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bottom or top?

Bottom all the way with the one exception of a tgirl I know very well who is too hot not to top for
 
Originally Posted by Luv2SukMOff
This is beautiful! Of course, I'm 100% BOTTOM...so, yeah, baby! Push that cum inside me!!! Mmmmm...💕
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Yes, yes, yes............... me too.
 
Sorry I like the the best of both worlds I want both. Only bottomed once looking for more.
 
With men? 100% Bottom. I never really thought about it, or planned it that way, it's just that my ass has been hungry to be penetrated and spread by something, be it cock or toy, since...well...since as long as I've been sexually aware.

Even with my wife, I'm versatile.
 
Stacy_TG said:
I'm a sissy. Bottom all the way!!!

:)
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I love bottoming, either orally or anally. I love to make my partner cum and take it wherever he or she wishes. As a teen I had fantasies/day dreams of waking up in the hospital to find if been in some accident that made it a toss up whether to reconstruct me as a boy or a girl and somehow they picked girl. Or if only I had been born a girl.

Yet I don't consider myself a sissy.

I don't cross dress. I don't think I look good that way. I'd be taken for a red necked iron worker before anyone guessed my white collar profession. I love women, but I crave sex with both men and women. I enjoy male companionship / activities but my sexual/romantic interest mostly ends with their penis. Maybe their ass and once in a while, abs, biceps OK don't get me started...

So I'm a bottom, mostly, but I have no idea if I'm a typical bottom or an oddball.
 
gunthernehmen said:
I love bottoming, either orally or anally. I love to make my partner cum and take it wherever he or she wishes. As a teen I had fantasies/day dreams of waking up in the hospital to find if been in some accident that made it a toss up whether to reconstruct me as a boy or a girl and somehow they picked girl. Or if only I had been born a girl.

Yet I don't consider myself a sissy.

I don't cross dress. I don't think I look good that way. I'd be taken for a red necked iron worker before anyone guessed my white collar profession. I love women, but I crave sex with both men and women. I enjoy male companionship / activities but my sexual/romantic interest mostly ends with their penis. Maybe their ass and once in a while, abs, biceps OK don't get me started...

So I'm a bottom, mostly, but I have no idea if I'm a typical bottom or an oddball.
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Before I came here, I wondered if anyone quite felt like me. Like you, Gunthernehmen, I consider myself to be very masculine. But I don't think of myself as a woman, or would want to be. And that is completely okay.

I am a people pleaser at heart. That can be a good thing, as people pleasers are usually nice people. It can be bad if I did not learn to value myself and be assertive. But sexually, I have always wanted to please. It took me much of my life to even give men a thought, and it was not until I stumbled across transsexuals that I found how aroused I could be by a stiff cock. That personal revelation helped me stumble across male-on-male sex.

Given my conservative midwestern Catholic upbringing, this is the very opposite of what I was programmed to be. It took a lot of deprogramming for me to accept my new perspective. I don't have any romantic or emotional desires for men, and to look at a photo of a ripped man doesn't generate any response from me.

But the sight of a stiff cock hypnotizes me and leaves me raging with one desire: to please it. I want to suck a guy to completion and have him fill my mouth with his cum. I want to feel his hands on my head, guiding me helplessly up and down his shaft, running his fingers through my hair. I want to be topped bareback and be bred with his seed. I want to feel a man's cock deep inside me, feel his power, helpless to stop it. I want to hear the incredibly erotic squishy sound of his hips as that slap repeatedly on my ass. I want to feel his cock swelling, growing, twitching, and finally exploding in my throat and abdomen, the sensation of electricity as he totally loses all control.

So yes. I am a bottom.

I hate labels. Bottom, cocksucker, sissy, bitch, they do sound demeaning in the way a racial slur is demeaning. I wish it weren't so. I just know this is what I want, and pleasing someone else, as long as he is not hurtful, violent, deceitful (as in lying about diseases), or demeaning, sex this way can be incredible.
 
gunthernehmen said:
I love bottoming, either orally or anally. I love to make my partner cum and take it wherever he or she wishes. As a teen I had fantasies/day dreams of waking up in the hospital to find if been in some accident that made it a toss up whether to reconstruct me as a boy or a girl and somehow they picked girl. Or if only I had been born a girl.

Yet I don't consider myself a sissy.

I don't cross dress. I don't think I look good that way. I'd be taken for a red necked iron worker before anyone guessed my white collar profession. I love women, but I crave sex with both men and women. I enjoy male companionship / activities but my sexual/romantic interest mostly ends with their penis. Maybe their ass and once in a while, abs, biceps OK don't get me started...

