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[/snip] I am very tempted at the thought of dating outside of my relationship. He has become so emotionally unavailable I think he would even understand.
I'm going to wait a few days. Think about it. And maybe then start the conversation with him.
 
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SquirtnBrat said:
Last night I was attempting to get laid, I know hiarious.... when a irl friend sent me a message. He suggested "an encounter where my cock is in your mouth and my cum is on your face." Not very poetic... I dunno how I feel about that. On one hand flattered a little bit because hey it's 1:30am and homeboy is thinking of me. Whereas my hands are all over my hubby and it feels like the universe is against me and I'm defiantly not getting any out of him. Then I think wtf is it about me that guys think I am here just for them? I don't receive irl messages asking me out, wanting to show me a good time. Probably because of that whole "marriage thing". Then again... It's probably for the best I don't. Because then I'd be tempted too.
I guess what I'm trying to say is I am very tempted at the thought of dating outside of my relationship. He has become so emotionally unavailable I think he would even understand.
I'm going to wait a few days. Think about it. And maybe then start the conversation with him.
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Sometimes you just have to do what is best for you
 
VIPER2121 said:
Sometimes you just have to do what is best for you
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I'm still trying to figure out what that is exactly.

It's Sunday. I have a short shift today. I was hoping to wake up to some sleepy sex. It's 1030 now so I guess I should get out of bed, stop the pouting and make some coffee. A nice long workout and some steam room time would really benefit my mood!
 
SquirtnBrat said:
[/snip] I am very tempted at the thought of dating outside of my relationship. He has become so emotionally unavailable I think he would even understand.
I'm going to wait a few days. Think about it. And maybe then start the conversation with him.
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That makes sense. I think I've suggested coffee at some point. :)

Not sure when I'll be back your way though...
 
SquirtnBrat said:
[/snip] I am very tempted at the thought of dating outside of my relationship. He has become so emotionally unavailable I think he would even understand.
I'm going to wait a few days. Think about it. And maybe then start the conversation with him.
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Where’s the damn like button?

SO know them feelings and thoughts!! 😞
 
coacheric said:
Where’s the damn like button?

SO know them feelings and thoughts!! 😞
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Where do you go from here ya know?
Hopefully tonight we can reconnect and talk.
I just came home from the gym and we already got loud with each other... Over Bon Jovi. #sorrynotsorry they still suck! Lol
 
'd watch you shake your "pom-poms",
but baseball....?

ack.



:)


isn't Justin Timberake performing at halftime?
 
Wow!

What a game!!!

I'm doing good. Work was great, workout was good enough for a Sunday, now I'm just enjoying the game. Thank you for asking, V.

Anyone do anything fun today?
 
SquirtnBrat said:
What a game!!!

I'm doing good. Work was great, workout was good enough for a Sunday, now I'm just enjoying the game. Thank you for asking, V.

Anyone do anything fun today?
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I went to a friends house to watch the Cowboys game. Exciting I know!
 
SquirtnBrat said:
Where do you go from here ya know?
Hopefully tonight we can reconnect and talk.
I just came home from the gym and we already got loud with each other... Over Bon Jovi. #sorrynotsorry they still suck! Lol
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I don’t really know where to go with it anymore. Still care for and love her but when you don’t get ANY sex you start seeing that it is part of a healthy relationship. And without it there are struggles.
 
SquirtnBrat said:
[/snip] I am very tempted at the thought of dating outside of my relationship. He has become so emotionally unavailable I think he would even understand.
I'm going to wait a few days. Think about it. And maybe then start the conversation with him.
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I was in a zero relationship for years before the divorce. Having time for a second real relationship is almost impossible. But meeting people for a short visit, hook up just for sex is possible. If it is just for sex there is not as much time commitment.

One rule that seemed to be happening was to deny any other relationship was happening. Since it was just sex contact was only when setting a date.

I met girls that were not getting any sex at home that were just out for the sex. Friendships and connections were made but since the reason for the date was sex it was understood that anything more was not expected.

:):):):):):):)
 
SquirtnBrat said:
[/snip] I am very tempted at the thought of dating outside of my relationship. He has become so emotionally unavailable I think he would even understand.
I'm going to wait a few days. Think about it. And maybe then start the conversation with him.
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Just a reflection on this, lovely one:
Flirtatious admiration, and then sex, is one thing - and a huge thing!
Emotional availability is, well, quite another thing.
Dating outside your relationship would give you the first for sure.
It's only a full-blown affair, with all its complications, could give you the second while you're married. No?

Hey. That said ... I would totally adore to give you the first! :cool:
 
Was I the only one watching that game!!? Glad I stayed up to watch it! Baseball gods have created an amazing series so far.

Okay... So I'm obviously a very bisexual lady who enjoys gender roles. I have always thought a polygamous relationship was the right way to go. I have several friendships with couples who are in triangle poly relationships and people who are in open relationships. I don't think polyandry is really for me. However I would love to pursue the idea of an open relationship. Back in 2013 we dabbled with the idea. It went as far as talking about sharing our bed with a lady I became romantically interested in. Jealousy popped up. Instead of really talking threw it he just shut down and forbid the idea. Kind of. Other the years it has been a discussion.
I'm not saying a sneaky affair. At all.
I think we should do some reevaluation on our views of poly and open.
 
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