BP's perfect man

your perfect

:rose: I am surprised to find you looking for me!! LOL!!!
I am a bit older than you asked for. But an inch taller!. I love the outdoors. long hikes in the silence of the woods.I have a very good job $$,$$$.I am passionate, yet reserved. Stern, yet forgiving.
My body is trim and healthy. And I'm very adventurous when it comes to trying new things. Especially when it's shared with someone special. [ not refering to sex]
I like being around people that share the adventure for getting as much out of life as possible. Someone who wants to be kissed, as well as wanting to kiss me. Someone who is not afraid to show there feelings no matter the place or time. There is no bad time to show feelings of love and support.
Hobbies: I can fix damn neer anything. Pardon the french. From homes , cars, computers, those anoying kinks . Music is a big part of my life. Every song seems to express something in our daily lives. I am currently exploring the blues, but play plenty of others. I have a few guitars, which would go good next to the big sofa we share our nights talk on. I used to be a drummer. Decided to explore a different beat.
I couldn't agree with you more about education. Books give you the tools to set your destination, your willingness to work at it is the vehicle that will take you anywhere you want to go.
Sex; Well.. it is what you make of it. Agree? It can be adventurous, intense, or a straight forward " I needed that". I take better care of my body than any man I know. To keep healthy, and to be ready for anything you desire. Can explain in a PM if you wish.
So anyway. Hello!! And good luck. :kiss:
 
bare_pussy said:
It worked for Meta and SnS, so I'm going to try it too...

I'm moving to Washington, DC in a couple of months to begin a new life outside of academics - dare I say, entering the real world...I think it would be a great time to put my past relationships behind me and look for a man that really and truly wants to be with me for who I am, and who I will become as a result of this new chapter in my life.

Me: I'm going to be 24 in a couple of weeks, I love to travel, see new museum exhibits, spend time with my family, discuss politics, current events, and foreign affairs. I've lived and traveled extensively in Europe. I enjoy cooking for my friends, a good bottle of wine and am even considering taking a few wine classes when I move to learn more about it. I think of myself as an atypical woman, but admit I'm typical in a lot of ways. I know I'm smart, and I know I need to work on my confidence levels, perhaps because of previous relationships. While others have 'issues' they don't know about. I know all of mine;)
Physically, I'm 5'6 and curvy, but I go to the gym 5-6 days a week an have lost good amount of weight in the past year. Perhaps I'm just now breaking out of my shell and realizing how sexy I am. I have dark, curly hair but tend to wear it straight, and have dark eyes with very long eye lashes.

You: You're between the ages of 25 and 30, like the same things as I do, but have other hobbies you want to teach me about. You have a decent job that you enjoy, despite its ups and downs, and you know I'll always be there to hear you complain about it. You are passionate about culture - music of all kinds, good wine, art, and travel. You are educated, but you also know that there is more to life than book smarts, and have complimented your education with real world experiences that have enriched you. Even though your education is over, you know learning never ends. You are confident but not cocky, and most importantly - you WANT to be with me. You crave me mentally, emotionally, and physically because I deserve it. You are also open to the idea that a woman can be honest, faithful, and loving without pushing her away.

Physically: you're taller than I am (which isn't difficult), healthy physically and mentally, you're physically active and would be happy to take a jog with me in Rock Creek Park on a beautiful sunday morning. Six packs are nice, but the man is a hell of a lot more important than the body.

Worse comes to worse, I make a few friends in a city where I have none. I'm not looking for a husband and kids, just someone to open my eyes to what it's like to be in love again, and have someone love me. I'm passionate, caring, and sweet - but I do have a caustic side.

So, hopefully you're interested..I'm ready to find you:)

I just read this and don't qualify at all - plus I am in the UK. But it is one heck of a good post and anyone reading it must really really feel how right it would be for you to meet someone who can give and share the love that you, really that all of us deserve and are made for.

