Brat's Hideout!

I don't see this weekend going well. I work all weekend so maybe pretending to be energetic and happy go lucky will convince me I am.
It's been a rough few months and I just don't know what to do anymore. Just tired of consumerism. I won't drone on.

I'm sorry to hear that. I'd cook you some fried chicken wings, in honor of this weekend. :D
 
I've been alright, otherwise. Just got back from a science teacher's conference for the past three days. It wasn't bad really. Lots of lovely (but married, mostly) teachers to get social with.
 
I've been alright, otherwise. Just got back from a science teacher's conference for the past three days. It wasn't bad really. Lots of lovely (but married, mostly) teachers to get social with.

Perks up! That sounds like a blast! I wanna go next year, do I HAVE to be a teacher?! Does yoga and aerobic teacher count?!
 
Got the swordfish steaks marinating in lemon, mint, and basil. The venison chilli is in the slow cooker. 300 jello shots have set up overnight. Working on the the twice baked potatoes so they are prepped before game time. Now it's time to work on all my deserts. Mini cherry cheese cakes, mini cookie shooters, mini football cookies, and goal posts cinnamon twists! I love having an excuse to spoil my friends! Let the party begin... at 5. Can't wait. :nana:
 
Morning Viper! Somehow I managed to get the day off!!
Do you have any plans for the game?
 
I have about 30 guests coming by, you could get lost in the crowd. If anyone asks you're Ted's cousin. :D
 
Got the swordfish steaks marinating in lemon, mint, and basil. The venison chilli is in the slow cooker. 300 jello shots have set up overnight. Working on the the twice baked potatoes so they are prepped before game time. Now it's time to work on all my deserts. Mini cherry cheese cakes, mini cookie shooters, mini football cookies, and goal posts cinnamon twists! I love having an excuse to spoil my friends! Let the party begin... at 5. Can't wait. :nana:

Maybe I can swing by... (if I left 2 hours ago. :p)
 
Got the swordfish steaks marinating in lemon, mint, and basil. The venison chilli is in the slow cooker. 300 jello shots have set up overnight. Working on the the twice baked potatoes so they are prepped before game time. Now it's time to work on all my deserts. Mini cherry cheese cakes, mini cookie shooters, mini football cookies, and goal posts cinnamon twists! I love having an excuse to spoil my friends! Let the party begin... at 5. Can't wait. :nana:

Holy crap. And here I was proud of myself for making homemade spinach artichoke dip to bring to the party I'm attending.
 
Got the swordfish steaks marinating in lemon, mint, and basil. The venison chilli is in the slow cooker. 300 jello shots have set up overnight. Working on the the twice baked potatoes so they are prepped before game time. Now it's time to work on all my deserts. Mini cherry cheese cakes, mini cookie shooters, mini football cookies, and goal posts cinnamon twists! I love having an excuse to spoil my friends! Let the party begin... at 5. Can't wait. :nana:

I'm crashing this party!;)
 
I miss my buddies on Lit. Been too busy at work and house hunting to pop in. I hope everyone is having a good February. Speaking of... anyone do anything fun for Valentine's?
 
I miss my buddies on Lit. Been too busy at work and house hunting to pop in. I hope everyone is having a good February. Speaking of... anyone do anything fun for Valentine's?

We miss you too Brat!

Good luck with the house hunting and I did nothing for VD
 
Wife and I didn't even say happy valentines to each other. Now we did end up getting a heart shaped pizza from Pizza Hut and I got it with mushrooms for her instead of peperoni for me.

Good luck with the house hunting :( . You need to PM me. Just wondering what's up and haven't heard from ya in awhile.
 
Wife and I didn't even say happy valentines to each other. Now we did end up getting a heart shaped pizza from Pizza Hut and I got it with mushrooms for her instead of peperoni for me.

Good luck with the house hunting :( . You need to PM me. Just wondering what's up and haven't heard from ya in awhile.

Sacrificing your pepperoni! What a swell guy!

I finally found my tiny house!! It took six long months but I finally found exactly what I wanted in my town. We close on Tuesday so I'm praying everything moves forward!
 
Sacrificing your pepperoni! What a swell guy!

I finally found my tiny house!! It took six long months but I finally found exactly what I wanted in my town. We close on Tuesday so I'm praying everything moves forward!

Yay! Good luck with that! I also have developments too, if you wanna PM me! ;)
 
Question.....

If you have a sexual concern do you always bring it up with your partner? For example if sex feels stale, faked, or ungenuine... or do you just wait it out and see if it happens again?
What if you bring it up and they act like things aren't different. How do you recover from that? Oh.... sorry I overreacted... you really did have a leg cramp?! Or what.....
 
If you have a sexual concern do you always bring it up with your partner? For example if sex feels stale, faked, or ungenuine... or do you just wait it out and see if it happens again?
What if you bring it up and they act like things aren't different. How do you recover from that? Oh.... sorry I overreacted... you really did have a leg cramp?! Or what.....
That's a tough one. I think a lot of us here would like to know the answer.

I think it's easy to bring it up and try to resolve the issue. But what if things don't go the way you think they will and somehow it affects your relationship in some other way (making things worse).

I'm sorry you're in this spot. :(
 
I appreciate the lovemaking. I am trying to figure out if I was pity fucked, if it was "just for me", or if he genuinely wanted to do xyz when xyz has never happened before. Since he didn't finish up, refused actually, I 'm guessing it was just pity. Which sucks. Cause I had fun minus the aftermath of not knowing what just happened. If that all makes sense, if not PM me. And I'll spell it out. Lol.
 
I appreciate the lovemaking. I am trying to figure out if I was pity fucked, if it was "just for me", or if he genuinely wanted to do xyz when xyz has never happened before. Since he didn't finish up, refused actually, I 'm guessing it was just pity. Which sucks. Cause I had fun minus the aftermath of not knowing what just happened. If that all makes sense, if not PM me. And I'll spell it out. Lol.

Hi Brat!

Hope your weekend is going well. Not sure what to make of the above.
 
I always want to talk about our sex life, how to improve it, what he wants more of, or less of... but sometimes I think me always thinking about it and wanting to improve our connection makes it seem as though I can never be truly satisfied. Which isn't the case at all!!
So to the married men out there.... does sex talk with wifey seem like nagging? How can I sound less nagging if I'm coming off that way?
I have always said I don't want to be the nagger. So I don't rag on him on chores ect, but now feel like he may think these sex conversations ARE nagging.:eek:
 
I always want to talk about our sex life, how to improve it, what he wants more of, or less of... but sometimes I think me always thinking about it and wanting to improve our connection makes it seem as though I can never be truly satisfied. Which isn't the case at all!!
So to the married men out there.... does sex talk with wifey seem like nagging? How can I sound less nagging if I'm coming off that way?
I have always said I don't want to be the nagger. So I don't rag on him on chores ect, but now feel like he may think these sex conversations ARE nagging.:eek:

maybe reading erotica..TO each other..? Or suggesting some he can read?

Or watching some videos together... with.."ooo! I like that"

"That would be fun to try, don't you think?"
 
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