used my ignore feature for the first time in the last 48hrs...three separate times!
I'm pondering leaving. The atmosphere around here is different. When I would read and lurk in the forums some years ago it seemed like this place was so accepting. Lots of trolls and judgemental people here now.
Do not PM me bossing me around. So what if I'm more of a sub in character. That doesn't give you the right to assume anything about me. Do not attack me because you fail to recognize my authenticity. I don't need to prove myself to anyone, much less virtually. Finally, no means no. If I say no thanks, drop it. Don't send me 4 more messages trying to convince me. Am I giving these people false hope by being polite in my turn down?
I have treated lit like a refuge... Maybe I shouldn't have...
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Some guys are douche bags. See the link in my sig. Some just won't take no for an answer or believe that a girl identifying as "submissive" equals "free for everyone who labels himself a 'dom'". Being dominant isn't just about ordering someone around. Many don't get that.

Finally - please don't go. Lit can be a good place, but the Ignore feature is there for a reason.
 
RawHumor said:
Some guys are douche bags. See the link in my sig. Some just won't take no for an answer or believe that a girl identifying as "submissive" equals "free for everyone who labels himself a 'dom'". Being dominant isn't just about ordering someone around. Many don't get that.

Finally - please don't go. Lit can be a good place, but the Ignore feature is there for a reason.
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I never even used it before, I usually have thick skin.
Yes, I agree Raw, those "virtual Doms" probably have no real life experience. "I may be cheap, but I ain't free!"🎶
After rethinking things I think I'll just be more selective in who I pm with.
 
I love this pic of these two anoles cuddling. Out of all the small pets I've had, anoles were the coolest... to me anyways. If I had a larger peice of property I'd have some chickens and ducks, a few dogs, an anole clan, a family of sugar gliders, and a bat house. Actually I could have the bat house now. I'm just too lazy to build one.
Most times after sex, I want my space to stretch out. Lately I have become the nagger who demands cuddles. I try to tell myself to chill.. no one likes needy bitches.
 
Another set of suit porn... Kinda. The wool vest completely reminds me of via 90s boy bands. I reallly like the orange shirt and the mismatched leather. Something about this turns me on more then ripped abs.
 
You ought to see the size of my ignore list, it's massive :D.

Hugging and cuddling strikes me as loving not needy. Maybe also it's what you need right now? You've just started something brand new after all, and hugs can be reassuring among other things. Just a thought :).

I hope that tomorrow is going to be a good chance for you to catch up. No lazy Sunday afternoon for you it would appear :p.

In other news, autumn has started.
 
Susurration said:
You ought to see the size of my ignore list, it's massive :D.

Hugging and cuddling strikes me as loving not needy. Maybe also it's what you need right now? You've just started something brand new after all, and hugs can be reassuring among other things. Just a thought :).

I hope that tomorrow is going to be a good chance for you to catch up. No lazy Sunday afternoon for you it would appear :p.

In other news, autumn has started.
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I think you may be right about the cuddling. Your a pretty smart guy! ;) We haven't been the closest lately so that may play a part in it as well.
It's almost dinner time here and I have caught up on most of my work! I have another 50-ish pages to read within two days... Easy peasy. There is a swedish proverb "Worry casts a large shadow". Ain't that the truth?! I have got to stop freaking myself out.
How is your day going Susurration?
 
I'm not terribly smart to be honest, I've just had some more life experience than I did not so long ago, so I've learnt a few things :).

My day, and my entire weekend, is on hold waiting for information that someone else needs to give me before another organisation can process an application of mine. All very frustrating as nobody told me that this process was going to be necessary, and I can't speed it up at the weekend, as the person I need to speak to isn't around. I'm not very good at going with the flow.

The Swedes have it right with that proverb. The trouble is that anxiety isn't always that easy to shake off.

Oh, by the way, you're still British even if you have tea bags ;). Also, I don't drink tea :eek::D.
 
I hate when a situation pops up during the weekend and you can't do anything until 9am Monday just to wait on hold for 2hrs!
A Birt that doesn't drink tea?! Do you get as much shit for that as one would believe? If you were to turn down a cup of Builders and McVitie's, for example? Have your parents ever threatened to disown you? :D
 
Nope, never :D:D.

It's only akin to when I lived in Spain, but didn't eat any oranges :D. I survived that experience without incident too :D.
 
Only for about half a year. I was there for part of my studies. One day I may return, especially if things continue along the negative path they currently are in the UK.
 
I would like to visit one day, if any thing, just to check out the Spanish architecture. The closest I've been is the modern architect Ricardo Bofill Leví's building in Chicago. Which can't nearly compare with the older combined architecrure Spain is known for. I am more intrested in the older Churigueresque (sp?) facades. Beautiful!!
 
MoJo Upgrade Test for couples!

I don't know why I am thinking about this now... But has anyone done the http://mojoupgrade.com sexuality questionnaire with the spouse? How did it go?
About a year or so ago we did the test together. I was so confident about it! I thought it was a cool way to let him know about all my fantasizes without being completely judged on stuff he wasn't into. Now, mind you, even to get him to do it was a huge step! So when he did, I was pretty shocked and excited.
Our interpretations of our sex life is so vastly different! *face palm* Now I am looking over the test again trying to remember his answers and feeling like damn. It wasn't the big eye opening experience I had hoped it would be!
Thought I would share the link here though and maybe help out another couple if they haven't heard of it.
 
SquirtnBrat said:
I don't know why I am thinking about this now... But has anyone done the http://mojoupgrade.com sexuality questionnaire with the spouse? How did it go?
About a year or so ago we did the test together. I was so confident about it! I thought it was a cool way to let him know about all my fantasizes without being completely judged on stuff he wasn't into. Now, mind you, even to get him to do it was a huge step! So when he did, I was pretty shocked and excited.
Our interpretations of our sex life is so vastly different! *face palm* Now I am looking over the test again trying to remember his answers and feeling like damn. It wasn't the big eye opening experience I had hoped it would be!
Thought I would share the link here though and maybe help out another couple if they haven't heard of it.
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I have not seen this one. I will try to make it happen, but like you, it will take arm twisting to get her to participate. 😊
 
Stryderthorongil said:
I have not seen this one. I will try to make it happen, but like you, it will take arm twisting to get her to participate. 😊
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It did help us. It made me see those things he was willing to do more of. Well, willing for me to do! :p It also opened the floor to clear up insecurities. For example, one of the questions was see your partner in lingerie and receive lap dances. Before everytime I would go to bed with lingerie on, stockings, garters, ect he wouldn't touch me. I would cry myself to sleep like what was I doing wrong? So I stopped. It became an insecurity even though it used to make me feel so sexy! We talked it out and now I know if I am wearing lingerie I have to show it off. Not come to bed yanking his dick dressed like a stripper. But a teasing show... Sometimes does the trick!
 
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