Good luck.
 
Excuse me for interrupting, so you live in Europe now and are moving to DC? I'm playing catch up here!

:)
 
bare_pussy said:
...sigh....no one responds...

I think you intimidiated everyone. Since you were so specific in what you're looking for, maybe there aren't too many guys that feel they're what you're looking for. Maybe you just scared them off with all the words.

Seems to me that most guys searching personals are just looking for an easy lay.
Let's try an experiment. Wait a few days for this thread to drop off the first page and start a new thread. This time just write one sentence about looking for a guy to do you in the ass no strings attached. I bet you'll get a ton of replies.
 
no it's a joke about the marxist town i live in...
sorry...
i live in massachusetts for a few more months
 
Comedy

Ah, thanks for the clarification as I guess that joke hadn't reached the midwest yet! We're still doing knock knock jokes.

:nana:
 
I'm glad to see the thread is going strong Dr. BP. From all indications you will have quite the busy social calender upon arriving in our fair District. I noticed you mentioned martinis earlier, so I will raise my Saphire etxra dry, up, and of course very dirty, in your honor. Cheers
 
quite the opposite - few serious responses...
maybe DCers just aren't represented here lol
 
Seriously...

bare_pussy said:
quite the opposite - few serious responses...
maybe DCers just aren't represented here lol[/QUOTE

I would have to say that I agree in part to the response by cg_allstar...I know that I fall outside of the 'perfect' man...but then again I am also of the mindset that there is no such thing as the 'perfect man' or 'perfect woman'...only one that is perfect for you..and as I have gotten older I have noticed that what I thought would be perfect a few years ago isn't necessarily as important as now...but that's just me...
on a side note..I will be in Boston on the 16th staying overnight, traveling for business..
if you are near there and would be interested in maybe saying hello and just chatting for a little bit....drop me a line and we'll take it from there....
 
Well BP, I don't know about DC, but I live in Mass now and would love to meet up...but I guess that will be up to you darlin. I'm a law student, I'm 25, 6'1, and in good shape. I know there are some pics of me around here somewhere, so if you're interested let me know. I would love to meet up...
 
gldflcn said:
bare_pussy said:
quite the opposite - few serious responses...
maybe DCers just aren't represented here lol[/QUOTE

I would have to say that I agree in part to the response by cg_allstar...I know that I fall outside of the 'perfect' man...but then again I am also of the mindset that there is no such thing as the 'perfect man' or 'perfect woman'...only one that is perfect for you..and as I have gotten older I have noticed that what I thought would be perfect a few years ago isn't necessarily as important as now...but that's just me...
on a side note..I will be in Boston on the 16th staying overnight, traveling for business..
if you are near there and would be interested in maybe saying hello and just chatting for a little bit....drop me a line and we'll take it from there....

i live 200 miles from boston...so perhaps we should stick to the DC route? lol
 
bare_pussy said:
gldflcn said:
i know you were, and believe me - i wish i lived near boston.
But actually, I'll be on spring break, and going to DC the 17th...:)

well I'll be back on the 28th....guess we'll just have to take it from there..
 
Hi BP,
I do not meet your age requirements but if you need somebody to occasionally hang with until you get to know the area and find that special guy, let me know. I have tried to get a DC happy hour going a few times but cannot seem to get any interest so maybe you can break the ice. Send me a PM and I will try to put together a "Welcome to DC" happy hour. Hope you are excited about the pending move. :)
 
Looking4Fun46 said:
Hi BP,
I do not meet your age requirements but if you need somebody to occasionally hang with until you get to know the area and find that special guy, let me know. I have tried to get a DC happy hour going a few times but cannot seem to get any interest so maybe you can break the ice. Send me a PM and I will try to put together a "Welcome to DC" happy hour. Hope you are excited about the pending move. :)

Bumping
 
i think this thread is more dead than my pic thread.
oh well. thanks for trying!
 
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