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teddie_grl said:
Well I don't know about being a sissy, but I do love a hard cock and hot cum, and I don't mind sharing :kiss:
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I may be in a minority, but I hate labels in general...too often, those labels are then made negative or limiting in scope taking away why the label was there to begin with. Then if you are labeled one thing or the other, it is "assumed" that that is all you are and not open to anything else. Others then take those labels and pigeon hole the person. What is wrong with an individual just liking cock, kitty or both? And if you change orientation (top or bottom), then isn't that ok as well?

Just a pet peeve.
 
I think my name may give it away in my case.......with regard to "labels" I think in this case it's just giving people an indication of your preferences.
 
ssremember129 said:
I may be in a minority, but I hate labels in general...too often, those labels are then made negative or limiting in scope taking away why the label was there to begin with. Then if you are labeled one thing or the other, it is "assumed" that that is all you are and not open to anything else. Others then take those labels and pigeon hole the person. What is wrong with an individual just liking cock, kitty or both? And if you change orientation (top or bottom), then isn't that ok as well?

Just a pet peeve.
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Well said. Sex should not be demeaning. There's too much of that in the world as it is.
 
MatureSensualBottom said:
I think my name may give it away in my case.......with regard to "labels" I think in this case it's just giving people an indication of your preferences.
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I agree. There may be a little hypersensitivity on display here. "Trigger warning: Someone asked if I'm a top or a bottom." Let's see if the Social Justice Warriors can make a case out of it.

As it says in my profile, and is made evident in my forum posts and stories, "I yam what I yam". I've always bottomed with other men and been versatile with my wife. No shame in that.

If you have an issue with the question, why respond at all? People who don't want to be labeled, or "pigeonholed" always have the out of saying they're "versatile". It's as simple as that.
 
I just don't know

I've never been with a guy but I sure fantasise about it a lot. Mostly my thoughts tend towards being made to do nasty things by a bigger stronger man. He physically forces me, his weight bearing down on me. His heat deep in me. Sometime I imagine I struggle (a bit) and beg him to stop but he's doesn't.

So if anyone knows if I'm a top or a bottom please feel free to PM me and let me know. The nastier the language the better :)
 
gunthernehmen said:
I love bottoming, either orally or anally. I love to make my partner cum and take it wherever he or she wishes. As a teen I had fantasies/day dreams of waking up in the hospital to find if been in some accident that made it a toss up whether to reconstruct me as a boy or a girl and somehow they picked girl. Or if only I had been born a girl.

Yet I don't consider myself a sissy.

I don't cross dress. I don't think I look good that way. I'd be taken for a red necked iron worker before anyone guessed my white collar profession. I love women, but I crave sex with both men and women. I enjoy male companionship / activities but my sexual/romantic interest mostly ends with their penis. Maybe their ass and once in a while, abs, biceps OK don't get me started...

So I'm a bottom, mostly, but I have no idea if I'm a typical bottom or an oddball.
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I'm also a big, direct and dominating man that no one would think of as having submissive fantasies or desires. The idea of being on my knees while servicing a man before being bent over what ever is handy to get a good fucking simply excites me.

I want to bottom. If I'm with a woman, I want her to ride my face, then ride my cock until I cum, then ride my face and clean my cum out of her pussy.'

I'm a bottom. I want to be taken, used and appreciated for bottoming.

There were times that I would dress up as a girl and it was just so much fun. I would stay home from school and put on my sister's panties and girdle. I would get so hard. I hadn't learned how to jack off yet.

After I learned to jack off, there were times that I wanted to wear panties and have a man coax me out of them, take me and fuck me, make me please him.
 
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I'm bi and probably end up being more of a bottom but would consider myself a bit of both.
When it comes to straight sex, I enjoy both being the dominant partner (the extent of that depends on the partner) but also love being used by a woman, having her sit on my face, using a strapon etc...
With guys, I thought I'd be more of a top when I first started experimenting but having found my feet, I love the feeling of being fucked, taking a hard cock, making a guy cum. Also love sucking a cock. That being said, I love watching a guy suck me and fucking a tight arse makes me cum so quickly.
 
I'm still in the curious stage I haven't been with another man but I do know that I would enjoy being a bottom. ;)
 
I haven't had the opportunity yet but my desire is to be the bottom
 
So fun there

HiddenKelly said:
I haven't had the opportunity yet but my desire is to be the bottom
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I love being the bottom. He has to do all the work, get hard, etc. I was a macho dude all my life, and now I get to be the fag sissy.
 
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