So I'm a bottom, mostly, but I have no idea if I'm a typical bottom or an oddball.
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I don't know if there is any "typical" bottom anymore than there is a typical top. As a top, I know that for me, the desire to be close to a guy started very early. I had a strong attrac tion the first time I saw a hairy masculine man. I also remember in my teens wanting so bad to touch adult men's asses, but I didn't for fear they would beat me up even if I tried to make it seem like I just brushed up against them.

When I first had m2m sex wasn't until I was 21.5 years of age. I didn't get to top until about two years later because I was led to believe that only hung guys could top. The saying that some guys said was that hung guys glide, smaller penises poke and thus were uncomfortable. I was misserable as though I enjoyed being close to a guy, I just didn't get anything out of playing with penises. Sure I was happy if the guy enjoyed the experience and got off, but it just wasn't me.

Two years into it, I got to top. For the first time, I felt how wonderful m2m sex could be. Though I have ED now which keeps me from being able to penetrate my partner, I still think of topping all the time. I suppose there are some guys who become bottoms because of ED, but it just wouldn't be me. I'm not wired that way. Now, that doesn't make me more masculine than a bottom. It is just being honest.

Note, the only thing I ever thought was odd was all the guys who claim to only be attracted to penises. Penises don't exist in a vacuum. They require a person behind them, blood, brains. While when we are young it is very easy to just get hard, but the older you get the brain has to be turned on. Even before the ED, things had to be going in my head to get off. For me, I have to think about being totally engulfed in a guy. When I'm inside a guy, we are one. I'm not just looking at an asshole and seeing how nice and clean it is, (or to a lesser extent a beautiful mouth). They like penises do not exist in a vacuum.

Note that when I mount a man, I'm not in a rush to orgasm, but in a voyage of being in that state of oneness as long as he will enjoy that union. I want to see his eyes. I want to hear his breathing and any sounds he makes. I want to feel every part of his body reacting favorably to the union. I have no desire to rape a guy, nor do I enjoy it if he is miserable. I also love the closeness before and after the act. I love smelling my cum on/in him. I left my mark.

While I don't want him to become a woman, I do wish I could create life with another guy. If all a guy was to me was a whole to get off in, I could just buy one of those kinds of toys. I suppose in some weird way, I've been on a life long quest back to some kind of male womb. When I sleep with my man, I love having my body intertwined with his. I like to have some part of my skin near his asshole as that part of the body radiates so much warmth. I do wish I could go back to my youth, because back then not only did I get hard easily, but I could sometimes get hard again and simply slip back in a bit without waking a guy -- especially if he still had lube there.

I will always find bottom men like angels, as I couldn't imagine life without being with a man that wants me inside him. Sure, I may be an oddity as a top. What matters isn't whether I'm typical or an oddity, but that I'm honest with myself. Life would be simpler if I didn't crave wanting to be inside another guy. It is my Achilles heel as I depend on that closeness to find contentment. Without it my mind would always be in a storm.
 
Same here

GregInOC said:
Before I came here, I wondered if anyone quite felt like me. Like you, Gunthernehmen, I consider myself to be very masculine. But I don't think of myself as a woman, or would want to be. And that is completely okay.

I am a people pleaser at heart. That can be a good thing, as people pleasers are usually nice people. It can be bad if I did not learn to value myself and be assertive. But sexually, I have always wanted to please. It took me much of my life to even give men a thought, and it was not until I stumbled across transsexuals that I found how aroused I could be by a stiff cock. That personal revelation helped me stumble across male-on-male sex.

Given my conservative midwestern Catholic upbringing, this is the very opposite of what I was programmed to be. It took a lot of deprogramming for me to accept my new perspective. I don't have any romantic or emotional desires for men, and to look at a photo of a ripped man doesn't generate any response from me.

But the sight of a stiff cock hypnotizes me and leaves me raging with one desire: to please it. I want to suck a guy to completion and have him fill my mouth with his cum. I want to feel his hands on my head, guiding me helplessly up and down his shaft, running his fingers through my hair. I want to be topped bareback and be bred with his seed. I want to feel a man's cock deep inside me, feel his power, helpless to stop it. I want to hear the incredibly erotic squishy sound of his hips as that slap repeatedly on my ass. I want to feel his cock swelling, growing, twitching, and finally exploding in my throat and abdomen, the sensation of electricity as he totally loses all control.

So yes. I am a bottom.

I hate labels. Bottom, cocksucker, sissy, bitch, they do sound demeaning in the way a racial slur is demeaning. I wish it weren't so. I just know this is what I want, and pleasing someone else, as long as he is not hurtful, violent, deceitful (as in lying about diseases), or demeaning, sex this way can be incredible.
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I feel the same way although i do enjoy wearing lingerie.
 
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