BP's perfect man

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BP's perfect man (washington, DC)

It worked for Meta and SnS, so I'm going to try it too...

I'm moving to Washington, DC in a couple of months to begin a new life outside of academics - dare I say, entering the real world...I think it would be a great time to put my past relationships behind me and look for a man that really and truly wants to be with me for who I am, and who I will become as a result of this new chapter in my life.

Me: I'm going to be 24 in a couple of weeks, I love to travel, see new museum exhibits, spend time with my family, discuss politics, current events, and foreign affairs. I've lived and traveled extensively in Europe. I enjoy cooking for my friends, a good bottle of wine and am even considering taking a few wine classes when I move to learn more about it. I think of myself as an atypical woman, but admit I'm typical in a lot of ways. I know I'm smart, and I know I need to work on my confidence levels, perhaps because of previous relationships. While others have 'issues' they don't know about. I know all of mine;)
Physically, I'm 5'6 and curvy, but I go to the gym 5-6 days a week an have lost good amount of weight in the past year. Perhaps I'm just now breaking out of my shell and realizing how sexy I am. I have dark, curly hair but tend to wear it straight, and have dark eyes with very long eye lashes.

You: You're between the ages of 25 and 30, like the same things as I do, but have other hobbies you want to teach me about. You have a decent job that you enjoy, despite its ups and downs, and you know I'll always be there to hear you complain about it. You are passionate about culture - music of all kinds, good wine, art, and travel. You are educated, but you also know that there is more to life than book smarts, and have complimented your education with real world experiences that have enriched you. Even though your education is over, you know learning never ends. You are confident but not cocky, and most importantly - you WANT to be with me. You crave me mentally, emotionally, and physically because I deserve it. You are also open to the idea that a woman can be honest, faithful, and loving without pushing her away.

Physically: you're taller than I am (which isn't difficult), healthy physically and mentally, you're physically active and would be happy to take a jog with me in Rock Creek Park on a beautiful sunday morning. Six packs are nice, but the man is a hell of a lot more important than the body.

Worse comes to worse, I make a few friends in a city where I have none. I'm not looking for a husband and kids, just someone to open my eyes to what it's like to be in love again, and have someone love me. I'm passionate, caring, and sweet - but I do have a caustic side.

So, hopefully you're interested..I'm ready to find you:)
 
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I recently moved to DC myself. I think you will enjoy the culture that comes with it. Good news? I fit your description to a "T". Bad news? I am already married. But like you said, perhaps I can be one of those new friends you spoke of. Feel free to send me a PM if you want to chat.
 
guess you'll just have to get a divorce once you realize how fabulous I am...lol
 
about the divorce or how fabulous i am? i think any guys replying to my pic thread would agree i'm pretty fab!;)
 
ah well, i don't actually want you to get divorced - that's not really nice, now is it?
 
no not really, but that;s not how i took it. I can sympathize with your move. Do you know anyone here? It can be challenging moving to a new place, but it sounds as if your academic pursuits have caused this before. Will we have to refer to you as Dr. Barepussy come this spring? What field have you dedicated all this time to?
 
bare_pussy said:
You are educated, but you also know that there is more to life than book smarts, and have complimented your education with real world experiences that have enriched you. Even though your education is over, you know learning never ends. You are confident but not cocky, and most importantly - you WANT to be with me. You crave me mentally, emotionally, and physically because I deserve it. You are also open to the idea that a woman can be honest, faithful, and loving without pushing her away.

Bare_pussy a great post. I especiaLLy Liked the above. I have a pint of aLe and I toast you good Luck on your quest! :nana:

PS - Shame I'm too oLd for you! And then again there is the matter of the big pond between us.. :)
 
Alas, I missed the age curve by a few years haha. Good luck with your search though.. DC is a great city from what I've experienced and judging by your pictures, you shouldnt have any trouble attracting some candidates. ;)
 
bare_pussy said:
you'd be surprised...

Hey there...I was looking at your add and much like the gentlemen a few responses up...I missed the curve....of course that is DEFINITELY my loss b/c you are definitely a very beautiful woman...(yes I have seen your thread)...
I have lived in the DC area before and am now living in N Virginia and looking forward to being back to explore the area again...
If you decide to expand your age range (to say 33 or so) I would be very interested in chatting more....and if not perhaps you would still be interested in hanging out once in awhile.....
 
of course I'm open to friends:) Never hurts to meet for a nice martini, does it?
 
bare_pussy said:
of course I'm open to friends:) Never hurts to meet for a nice martini, does it?
one would hope not..but you were pretty detailed in your description...of course I won't lay claim to having EVERYTHING but the age...but I'm close enough that I thought I'd write to you...and say hello
 
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